Chapter 1: About Empathy In one's life, we have to experience many things and meet many people. Whether you can become a successful person and empathize with others is very important. If you know the needs and ideas of others, you will succeed 90%, and the rest depends on your personal efforts. Therefore, before you do something, you must put yourself in the other person's shoes.
In recent years, safeguarding consumers' rights and interests has become the slogan of enterprise administration, but infringement incidents have been repeatedly banned because powerful interests have washed away the defense line of conscience. In 2008, the "Sanlu" incident worried parents, and the sales of dairy products fell again and again. If "Sanlu" Group puts itself in the other's shoes and regards itself as the parents of children, can it still mix melamine into children's milk powder? Do they have the heart to hurt their children? /kloc-compensation of 0/700 million yuan crushed a century-old enterprise and eventually went bankrupt. 1700 million yuan, you can imagine how many children they hurt. Is interest really more important than a nation's future? If they had put themselves in their shoes, the tragedy would not have happened. It can be seen that without empathy, the consequences are so serious.
The first time you enter high school, you need to get rid of everything in junior high school and adapt to the study life in high school, so you should start by adapting to the teacher. At first, I didn't have a good impression on some teachers. I don't like these subjects, and I didn't pay attention to the lectures. The final result can be imagined, and the mid-term exam scores dropped significantly. This made my heart cool, as if I had poured a pot of cold water on my head. Later, I tried to see these teachers again and realized their hardships and feelings from another angle, only to find that I was wrong. I shouldn't have done this. So I began to study every subject seriously, and finally made remarkable progress in the monthly exam. It is because of my empathy that I can find my mistakes in time and correct them. Obviously, empathy can pull a person out of misunderstanding.
Our life, in a sense, is to live for others. Only by thinking of others everywhere can we win their attention and respect and make our life full and meaningful. Therefore, we should learn to think of ourselves as others.
Chapter 2: Students who live on campus need to get up at 6: 30 every morning and start morning exercises at 6: 50. As the weather gets colder and colder, students who live on campus often lie lazily in bed until 6: 45, then get up at an amazing speed and get to the playground before the bell rings. What residents like best is snow or light rain, because it gives them a reason to be lazy in bed and not catch a cold.
The cold weather has increased the demand for hot water in schools. There are about 600 students in the school. As a result, you can see dozens of faucets in the hot water pool almost every day, and every time you supply hot water, it is crowded with people. The students lined up for hot water.
In the evening, more people lined up. People often can't get hot water.
People who can't get hot water are; Someone accused. The objects are all without exception-boiled water workers. The boiler gets up at five o'clock every morning to prepare hot water for 600 people. We can have a day off on snowy days. The boiler has to work as usual. We get up early in the morning, and he gets up earlier. Efforts are not praise, let alone gratitude. Without these, forget it. The campus is full of accusations and even abuse against him. What does this make people think of boiler workers?
I'm glad the boiler workers didn't go on strike because of these. Imagine if the boiler workers only went on strike for one day for these reasons, we would have no hot water to drink, wash our faces and brush our teeth, and wash our feet at night, not to mention some other uses of hot water. So how should we spend this day?
Empathy, everyone has their own difficulties. Don't only think about your unhappiness, but also think about others occasionally, and you will find that your heart will be much more peaceful.
Chapter 3: Empathy "If I were you" is a kind of empathy. Mom, can you put yourself in my shoes? In our life, we often need you to put yourself in my shoes and put your mind into children's lives to understand their feelings. This is "empathy". This can quickly build a bridge of mutual understanding between father and son, and help parents quickly find obstacles in education and teaching, so as to prescribe the right medicine and solve problems. I hope my mother can put herself in my shoes. I am also very upset. Sometimes life makes you have to change roles. Do you appreciate inner peace? You will find it very meaningful to do so. When we face everything that life has given us with such a normal heart and feel everything with a humble mind, we can always get some unexpected new feelings and experiences. Mother asked us to understand life with our hearts. Live happily.
And you, you have never understood this truth in your life. Always appear in your dribs and drabs. My Happy Friday, I thought I could have a good time, but this happiness is always hit by you, alas! When can you put yourself in my shoes? ? If I listen to your nagging after school every Friday, will you eat it? When this happens, you might as well relax, put yourself in the other's shoes and face all the changes in front of you with a normal heart, and you will gain more. The so-called open mind is not that kind of worldly wisdom, that kind of seclusion that transcends everything, but an understanding of life, embracing everything in life with a broad mind and facing the world with a broad mind. If so, will we still have those unprovoked troubles?
Empathy is not to look down on yourself. But look at the problem from another angle. If you were a child, what would you think of your parents?
Mom, can you put yourself in my shoes?
Chapter 4: Empathy Every day after school, the school gate is very lively, like a market, and everything is bought. A strong wind blows, bringing not only dust, but also a fragrance that makes people want to buy and eat.
It's the smell of spicy strips. There are too many kinds of spicy strips at the school gate to count. Two big boxes are arranged in front of you, so you can choose at will. After school, the students crowded in front of two boxes in groups of three and five, picking and choosing. You buy a big bag, I buy a big bag and eat it with relish.
Not only those who sell spicy strips, but also those who sell ice cream. These ice creams are very cheap. A large glass of ice cream is 50 cents and a small spoon is given. You can choose any color and taste in the foam box. Similarly, if you buy it in a regular ice cream shop, you need at least 6 yuan money to buy it.
Of course, there is also Guandong cooking that everyone prefers. The so-called Guandong cooking is a pot without a lid. Put some water, take a bag of seasoning, and then add gluten and sausage. Keep cooking and cooking until the food is tasteless. There are the most students there. Students sell at least two strings at a time and buy more than 10 strings. Business is booming.
There are also cheap food and toys such as Guandong boiled, bubble gum and small toys sold at the school gate. I advise you not to buy these things, because the sanitary conditions of these things are really poor. Like ice cream. The black foam box has no lid yet. A strong wind blew and all the dust fell on the ice cream. I want to know what the price cost of 50 cents is. Merchants still have to make money. Can his raw materials be good? Can the quality pass? It may be frozen directly with tap water, and there is color!
I advise you not to buy these things, because once these things are bad, they will be irresponsible if you want to find a merchant again. The biggest problem is that these things are not only harmful to our health, but also affect our study. I hope you don't buy these foods that will hurt me, and also warn merchants to make their purchases more hygienic. What we need is nutrition and health, not garbage. Please don't let dangerous food hurt our pupils, because we are the tomorrow of our motherland.