You don't have to struggle! The countryside will always be like this! So are our parents. At that time, our three brothers and sisters were still at school and not married. Speak slogans every day and treat them equally! But in the end? When I got married, they were working in other places and never came back! The man's family didn't give me a bride price, but my mother gave me 5 thousand! My sister will get married soon. My mother said she went to college, so I arranged it for her and didn't give her money! If the man has a bride price, the bride price money is used as a dowry! I don't think there is anything wrong with them, and I have never complained! Just talking! This is a traditional custom in our countryside! We are all like this here. Of course, it is to buy a car for my son and a house for my wife! And the daughter has nothing But it is also reasonable to put all the responsibility of providing for the aged on the son and daughter-in-law! Thought the married daughter was the spilled water! Of course, if you meet an unfilial son and daughter-in-law, there are also many people who want their daughters to support the elderly! They always think that when they marry their daughter, their responsibilities will be fulfilled! I think the property of the man's family will eventually belong to his daughter and son-in-law! So there is no need to prepare a house and a car for my daughter! Actually, it's not. Marrying a man's family doesn't necessarily make your daughter your family! If you don't marry well, neither side is human! This is the sorrow of being a woman! We can never change the minds of the older generation. I think we should do what we should do as children! Try to treat your children fairly in the future, and don't be influenced by the social torrent of China for thousands of years.