I bought this book as soon as I saw this sentence, and I think I must recommend it to everyone.
90-year-old Japanese grandmother Yoko is a psychological counselor. She has been working every day since she was a girl and never gave up. Now her clinic is in Nara. If you go to this clinic, you should still see this old woman. She is easy to recognize, only 1.48 meters and weighs 80 kg. She is an old lady as light and slim as a bird.
She has to work four days a week. So far, she has worked for more than 70 years. She accompanies people who are very tired, young people who are unhappy at work, and middle-aged people with disharmony in marriage. ...
They came to learn the wisdom of Yoko's life, and Yoko's grandmother gradually turned her hard days over the years into a guide for others' lives.
? As a teenager, she suffered from war and the Great Depression, and her life was very difficult. Later, she went to study medicine hard, but she couldn't find a job after graduation, and finally found a job. She looks forward to a sweet marriage and a happy family life. As a result, she married an alcoholic who didn't care about her family, and had to do heavy work while raising screaming children and doing endless housework.
This is the real life experience of Grandma Yoko in Japan.
? How would you feel if this life were you?
We are often taught that we must struggle, work hard and be self-disciplined in life. To tell the truth, the more you listen to these words, will you feel more stressed and heavier? But she told you that life doesn't have to be too hard.
No matter how many slogans we usually shout, in the end, we really have to live like a person and make ourselves comfortable. Only when we are at ease, at ease and comfortable can you do a lot of things well.
So we often see people say, why don't you work hard, why don't you work hard, and he just stays up late to make up lessons and finally doesn't remember anything, right? You might as well let him have a good sleep, sleep well, have a good memory and a bright brain, and naturally he can remember many words.
? So sometimes, life is too hard, which means inefficient and low-quality life.
Let's share this book and see what Grandma Yoko has done to make her life open all the way.
? Let's start with the title of this book-The World Worth It. This is grandma Yoko's philosophy of life. These four words can be summed up.
? However, we may have experienced an epidemic in the past two years, and our life order and lifestyle have changed more or less. I will find these four words particularly pleasing. Besides, this book is very easy to read. A thin book is very light in your hand and can be read in about an hour. After reading it, I often feel that my heart is lit up by that little lamp. It lights up and makes you feel warm. She didn't say anything profound, but one of them said, you just need to explain to yourself how to live and what kind of life you live. This attitude is very important, and it lays the foundation for countless ordinary people.
Sometimes, when we are really old, we find that we are trying to live like ordinary people. So we just need to compare ourselves with the past and yesterday, and feel that I am happy and at ease at the moment. How can it not be a beautiful life?
Seeing this sentence, I was thinking, Li Birthday, a talk show actor, there is a saying that the world is not worth it, so I was thinking, is this grandma Yoko here to give Lee Guo a birthday? What's the difference between what they said? While saying that the world is not worth it, I am very sad, and then the young people say yes; On the other hand, she said the world was worth it. She seemed very positive, and everyone said yes.
? If a new friend reads the sentence of Li's birthday completely, he will find that the world is not worth the first half sentence. What's it called? Call them happy friends. The world is not worth it. What context is this? Today, you are lovelorn. Today, you failed in your job search. Today, he got a raise, but you didn't. And then you were very unhappy. Someone came and patted you on the shoulder. Be happy and be friends. Not worth it. What does he mean? What a big deal! Are you happy?
If you think about it this way, you will find that Li Dan and Grandma Yoko both said the same thing, but in different ways.
Therefore, whether it is worth it or not, they all think that they should live in the present and live every day seriously, don't they?