S said one question after another: "Love is a great power. Without love, there is no education. " In fact, education without love is education without death, and education without love is the failure of education. The most effective means of education is "education of love".

The Guiding Outline of Kindergarten Education clearly puts forward that it is necessary to cultivate children's feelings of loving their hometown, motherland, collective labor and science. We can see that for preschool education, love is our job, and who must bear the responsibility. Nowadays, most children are the only children in the family. They are naked all day and have unique living conditions. So they are self-centered inadvertently and only know how to do it, but they don't give it. In addition, now parents see that they are holding treasures for their children, and their pets are gone, so as to avoid the children being bullied and humiliated. Too many children are caring and loving, guiding them to care and loving, and there are too few opportunities for action. This makes them gradually form a special psychology and form the concept of "self".

When the children enter the kindergarten, more than 20 class teachers take good care of them, and the children will no longer be "angels holding the moon" and share their love with others. This causes some children to get lonely, lose their temper and be jealous of others, especially those near the park. The situation is more serious, and some even have mental illness, such as autism, attacking others, and so on. To solve these problems, it must be the education of love, so that children can understand that love is vast and mutual, and accepting the same love and giving love can make you happy.

The second definition is an eternal topic and the most basic emotion of human beings. Fromm's The Art of Love puts forward the contents of love, responsibility, respect and understanding. According to our interpretation and understanding, there are seven understandings of love, respect, trust, care, tolerance and the need for dedication.

In education, it is the soul of love and life education. The so-called "love education" is to use emotional communication to change people, ideas and habits, as well as the influence of psychological behavior, to purify the soul and achieve the purpose of education. The education of children's love is to let children know how to love, know how to love, love and feel love. Love can be shared with others or created by yourself. Let children learn to love others and learn to be tolerant. Education of love is the key, and education, basic principles and methods are also education. Three goals

The goal of loving kindergarten education is to love your parents and teachers.

Love kindergarten. Our children set the educational goal of love according to their age and low level of psychological development. Family nursery and kindergarten are two basic premises of daily life. It is the teacher who has the most contact objects except parents and children, so the goal of "three loves" has become the education of love for children.

4 Education of Love

(a) Caring for the love that education gives children

1, let children feel that educators in the former Soviet Union are very gregarious.

All in all, the existence of love base: the attention and care of educators will leave an indelible impression on students' hearts.

Therefore, we should be a loving teacher at all times, always care about our children, look them in the eyes with love, often hold hands with children and touch their heads, so that people can feel their love in a loving environment.

In educational activities, teachers' personality charm is also an effective means of education and a source of strength to attract children, and it will not help children who are close to teachers like teachers. Teachers' personality charm comes not only from their profound knowledge and teaching ability, but also from their kindness, kindness, trust and tolerance to students.

There is an important way for children to grow up, and observation, imitation, recognition, trust and love for children's imitation are a basic premise. Psychological research shows that children want to imitate the objects they love and the objects they trust. This is an education for children, and educators must actively establish a loving relationship. Once education gains the trust of children, children don't need any proof, according to your teaching. (Tao language) "Real education, besides going in and out of the heart, is to reach the depths of the soul and add activities". If teachers can't get the trust and love of students, even if the opponent's educational goals and methods are appropriate, education can't achieve the expected results. Love is the link between educators and educatees, and it is the educator of basic education. The psychological experiment "Pygmalion" is the teacher's trust, encouragement and expectation for children's success.

2. Let children learn to give love.

Teacher's love is to give children vitality, life and understanding of life, knowledge, happiness and strength. Over time, children enjoy the love of others and take the initiative to learn to love others.

In the layout of the classroom, we should strengthen two watches and hang some straps from the ceiling. When we leave carefully, the words always ring in our ears: a teacher, you should be careful, teacher, you should be careful, teacher, you should be slow. These warm words remind me of my boring and high-sounding words when I encourage their children to exercise. A little nagging hits their firm hearts.

(2) Children's parents are examples of "love". Pay attention to the children whose parents are role models of "love". Family is a fertile ground for children to grow up. Parents are the first teachers. Children's personality, personality and intellectual habits develop their families first. Parents should first set an example and always think of others. Because children learn that caring people don't obey any orders, they usually see the results in the eyes of their hearts.

Remember that public service advertisement that touched millions of people: Mom came home one day, and Grandma was still busy at her feet. Then her son saw its water coming out, took a pot and said, "Mom, wash your feet." This advertisement is enough to encourage parents to be role models for their children. If parents, grandparents and neighbors respect and care for each other, such children will contact in a harmonious atmosphere. With the growth of age, their intimate relationship will develop the behavior of respecting the old and loving the young, imitating their elders to care for and help others. Everyone has received love and is good at giving it. Therefore, parents should set an example, treat their elders, care for others and care for public property in daily life, and infect their children with subtle "love" behavior.

In addition, within the family, children can also learn to share with their loved ones. When shopping at home, don't let one's children sit together, just like friends get together and share the best. There are good toys to take out and play with other children or parents ..... so that children can not only feel the happiness brought by sharing, but also feel the happiness brought by sharing to others.

(3) Nurseries take care of children and create a good educational environment.

Create an environment that reflects the kindergarten education atmosphere of love. What educators care about is the creation of the environment, and the environment must reflect the cultivation of children's love. For example, in the decoration of kindergarten, write some slogans about love, such as: use our love, your confidence; Let the seed of love bury the child's heart. The arrangement on the wall, the activities in the corner and the education of love should be consistent. For example, the paintings on the wall such as "My little brother will help me get up", "I will help you", "I will help the teacher clean the table" and "Learn to communicate" contain rich extracurricular activities, or children can play some beautiful songs such as "My good mother", "Dad", "Teacher, I love you" or some beautiful classical music during the break. Let children "bathe" interesting and easy to understand. In the atmosphere of love, children who are exposed to such environment, time, love and education will get twice the result with half the effort.

The district corner also consciously cultivates the education of love. For example, if a "love corner" is set up, children who are active in this field will do something to help others realize the happiness of love.

Cultivate "love" in daily teaching activities. We can adopt flexible and diverse educational activities in a purposeful and planned way, such as "two little ants" and "fat pigs". Every time we finish this story, we will combine the stories of children's exams from all over the world to help him distinguish right from wrong and distinguish between true and false. There are also songs such as "Fly, Fly", "Let's Play", "Good Dad, Good Mom" and "Good Friends", which finally make these nursery rhymes with the meaning of loving kindergarten familiar to children. Please mind and be their partner.

Children like to put the advantages of education during holidays. There are many festivals this year. Various festivals can be used to educate children. For example, on March 8, Women's Day, we launched the activity of "I love my mother", and there was a game of "pulling my tail" with my mother? ; Flowers for mom, blessings for mom, greeting cards for mom. Through such activities, children are inspired to love my mother more.

Educational projects that like to take care of children have a long way to go. Families in need should combine kindergartens with teachers to create a full and comfortable environment for their children. Let our children live in a world full of love. When they grow up, they will like to spread it to every corner of the world. Then, there will be no war and crying in the world, but flowers and laughter everywhere.