Usually, this sentence has too many meanings: you bid farewell to everyone to tell them that you are busy. Do you have a dinner? Or, you've already paid the bill, and everyone can eat whatever they want. Shall I go first? !

Or, did you really feel that you couldn't drink any more, and then you left first? If you really drink too much, you will break the membrane!

Anyway, alebang drinks almost every time, and even if he doesn't know each other, he will arrange to drive or something. Anyway, everyone else woke up, but he woke up the next day and didn't know anything!

Anyway, maybe we're not deep enough.

Hello, this is a polite question.

Imagine if you leave early and say goodbye one by one, there will be the following problems:

1, leave early, people who eat at the same table won't understand. If the dinner is a social activity, it gives people the impression that everyone is busy, but why did you leave first? Will you lose face if you leave first? There will inevitably be misunderstandings. Saying goodbye to others at this time can better reflect your communication level.

Say goodbye one by one, which involves the order of receiving first. Saying goodbye one by one will make the people behind uncomfortable. They will feel that their position in your heart is secondary and will misunderstand you.

Saying goodbye one by one will complicate simple things. Some things, it is useless to talk more, especially at the dinner table. If it's just entertainment, everyone knows that there won't be too many ideas, but at this time, it may give people a bad feeling. Imagine how embarrassing it would be if you said goodbye one by one and a group of people watched. Rather, it's urgent, explain, and propose a toast.

Entertainment itself is a part of communication etiquette, not just a meal. If you attend a dinner party, it is recommended to attend it to the end. If you really have something urgent to leave, it is a better choice to cut the gordian knot with a little explanation, because everyone in the dinner party actually knows this.

I have experience in this subject, and there are three kinds of entertainment. The first is to stay in your own group and invite you to dinner. Then you are the host, even if your own bureau says you are dead, you can't run away. Everyone knows that there is nothing to explain. The second kind is a bureau where others invite you to dinner. It is not good to go first, otherwise it will be embarrassing and harmful. The third way is that others are invited to dinner by other people's groups. You are just joining in the fun, so it doesn't matter, but there are ways to achieve your goal. I'll find a modest reason first, explain it briefly, and then propose a toast to everyone. Later, this process was saved, so I went to the toilet and went straight home. Because everyone is having a good time, you can say loudly that brother left first. First, it is disappointing. Second, if others don't embarrass everyone, it's better to leave quietly.

Hello, it's my pleasure to answer your question. Personally, I think your question depends on the occasion. Different occasions have different views on the problem. The following is my personal opinion:

First, if you have dinner with a few friends who are close to you. If you have something to leave halfway, be sure to tell them in advance, lest they worry;

Second, if you are having dinner with leading colleagues. This is also divided into occasions;

1. If you really have something to leave early, you can go to the leader and tell him what happened in a low voice. Then ask him for leave. Generally speaking, leaders will agree;

If you don't want to eat and drink with them and need to get off the table in advance, don't say anything. Just use urine to go to the toilet and wait for them at the door, but try not to go back without saying a word.

Don't say anything if you have guests. Because you will sweep the face of the leader by saying so. It will also make guests have ideas about you, and their hearts will be more or less uncomfortable;

If everyone is taking advantage of the rise of alcohol, don't say anything. Because you will spoil everyone's fun. Destroy the atmosphere on the wine table.

Third, the premise of the above situation is that you are not an important person at the dinner party. What can you do. However, if you are the main character or an important guest of the host. Under normal circumstances, don't leave early until the end. If that's the case, you'll have left long ago, the business won't work, the business will be ruined, the friends will be gone, and the human feelings will be gone; Even if you do a lot of remedial work later, the effect is not great.

China's dinner culture is profound and profound, which can't be understood at once. When we attend a dinner party, we must watch what others do, so as to avoid making fewer mistakes.

It is polite to say goodbye one by one, but it is absolutely taboo when eating! First of all, your farewell ruined the overall atmosphere of the dinner party. After three rounds of drinking, everyone began to speak freely, but you had to leave early, and the atmosphere of the wine bureau dropped. When you left, everyone was paying attention to you, and many topics could not be carried on. Secondly, for many people in the wine bureau, you are the first to leave, and many people want to leave one by one. This dinner is a great harm to the people who set up the game. Finally, what will the people who set up the whole wine bureau think of you? A happy meal is ruined by you. The purpose of hosting a dinner party may not have been achieved, and what should be done has not been done. I didn't say what I should say. This meal was not free!

