Always wear the wedding ring on the ring finger of your left hand after you get married! Wearing a wedding ring clearly shows your marriage form, and at the same time clearly shows your firm attitude of rejecting foreign temptations. When two people go out to eat together, and they are embarrassed to clip their favorite dishes too many times, they can clip them for each other. Often attend the other half's friends' parties. This can expand the circle of communication and add many topics of common interest. When you are alone, you always talk about the other half. After the quarrel, you can swap roles and repeat what you just said, making you laugh your ass off!
From a long time ago, "we" appeared more in conversations than "I". In front of a dear woman, the meaner you are, the happier you are! No matter how busy a man is at work, he has to undertake some housework, which is a responsibility to his family. Like me, I am responsible for washing dishes, washing clothes, taking out garbage, locking doors, taking newspapers, and many temporary tasks, most of which are looking for things. Many people hate washing dishes, but I especially like washing dishes. It's a great sense of accomplishment to watch a pile of greasy dirty bowls being washed gradually. Quietly help her change the direction of slippers when taking a bath, squeeze toothpaste and pour mouthwash when brushing her teeth. Although some ordinary lives are small, they can constantly make her feel warm and caring. When chatting with colleagues and friends (especially the opposite sex), always talk about the other half. Personal understanding can be insulated from peach blossoms.
If you have time, you might as well participate in the other half's work, such as helping to find information and organize things online. On the one hand, two people can cooperate to do some things, on the other hand, knowing the other half's work can increase many topics. Couples don't need privacy Our e-mail, msn, QQ and Ali Want Want password all know each other. Sometimes it is convenient to send and receive emails, and we often borrow each other's mobile phones. My heart is open, what can't I tell each other? The passenger seat is the wife's exclusive seat. Unless the wife agrees, the opposite sex can only sit in the back. Chatting with friends leads to a conclusion that women like to set many rules for their families. For example, what is the responsibility of each towel; After taking a bath, be sure to wipe the water clean; Do I have to cover the toilet lid after going to the toilet? Once you don't comply, you will say, "How many times have I told you? ! What's wrong now? ? "As a man, you should have such consciousness. If the arrangement changes, such as you have to work overtime or have a temporary appointment, be sure to call and report. If there is an interesting conversation or thing between two people, you might as well record it. Every little makes a mickle, turn them out every six months or a year and watch them together to relive the happy time. It was fun.
I listened to the radio when I was stuck in the north-south elevated road yesterday, and the topic was to admit my mistake. A listener wrote that every time she was angry, her husband pretended to be uncomfortable, which made her very uncomfortable. Her anger subsided when her husband admitted his mistake. I can't help laughing. I have done this kind of thing before, and it is very effective. But you can't use it more. Still a single woman, don't complain why you can't always find a mature and considerate man. Men should be trained. There may be men who are naturally considerate, responsible and considerate, but that is very few, and the chance of being discovered by you is very small. Most men, like me, have no brains. I've been teaching since my wife fell in love. So you might as well broaden your horizons and find a material that can be made to start training. I was misled by TV and movies since I was a child. I think if the hero's career fails, he is afraid of delaying the outstanding heroine, so breaking up is very responsible, self-sacrificing and refreshing. No! No! No! It is selfish to sacrifice love for your career. Isn't it clearly written in the wedding vows? Whether you are rich or poor, whether you are sick or healthy, you should stay together, so that your feelings can stand the test. If you really have a successful career, do people who like you love you or your treasure and status? Sometimes on msn, I do something for her, and she says, "Thank you for your kindness." I immediately became alert and suspected that my wife's account had been stolen by hackers. I immediately asked, "Are you really XX?" The wife shouted angrily, "Get out! ! "I'm at ease now.
Be a woman with a lifestyle. The mood of life is not just dressing up, but lighting incense at home. Is a person who can constantly discover new pleasures in life and share them with others. My wife can constantly discover the pleasures in life, such as new restaurants, cafes, flower arrangement, decoration, travel, finding good books and meeting new friends. Let our life be constantly novel. It is a good habit to kiss my wife goodbye before going out to work every day (I used to go out earlier than her, but now she goes out earlier than me). Introduce a small game played by two people. There is only a pen and a piece of paper. Draw things in turn and let the other person guess what it is, but explain the scope of the guessed things, whether it is idioms, names, places or events. Don't worry about your poor drawing level, it has nothing to do with drawing level, but with associative ability. Have fun when you are bored (by train or by plane, or at home)! Men don't think it's cool to be silent. It's better for two people to communicate and compare more together. Don't put any thoughts or opinions about each other in your stomach. If you say it, the other person will know, and then you will have a chance to improve. A sulking life will only get angrier and angrier, and looking at each other's unconscious appearance will not help solve the problem. Falling in love, including marriage, takes a long time to get used to. From living habits to ways of doing things, you have temper and personality, which need to be adjusted slowly. This running-in process will be accompanied by many quarrels and tears, but as the process goes on, there will be less and less distress and more and more happiness. We have been in love for three years, married for seven years, and the first seven years may be regarded as the running-in period. Up to now, there is still a little friction occasionally, but the overall feeling is still very happy. Therefore, in love and marriage, as long as it is not a big matter of principle, we must be patient and live a good life in front of us. When it comes to beating and cursing in the past, it is often in the middle of the night, because the lights are off, and in the dark, the spirit will focus on what just happened. However, I am a person who falls asleep easily when touching a pillow. It is often when my wife is angry and has not calmed down my account that she suddenly hears my sweet snoring from the side. That's anger! She would lean in my ear and shout, "Go to sleep!"
