1, people with negative energy have an unbalanced mentality, can't find a balance point, are ambivalent and have no sense of direction, which makes people feel that they can't get out.
2. People with negative energy are self-centered, selfish, will not be kind to people around them, will not think of others, and will not consider the feelings and thoughts of others.
3. People with negative energy are easy to lose control of their emotions, get angry easily, have a bad temper, and easily hurt people around them and themselves.
A person with negative energy has no sense of justice. On the contrary, he will resist just behavior, which is extremely incompetent and just.
5, people with negative energy, will haggle over every ounce, will not suffer hardships, will not suffer losses, always feel that others owe him and think that they are the most pitiful.
6, people with negative energy, narrow-minded, negative, will not trust others, like suspicion, is the most tiring wave of being a man.
I think people with negative energy refer to people who play the role of "braking" on the way forward in life, not people who accelerate their lives.
Life has its own energy field, with positive energy and negative energy. People with negative energy are too cautious and insignificant in dealing with things. Not only that, when they see people around them who are struggling and striving for progress, they often scoff, advise the left to block the right, and intentionally or unintentionally emit negative energy, which has a negative impact on others.
Let's talk about the story of returning home and see how terrible negative energy is to life.
Of the six boys in a dormitory in a third-rate university, Ma Ning's study foundation is the best in the dormitory, but Ma Ning always complains to his roommates: "No matter how good we study in this lousy school, those big companies won't want us. It is better to play games and watch games. I graduated and I'm looking for a job anyway. It is better to be happy now! "
So he kept his promise, led the other four students in the left and right bunks to skip classes every day, wasted the best time of his life in Internet cafes, and often stayed out at night. This group of people called it a hi!
There is only one classmate named Liu Xin in this dormitory, but he refuses to go with them. He spends every day in the library, studying in class during the day and reading by candlelight at night.
Occasionally, sometimes the whole dormitory members get together to chat, and most of them talk about the bright and moving school flowers in the school. Looking at everyone's infatuated faces, Ma Ning said to himself: The school beauty of others will belong to big shots in the future. How can we little people get into the eyes of other people's beauty queen? Don't even think about it! "
Time flies, and I graduated from college in a blink of an eye. Liu Xin was admitted to the top postgraduate major in China with excellent results. Three years later, Liu Xin went to a famous Ivy League university in the United States to study for a doctorate with honors!
To the amazement of the five brothers in the same dormitory, Liu Xin actually gathered the beauty queen they all thought unattainable! Hearing the news, the five "beer and skittles" led by Liu Xin's roommate Marin were deeply touched, so jealous and regretful!
Two of the students complained about Ma Yun and said, "At first, we wanted to study hard with Liu Xin, but you always said,' No matter how good we study in this stupid school, what's the use?' It's your fault that we behaved so badly today. "After listening to the students' complaints, Ma Ning regretted it to death!
Therefore, in life, we should be good at identifying people who carry negative energy. If you find such people, you'd better stay away from them. If you can't completely block contact with it, you should also take out your own strength to isolate such negative energy effects.
Negative energy can be regarded as a kind of emotional trough, which can permeate your whole body and the people around you. You may notice negative energy at any time of the day, and people around you are likely to notice it.
The following nine signs can tell you that you may have negative energy:
1. You see and absorb negative energy from others.
We can reflect the body language and energy of people around us. If you think other people's negative energy is developing, it may be that you also have negative energy. So, check yourself to see if you are the problem and need to change your attitude. Always ask yourself, if you were someone else, would you like to communicate with yourself? If you realize that negative energy is coming at you from others, don't panic, learn to relax and vent through exercise.
You usually work late at night.
After a day's work, if you are still under the pressure of work, you may be more negative. During the whole working day, your brain and physical strength will be exhausted, which means that your tolerance for stress and motivation for complex mental tasks will be very low after work. Don't bring work pressure home, but recharge yourself in time. It is a good idea to make a task list for the next day in advance. If you work from home, you can create a separate office area for your work and leave yourself plenty of rest time.
Your living space is very complicated.
When you live with some people, when they are tired, sick and irritable, you are more likely to be infected by them. No matter who you live with, if the schedule is different, negative energy will be generated at home. Living together will give you a deeper understanding of how your partner handles stress and fatigue, probably because your family habits are different from your partner's. I suggest you and your partner sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk.
You always compare yourself with others.
We live in a state of constant comparison with what we don't have or haven't realized. Don't try to satisfy the seemingly wonderful plots in other people's lives, but experience and appreciate your dignity for others, your sacrifice for your lover or the achievement of a valuable goal.
You often schedule yourself too tightly.