If something really happens at the dinner, how should I leave? The general dinner is really in a hurry to leave. You can say hello to the two people around you first, remember to keep a low profile, and then call the person who arranged the dinner after going out, or send a message, apologize and explain your situation. Usually if you are really anxious, people will understand you. If there is nothing particularly urgent, you'd better finish dinner!

How to leave early when eating? Do you need to say goodbye to a table?

I personally know this. Ten years ago, I attended a party and everyone was drunk. The room is full of smoke and noise. I want to leave because it's too late. So, to be polite, I openly greet everyone one by one. Who knows, someone took the lead, poured three glasses of wine, and let me drink this glass of wine before leaving. I had already drunk 70% to 80% of this wine, but in order to leave early and not break other people's rules, I gritted my teeth and drank three large glasses. I just said goodbye with my fist, but I didn't expect it to end like this. The leader encouraged the whole table to touch wine with me, and everyone had a drink. I was too angry to make a mistake in the face of the clamor of a table full of people. I tried to touch six or seven cups with everyone. Put down the glass, hurried out of the hotel, came home dizzy, lay in bed, and got up dizzy the next morning.

From then on, I will go to the party again and leave early for some reason, so I won't say hello to everyone one by one. I called my boss to the door, explained the reason for leaving early, and then pretended to go to the bathroom and left quietly.

Learn from mistakes. Some things must be experienced by yourself to grow your brain. You must read some articles carefully to avoid detours.

In a dinner, leaving early depends on your position in the dinner. If you are the protagonist or an important guest, it is very bad to leave early. So many people come to accompany you or look at your face. Anyway, try not to leave early, unless something urgent happens temporarily, you must explain it clearly, otherwise it will easily lead to unnecessary misunderstanding! ~ If your position in this dinner is not so important and you are here to accompany you, try not to leave early. This is disrespectful to the host and guest, but there are also cases where your position is different. Just because of some accidental factors, you can leave early, and you don't need to say hello when you leave early, because others don't know you, just need to take you or invite you.

In short, in any occasion, when having dinner, we must first find out our identity and role in this scene, and then make actions that conform to our identity, so that there will be no mistakes, because each of us will have many different identities and roles in society, so don't get confused and make mistakes, otherwise it will easily lead to misunderstanding and embarrassment!

Jiujiang, Jiangxi, is a very distinctive city. Jiujiang is very generous, and organizes dinners every so often. If you are drinking wine at the dinner table and want to leave early, no matter what important things you have, you will be salivating, because if you leave early, it will ruin everyone's interest. Because of you, a table of food you finally assembled is incomplete, so even if you really have to leave, you still don't say hello, just give up what you want, and the next day, when everyone is awake, you can call one by one to explain the situation and apologize, but anyway. If you do this often, you may not be able to enter this circle. In principle, you either don't attend this dinner, but you will stick to it until the end.

Our dinner time here is usually in the evening, mostly on weekends. Less than half past five, the host arrived at the hotel. The hotel doesn't have to be big, but it must have its own characteristics, either the river fish is well cooked or the local chicken is well stewed. As soon as the host sat down, he called and repeated the same sentence: "Why haven't you arrived yet? I'll wait for you alone ... "The other person will say," Here we are, here we are, in front of the hotel "or" 5 minutes ... "But in fact, we just went out and haven't even left yet. Some people come late, but they are deliberately late when they are obviously uncomfortable at home, which is euphemistically called, just after a meeting.

Jiujiang has a wine culture for thousands of years, and its temperament is real. It is a standard hospitality city, where people are good at drinking and generous. Usually, at the wine table, at least one box of white wine, a glass of white wine and a theme of binge drinking are brought before everyone "deepens" their feelings. Although everyone is very drunk, slogans can be seen everywhere in the streets. Jin Mu's fire, water, earth and Urumqi's light wine. But drinking is very civilized. If you meet fellow villagers, comrades-in-arms and classmates, it is "do it." If the other person is a woman, the dry words are particularly heavy. I did it. The beautiful woman was very casual and made the beautiful woman on the table feel ashamed. Old friends, new friends, push a cup, and after a few rounds, many people can't stand it, shouting stop drinking, stop drinking, save it, save it ... The toast said, no, do you keep goldfish? At this time, black and pink appeared again. The so-called "string seats" is to raise a glass in front of friends. This courtesy is of high standard, and no one can refuse it. So, I drank the wine again.