Introduce a way to make men admit their mistakes. Before I made a mistake, I would only say "I'm sorry", "I was wrong" and "forgive me" repeatedly. My wife doesn't like it very much. Later, she taught me three steps to admit my mistake: the first step is to state the facts, what mistakes I made today; The second step is to explain why you made this mistake; The third step is to correct the way, and what measures can be taken to ensure that the same mistakes will not be made again. The experiment was repeated and the effect was good. I remember seeing a foreign inventory before, and my wife was most looking forward to her husband's family responsibilities. One of the high-ranking items is "Check for strange sounds coming from home at night", and I feel the same way. The most precious thing between husband and wife is trust. It is not an exaggeration to say that trust is "the treasure of the town house". Once one party has rebelled, even if the other party forgives and reconciles later, the trust will be greatly reduced. Suspicion, anxiety and catching shadows will begin to appear between two people today. In order to gain mutual trust, we must not play obscurantism or disappear, so that our paths, friends and colleagues can be fully enlightened. Look at things optimistically, and be normal when encountering unfavorable things. When the mobile phone was stolen, I thought it would be good to change it. My wallet was stolen, and I want to break the bank. When I caught a cold, I thought I could rest for two days. When you encounter traffic jams, you can just think about your heart, listen to the radio and scold the DJ; When the company closed down and was fired, I thought I could finally start a business and do what I love; When starting a business is not smooth, I feel that the previous 30 years have been too smooth, and the life with a little ups and downs is excellent. The happiness of children depends on the happiness of parents. For the sake of children, the two should also work hard to create a happy family! I like two people to take a short trip by car, because on the road, in a closed space, I can't watch TV and do housework, so I will naturally talk. There is nothing to talk about. There is a lot to talk about what you saw on the road. Novices who drive indiscriminately on the road, strange license plates, cars that are rarely seen, slogans posted on the butt of the car in front, plush toys in the back seat, and drivers who see the nose excrement in the car behind them in the rearview mirror will all talk. You can also turn on the radio, listen to the DJ talking nonsense there and guess what constellation blood type he/she is.
These two days are not very smooth. My wife and I are going to burn incense in the temple. I have been educated in atheism since I was a child. I don't believe in religion at all and I don't touch religious books. I have seen a lot in recent years, and I feel superstitious before. If you want to criticize something, you have to understand it before you can qualify. After contact with some Buddhist books, I feel that Buddhism is not so much a religion as a state of mind and a belief, which teaches you to look down on the ups and downs of life. When praying sincerely, firm self-confidence can also help you achieve your wish. To achieve something, the most important thing is to have confidence and be able to persist, isn't it? Let's introduce a game played by two people, without props. Think of the name of someone you both know in your mind, and then let the other person ask questions to guess. The question can only be "yes" or "no". Like a man? Are you from China? Are you in the entertainment circle? Take turns guessing and see who guesses the least questions. My wife likes drinking red wine. I think women can drink some red wine properly. First, it is good for health and cardiovascular system, and drinking a little before going to bed will also help you fall asleep; Second, you can go to beauty salons; Third, a woman who knows a little about red wine will make people sit up and take notice; Fourth, there are various ways of recreation, and they can often go to bars to listen to music; Fifth, add a woman's hearty temperament. When I first fell in love, my wife had to listen to my stories every night to fall asleep. I was quite proud at first, but then my wife said to me, "Your story is boring, and I will fall asleep soon. If the story is wonderful, you can't sleep. "
My deepest memory of my wife is that one night the toilet pipe burst and I was at a loss. When I hesitated whether to turn off the tap or the main brake, my wife in pajamas had rushed into the toilet with a mop in her hand. At that moment, there was only one thought in my mind: "If you marry a wife, you must marry such a woman." It is not a big problem that two people have different personalities, interests and habits, and they can gradually adapt to each other, but whether the values in the general direction are consistent determines whether the marriage can be happy and long-lasting. What is the moral bottom line you can accept? What can you sacrifice for your career? What can you sacrifice for your family? These need not be discussed formally, but can be seen through daily observation. "Marriage is the grave of love." This sentence is for people who are not good at managing marriage. If two people water the flower of love with their heart, it will grow into a towering tree, which will not only make them happy, but also bring happiness to the people around them.