When your schedule is too busy and you are busy running around, it is hard not to let negativity and anxiety get the upper hand. While we are busy and striving for progress, we have been socialized in order to get the best development. If you feel this pressure, maybe it's time to put it back and do something interesting to make your day better for yourself. Prepare something special for yourself every month or week. It can be a massage or eating your favorite pancakes at Sunday brunch to celebrate the long week.
6. You are depressed, even depressed.
If you notice that you have depressive symptoms, it is a clear negative energy signal. Depression is not a rejection of a positive attitude, nor an unwillingness to engage in happy activities. More precisely, the nature of this disease makes it almost impossible for people to force themselves to feel happy or motivated and seek clinical help in this case.
7. You are very emotional
If you often find yourself overwhelmed by emotions and unable to work normally, you may spend too much time dealing with negative energy. We often try to expel these emotions from our lives, but they are actually a warning signal that something in your life needs to be changed.
8. You spend too much time on social media
Spending too much time on social media may damage our health and make us feel jealous or anxious when looking at other people's lives. This negative emotion will last until your day. Over time, the physical effects of these emotions will lead to the release of chronic cortisol and weaken the immune system. Limit social media time and stay happy for most of the day. The general advice is to limit it to less than two hours a day, not more than two hours, especially for people with children. But this varies from person to person. If your work is based on social media, it is another matter.
9. You often talk to yourself negatively.
Negative monologues, such as "I can't do this" and "I look disgusting in these pants", will prevent people from feeling more optimistic often. Therefore, having a positive and self-improving slogan and mood every day will help to eliminate negative and toxic energy and enhance vitality and enthusiasm. Tell yourself how great you are, and look in the mirror every day, and you will get the benefits of emotional improvement!
1. Not confident; 2. No factional beliefs; 3. The correct world outlook, outlook on life and values are seriously lost; 4. Don't read, don't study; 5. No enterprising spirit; 6. sow discord and slander the country; 7. The heart is dark, with two sides and three knives; 8. insidious and cunning, with a vicious heart.
This is the performance of negative energy people.
There have been many studies on human psychological energy in psychology. Through continuous study and case analysis, we already know that negative energy, as a psychological phenomenon, will be transmitted and infected to people around us.
So if you have the characteristics of negative energy, please change it as soon as possible after you find it. If you have such a person around you, either help him change or stay away from him. The following are three behaviors of a negative energy person for your reference.
1 indecisive
Indecision is a common negative energy in life, because indecision belongs to a kind of "psychological internal friction", which overdraws one's spirit and makes one lose confidence, lose courage and become timid.
For example, the fighting spirit and team values gathered by a team, if the leader is indecisive, difficult to choose, or even timid in the process of completing a task or solving a problem, then the whole team will be distracted and in a psychological entanglement, which is conceivable.
Therefore, in the face of indecisive teammates or partners, you will certainly become like him, afraid of wolves before and tigers after, difficult to choose, unable to find a way out, unable to think of a choice that suits you.
The psychological characteristics of indecision are inherited by nature and learned by others, so it is crucial to realize this first, but change is more important, because any change will make you uncomfortable and it will be a kind of psychological training.
Step 2 complain and get angry
If a person does not know how to control his emotions and desires, then he is doomed to have no future, such as those lazy people, those lazy people, those who practice favoritism and violate the law and discipline.
So it's no use complaining, you have to rely on yourself. This will never go out of fashion. Complaining and being angry will only make people around you become emotional, and express their demands with simple and rude emotions, because this negative energy of complaining will be contagious.
As we all know, complaining and anger are not the solution to the problem, but the most common negative energy behavior in life. Try not to use these two simple and rude methods to solve problems, so your life will be better.
So when such emotions appear, remember to control them with rationality, don't let yourself lose rationality, automatically use negative energy to solve problems around you, and complain and be angry with people around you.
3. Pessimism and negativity
The word pessimism was once used by literary youth in literature and art, but pessimism in daily life is not a good thing after all, because pessimism is undoubtedly a layer of gray smoke hanging over your life and you can't see the future clearly.
The psychological explanation of pessimism is a group of people with extremely unreasonable cognition. Because of their cognitive bias, the world they saw became distorted and lost its truth.
Pessimistic and negative people's minds become very fragile. When encountering difficulties, it is easy to fall into a dead end. If you can't get out, others can't get in, that is, you don't understand and don't listen to what others say, so you live in negative emotions all day.
One way to change this behavior habit is to change your cognition and try to think positively. Because life is so far away, you only need to live the present, live the present and live each present, and your future will not be too bad.
Negative energy is a psychological problem and an attitude towards life. Like other physical problems, as long as we realize that we have the awareness of change and make changes, everything will get better and better.
These are the three behaviors of negative energy. If you are right, please try to change it. Don't let others secretly dislike it. Of course, more for their own growth and development. Because you can be better, why should negative energy hold you back?
People with negative energy: