After listening to Lucy's description, DD tried her best to pull herself into her team and blow the product and profit model to the sky. After a simple analysis, we think it is possible.
Recalling DD's circle of friends not long ago, I was shocked by the sudden change of her painting style.
Before, DD's circle of friends was rarely updated, and occasionally I expressed my views, either drinking tea or accompanying the baby, which basically belonged to the kind of calm and quiet.
More than a month ago, her circle of friends was uncharacteristically full of chicken blood and positive energy.
Those circle of friends are either chicken soup like gratitude or "You should thank yourself for your efforts now tomorrow".
This circle of friends is occasionally good to it and sends it every day. Onlookers always have unspeakable embarrassment.
A few of us combed the transformation of DD, only to find that the day when she became a positive energy sister happened to be shortly after joining the WeChat institution.
We joked that these days, people who are too active are either WeChat business or MLM.
One of my prospective classmates, J, had a similar experience.
His class is going to hold a big party. He posted activity information in the circle of friends for several days, accompanied by the slogan "Our journey is a sea of stars". As a result, a friend who didn't know him well asked him if he had joined the MLM organization.
He told us about it as a joke. I said, it seems that everyone has an understanding of this kind of people who are bursting with positive energy.
I was also full of positive energy for a while, after I joined my former employer.
At that time, I really felt that the company was particularly good, and the boss, team and corporate culture made me full of passion.
During that time, with a little work experience, I edited a long paragraph of text and sent it to a circle of friends with the company's products, which led someone to ask me directly, "Did you make a purchase?"
My former colleagues commented on my behavior behind my back: "With so much positive energy every day, is there really so much chicken blood that there is nowhere to release?"
When I heard this, I was extremely indignant. I think the person who said this is jealous of my enthusiasm for work.
It didn't take me long to fall down at work.
At that time, it seemed that this autumn would never let me stand up, and I even wanted to resign urgently.
After a long time, I realized from constant introspection that tumbling was actually a little calmer at first, and it was easy to avoid after observation.
It was because I was too excited at first that I selectively ignored the foreseeable difficulties in this job.
I was carried away by the novelty, and I only felt that my works were beautiful. When I was in trouble, I couldn't bear the huge gap of falling rapidly, and soon I had the idea of running away.
Too much positive energy is really something that needs introspection and vigilance, because you are likely to be confused by some surfaces and ignore the most important problem behind enthusiasm.
Recently, a word is very popular, called "small loss". The beauty of this word is that it can describe all kinds of inevitable misfortunes in life.
It rained as soon as the car was washed, and the earphone didn't ring all the time. Waiting in line for business showed "Stop processing" ...
It seems that these little things are the truth of life.
I have several WeChat groups composed of different girlfriends. Let's sort out our conversation. In addition to occasionally discussing life, most of them are spit.
Workplace gossip: "I'm going to be killed by my brainless mistakes." How can someone be so stupid and want me to carry the pot? "
Colleague girlfriends spit out a family: "I quarreled with my mother-in-law recently, why is her mother-in-law so blx!"
Other friends also have their own troubles. Looking back carefully, every day there are all kinds of spit in the group.
Interestingly, comfort and suggestions for solutions are usually useless.
What is really useful is to talk about the more fucked-up things you have encountered, and the parties will immediately feel "Hahahaha, I am not the worst!"
The bad mood is instantly resolved.
Therefore, the phrase "Speak out if you are unhappy, and everyone will be happy" is not to hit a person when he is down.
On the contrary, everyone thinks that they are badly hurt by life, so they often feel too sorry for themselves. Seeing the plight of others, I immediately gave birth to a sense of relief that "there are others worse off than me."
So the bad mood also collapsed.
I once saw a sentence, and I liked it very much. It was called "Life is burning with loss." "
This reminds me of the comic book Inside and Outside that I read. Riley, who has been dominated by happiness, lost his happy memory, and the little people who created emotions were very flustered, hoping to help Riley return to his carefree life.
But after a long period of exploration, I found that what really saved Riley was not the bursting happiness, but just a touch of seemingly redundant but indispensable sadness.
Because "mourning is greater than dying in the heart" is the normal state of life, or that the small mourning performed every day is the true face of life.
Because of this, if you can meet a little luck every day, it will make people feel happy.
So, stay away from those who are bursting with positive energy every day. They either don't understand the nature of life or don't show their true colors.
Allowing yourself to burn and lose, allowing those negative energies, is the attitude towards life that really has the courage to laugh.