1. Teenagers don't know enough about marriage. Generally, teenagers and heterosexual contacts don't expect any ending. They usually just stay in "good feelings" and "likes" and can't understand the true meaning of love. Love has to be paid, sacrificed, and responsible for each other's "commitment to one person", which are things that teenagers are willing to do but can't do. As far as the ultimate goal of falling in love is concerned, teenagers are not mature enough to understand the significance of God's establishment of marriage and family and the conditions and equipment for seeking God's guidance for their partners.
2. Teenagers are still growing up:
A, emotional instability, immature and responsible, Chun Qing is more than rational, and it is easy to hurt each other.
B, ideas change rapidly, and friends of the opposite sex who thought they were ideal at that time may lose interest after a while.
C, feelings are ups and downs, and even can't control themselves. Love at first sight often ends in tragedy.
There are many changes on the way to love: teenagers' age, study, economic ability, etc. , not married. Once in love, the wedding date is far away. How do they bear all kinds of changes on the road of love? Feelings, time, parting, lust, the appearance of a third party, parents' opposition and so on?
In the whole process of finding a partner, waiting is hard, but in order to have a partner who suits God's heart, all the waiting is worth it. Communication between men and women is a never-ending knowledge. In the whole process, even on the occasion of love, there are still many unexpected things that need constant adjustment, solution and growth together.
It can be said that when we first went to college, our psychological age was very young, our thoughts were immature, and we were unable to deal with the problems brought by love. Therefore, you should think clearly before falling in love, knowing that falling in love is not a kind of gain, but more a kind of pay and a kind of responsibility. Sometimes not loving is also a kind of love. If you do, I applaud your sincere love and courage. After all, love is above life, but courage alone can't solve the problem. You should calm down and deal with all kinds of problems correctly. I think many college students can't correctly handle all kinds of problems brought by love. To be exact, I think it is unreasonable to fall in love too early in college, because it is mainly academic.
The wrong view of love, the pursuit of love first, can not handle feelings correctly. Because of lovelorn or third party or courtship failure, emotions and behaviors are out of control, and even pessimism is generated, leading to serious consequences.
I don't agree with this view, because speaking in school not only has a great influence on learning, but also has a bad influence on students' psychology, time and money. In order to maintain a normal relationship with students of the opposite sex, male and female students are treated as peaceful coexistence without close contact.
Personally, I don't approve of students falling in love at school, because most of us are still young at school, and our understanding of life and world outlook have not yet formed. Falling in love at school will not only affect our study, waste time and money, but also increase the burden on parents. We should do our job well and work hard. Only with academic success, people will have a better future life and naturally have suitable partners, because only knowledge can change their destiny.
It is common for college students to fall in love at school now, but now we are still students at school. We should always pay attention to our words and deeds. School is a place to study, not to fall in love.
The other party suggested that once something was lost, it could not be retrieved. Don't let yourself regret for a lifetime. . . . .
Debate: Is it necessary if this person is not the one who can get along with you all his life? Does it matter in the end? Only you are sad, aren't you? Yes, you should choose wisely, and don't wait until it's too late to regret!
I hope I can help you!