Quit this, not brother.
Northeast China is the region most poisoned by wine table culture. Northeasters try to persuade wine themselves, but they are also the most loyal areas. If you use your feelings as a bargaining chip when you persuade people to drink, then you have been looked down upon by the Northeast people, and the straightforward Northeast people may express their dissatisfaction on the spot, leaving you in a dilemma.
Northeasters are loyal to each other, and so will the wine table. Northeasters may attach more importance to their friends than you can imagine, so it must be difficult for you to attend the banquet of Northeasters. Since you have participated in the Northeast Wine Bureau, it means that the opposite side has made you one of our own, and if you use this brotherly relationship to coerce each other to drink at this time, it will be annoying. So, on the northeast wine table, try not to say such things. If you want to persuade wine, you must persuade wine. Don't be a brother. Be generous. Northeasters are also willing to drink the suggested wine.
He doesn't even drink, and he's not a man.
If you are a close friend, you may laugh at this sentence as a joke, but if you don't know you so well, you will only feel that what you said is full of threats.
Talking on the wine table is the most taboo. There are no proper restrictions like this, which is really uncomfortable. If you say this a few times, it is estimated that no one will want to drink with you again.
Disappointing words
Anyone with high emotional intelligence will speak differently depending on the occasion. Never say anything disappointing on the wine table, such as "drinking is not good" or "drinking is harmful to health", which will make people feel very disappointed. It was a very happy thing to get together to drink and chat. You just threw cold water at this time. Although it is well-intentioned, it is really inappropriate to say such things on this occasion.
Generally speaking, if you don't drink on the wine table, you must be careful when you speak, eat more vegetables and talk less, so as not to spoil everyone's fun and make people feel disgusted. What kind of person do you hate most when drinking?