After several times, a box of white wine bottomed out. The host called the restaurant owner and brought two more bottles of wine. Everyone joked, "You can't drink without taking it." The host looked at the red-faced guest and said, "Don't drink if you can, then move a case of beer to solve the problem." The boss brought in a box of beer, opened it all quickly and gave everyone a bottle. Then there was a beer fight, and so on, and almost everyone drank up the wine. So, General Manager Wu and General Manager Wang began to exchange mobile phone numbers, and General Manager Liu and General Manager Sun made an appointment for the next party. The scene was extremely warm. Your brother and I met each other late, held hands tightly and hugged each other ... At this time, someone said, "We have had a good time today, let's get together next time."

Next time we get together, it's often just talk. Don't take it seriously At this time, the host accidentally seized the opportunity, asked the guest of honor, and decisively announced: "There is no such thing as a banquet that must come to an end. I will make up for the lack of wine."

So, everyone got up to get dressed, carry a bag, take a mobile phone ... when they went out, they shook hands and hugged, and they were inseparable. A group of rickety figures faded away in the dim light. ...

You said, if the dinner is in full swing, you get up and make a series and say goodbye to everyone one by one. You must go first. Who do you think agrees? So, the quiet rose opens gently, and you come gently, so please leave gently. It's just that you take your mobile phone clothes with you. Wave your sleeves and don't take away a cloud. ...

I think this statement is correct.

It's rare for everyone to get together. It doesn't matter what you eat and drink at dinner. It is important to get together for the passage of time, for an emotional talk, for a happy story, or perhaps for a business talk and emotional contact. "Entertainment" plays such a role.

When you meet someone, a thousand cups are short. The dinner is about a happy gathering atmosphere, and "gathering" is the "meaning" of the dinner. In the joyful atmosphere of gathering, "rice" is the medium of "bureau", and "bureau" is the true meaning of gathering. The game here is often a kind of artistic conception in which everyone gets together and "surrounds" together for eye contact, verbal expression and relaxation, so that they can bring happiness to others and feel the happiness brought by others.

At this time, time will "hide" in a corner and watch this "happy life performance" attentively and thoughtfully.

I left early because of something urgent, so I'd better leave quietly with my closest friends. If you are the host, you'd better pay the bill first, or if you don't know what to spend and how much to spend, you can tell people around you and then transfer money.

It seems polite to say "goodbye" to everyone, but it is actually the most tasteless way.

You are telling others that I "quit" and you "continue". At this time, friends will look at the time in your "reminder", and time will suddenly "wake up" from the joyful atmosphere, revealing its embarrassing "expression".

At this time, awkward time will spread out the palm of your hand: all good things must come to an end.

Don't "leave" unless it is particularly urgent and important. Your departure will really make friends around you "extra" with a "gap", which is a vacancy. This gap is often the first place to lose the happy atmosphere.

Because happiness needs everyone's "surrounding", its beautiful feeling will jump up in the "dinner", pushing a cup for a change and colliding with the happiness of life as important as friends along the way.

If you leave quietly, the happy atmosphere will not disappear immediately. Because that "unknown vacancy" still has the meaning of expectation and return, and joy just "made a whirlpool" when it flowed here.

It's different from saying goodbye to everyone one by one. When you sit down again, you will first see the empty seats. At this time, the joyful atmosphere of the dinner has quickly disappeared in this "gap". The "delicious" of a table not only lacks the "good taste", but also adds a lot of meaning of leaving.

Everyone will receive a "short message" from the heart to remind themselves that it is time or time to leave.

This unpleasant one-on-one farewell is a "spoiler".

Mature people often pay great attention to the details of life and work. "Rice" is also a kind of food culture, which permeates the art of friends' communication, social communication and interpersonal relationship. If the wine bureau has the intention of contacting feelings and talking about business, then this dinner will definitely not succeed.

This depends on the occasion and situation, and the specific situation is analyzed. There is no distinction between good and bad. Colleagues in my unit have a dinner party, and a few people who like to drink will take you to drink. He wants you to drink as much as you want, often until midnight. Find an excuse to leave this dinner. Other situations depend on whether you are really in a hurry. If you are in a hurry, you should leave, but make it clear to the host to avoid misunderstanding.