Everyone who is lazy now is digging a hole for the future.
Text/Meng Qiqi
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Recently, the unit is engaged in various surprise inspections, and everyone is very anxious. Because many records were not recorded on time, they have to be made up now. On the contrary, it takes more time to recall and more energy to turn over the information.
Of course, I am one of them. Although I worked like chicken blood every day when I just graduated, I have gradually become lazy after years of tempering. No, I was cheated by myself at the critical moment.
I don't know if you have such an experience. In the circle of friends, I saw other people's beautifully written small letters. The following comments are all praise.
The key is that even the male god who has been in love for a long time praised her, and suddenly there was a feeling of envy and jealousy, which gradually turned into bursts of regret.
I remember practicing calligraphy for several years when I was a child, and then I gave up after practicing. Otherwise, I will be the one who can interact with the male god now.
There is also the long-standing problem of "losing weight". Although the official account of WeChat WeChat has paid attention to more than N kinds of fitness courses, and the fitness card has been in operation for more than a year, I have bought almost all the supporting equipment such as hula hoop dumbbells, but I have been wandering in the chubby world since last year.
Every time I look at people who lose weight and become beautiful, I swear to lose all the fat on my body when I am stimulated, but most of them spend three days fishing and two days drying their nets, for example, because the weather is bad, they don't go to fitness;
If you are too tired to go to work, give yourself a day off; It's rare for my father to cook my favorite dishes. Let's have another bowl tonight ... and so on. In fact, they are all making excuses for being lazy.
There are so many things I regret because I am lazy that I deeply feel that every laziness I steal now may be a hole dug for my future.
Because every effort is a real existence that will make you better, affecting not only your present, but also your future.
But being lazy is actually paying in advance for the comfort that should not belong to you. In the future, when you need a skill and ability to help you tide over the difficulties, you will find yourself killing it yourself as early as one day in the past.
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As the saying goes, people are lazy, and laziness can really bring us satisfaction. What kind of mentality is laziness?
First, I feel nervous for a long time and suddenly want to relax, but I don't have enough restraint.
The opposite of laziness is persistence. Persistence is always difficult, and you need to grit your teeth.
If you persist for a long time, you will be tired. There is nothing wrong with taking a short rest. The point is, once you relax a tight string for a long time, it is more difficult to tighten it again.
We need strong restraint to get out of our comfort zone and set sail again, but it is often not enough, which leads to another day off after a day off, and the previous goals and beliefs are forgotten by the relaxed satisfaction.
Second, there is another kind of luck.
I don't think it's a big problem to steal lazy once or twice, but as the saying goes, if you don't accumulate steps, you will achieve qualitative change one day.
This mentality may not have made much determination at first, and it is normal to give it a try because of insufficient attention.
Unconsciously, even if the time is finally completed, the effect is far from perfect, because I am still lazy. In fact, I didn't finish the plan 100%, but it was too late to sigh that day.
Third, there is no beginning at all.
In modern society, as young people, we have a lot to learn and the pressure is not small.
Many times, when we decide whether to do something, we ask too many questions. This thing will definitely bring us something, and we are not interested in something that seems to be irrelevant.
For example, office workers sign up for an English class on weekends to recharge their batteries. You will think that I don't need to take any English certificate recently, and the company doesn't require it. Why spend a lot of money and time studying?
It's better to sleep in at home, go shopping with friends, or catch a scene.
Those who haven't even taken the first step like this are actually "lazy" At least the first two have done something more or less.
As long as you do it, you will get something, but if you are lazy in thought and give up in action, you will get nothing, except a sigh when you repent one day.
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Cai Kangyong once said:/kloc-When you were 0/5 years old, you found it difficult to swim, so you gave up swimming. 65,438+08 years old, you met someone you like. You have to say "I can't swim" 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't".
This passage is true, profound and true. Many opportunities in life are missed because of their laziness.
There are many beautiful scenery, which will be missed again and again because of temporary laziness. How many people talk about the slogan "Let's go", but in the end they have no time to leave. I think it has a lot to do with laziness.
I have a friend A. Every time I chat, she will tell me where she wants to go and which one is interesting. I said, you should go on vacation now. After a while, she told me about it again, so I asked her, it's been almost a year, when are you going?
One second ago, as soon as she changed her mouth to ecstasy, she immediately became worried and complained to me: You don't know that going abroad is very troublesome, and you have to apply for passports, visas and raiders. It bothers me to think about it!
If someone can help me with everything, just pick up my luggage and set off! Well, I sigh silently in my heart. In fact, you still want to be lazy I don't think I can ask her next year.
When we begin to do something, we always think too much about whether it is useful or imminent. If you obviously can't do it now, you will do it well.
If you can't see its use in a short time, lazy thoughts will crawl into your mind, and as a result, the lazy villain will properly defeat the diligent villain.
But the problem is that people's first half is often laying the groundwork for the second half. If you are lazy today, don't blame yourself for wrestling tomorrow.
Sometimes, people who look silly and persistent are more likely to succeed, because once they start, they will go straight ahead without distractions, instead of looking around and wondering whether it is worth it or not and being lazy.
Many people are always angry at the moment when the results are announced. Why not me?
Or feel, if I knew, I would ... know? A thousand dollars is hard to buy, but regret medicine is hard to buy.
One thing that impressed me the most was that a small partner of my age in the same unit was promoted in a short time, and everyone was envious.
Later, after listening to his colleagues, I realized that people, as unit correspondents, have been working tirelessly and diligently, that is, writing manuscripts for a long time and frequently.
I tried hard to recall that I did see the notice of the unit soliciting contributions for all employees before. Although I was very tempted at that time, I turned around at the thought of writing so many articles and didn't continue.
The time that is not occupied by writing articles must not be used better, either by brushing Weibo or by chatting.
Now, seeing that others have made better progress because of their persistent efforts, I have nothing but regret and chagrin.
But it was after this incident that I began to reflect. There is still a long way to go. I don't want to miss a precious opportunity because of temporary laziness.
If I encounter a similar situation again, I must try to convince myself, give it a try, and then stick to it. Maybe one day I will appreciate myself in despair.
I still remember when my father was at school, he always warned me that he didn't work hard enough:
I think at the beginning, my father was just playful. After finishing high school, you can directly assign jobs, so you are lazy and don't study for exams. I still regret not continuing my studies. ...
Although it is naked to inspire me to study hard, after years of baptism, I can see that my father still has regrets.
Time is the fairest. For anyone, every day is 24 hours. Whether we choose to be lazy and curl up in the comfort zone or try to sweat like rain depends on ourselves.
I have to take care of my own life. I have to do some things myself sooner or later, and I have to eat some hardships sooner or later. It is better to take advantage of the prime of life at an appropriate time, first bitter and then sweet.
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I paved the road for myself and dug the pit for myself. When you are lazy, others are paving the way for yourself and never stop.
Maybe you will laugh at other sweaty people: hey, brother, what are you doing so hard? Take a break. As everyone knows, there is already a big pit waiting not far in the future.
Youth is the reserve period of life, just like spring in the four seasons. This is the sowing season, but you missed it for fun. Go to Qiu Lai in spring and wait for others to harvest in autumn. What can you harvest?
There are always elders who always tell me that I suffered a little when I was young, and I didn't know much when I first joined the work. I always feel that this is a cliche of my elders.
Over time, I was cheated by myself more often, and I gradually understood the essence. No road is in vain, nothing is done in vain, and many seemingly useless things are actually the cornerstone of growth.
If you don't want to sit in a pit and lament your bad luck, steal less laziness while you are young and stick to it, and time will give you what you want.
Everyone who is lazy now may be digging a hole for his future.