Tutor: co-founder of gold recycling system
Usually, people like to use words like' playboy' to describe men's infidelity, but words describing women's infidelity are very unbearable. In this respect, compared with women, if you get married, you must defend your integrity and never take risks for extramarital affairs, otherwise the price will be heavy. If a woman is not satisfied with her present marriage, she must be single first and then continue.
Expose the six hazards of women's infidelity after marriage;
First, it is easy to lead to the breakdown of marriage.
Usually, a woman will scold her husband after finding out that he is cheating, and will choose to forgive him after he apologizes like a grandson. In the post-infidelity period, women give their husbands the excuse that they are unwilling to have children. In fact, children are only one factor, and the main reason is that women still love to hurt their husbands. For men, the first thing that comes to mind when they find out that their wife is cheating is not the feelings they once had together, but how to weaken the shame of being cuckolded. In the post-infidelity period, although men really want to forgive their wives, they still choose' mouth shut' to save face, and finally choose the dissolution of marriage in contradiction and entanglement.
Second, it is easy for her husband to go to extremes.
On emotional issues, men are always younger than women. Even those playboys are only allowed to flirt with themselves. Once their wives imitate their behavior, these playboy men will never feel the same way, let alone those men who are loyal to their marriage. Sometimes they will show terrible cruelty in the face of their wives' infidelity. It stems from the fact that men are rough in the emotional field and there are not many wars of words with their opponents. They basically take the form of punching and kicking to vent their anger In this process, some men with extreme thoughts or bad temper will beat their rivals with sharp weapons, and some men will even retaliate against their wives and family. If the discretion is not well grasped, it is likely that the tragic ending of love killing will be staged.
Third, it is easily criticized by the public.
After a man cheats, his parents will give him ideological education; Neighbors will scold him for not caring about his family; Colleagues will praise it as attractive; The spectator will only say that there is something wrong with his character behind his back. However, after a woman has an affair, anyone who communicates with her in life will look at her with special respect and even unconsciously stay away from her. Moreover, after the woman cheated, the insults given by the spectators were simply unsightly. Moreover, in the post-infidelity period, women will be labeled as' bad women' for a long time because of their infidelity experience. Some women, obviously in their husbands' meanness, passively cheat. However, once the derailment is staged, it will encounter indiscriminate defection.
Fourth, it is easy to hurt innocent children.
China women's handling of trivial matters in family life leads to China children's dependence on their mothers far more than on their fathers before adulthood. In other words, all children will think that their mother is the greatest mother in the world before they reach adulthood. If, in the process of children's growth, the mother is derailed, the great image of the mother in the children's hearts will collapse instantly, and there will be worries about whether the family can continue to be complete. It can be said that the words and deeds of Chinese mothers will largely determine the child's personality. To this end, the mother's cheating behavior is easy to reappear in her children after several years. Therefore, as a mother, please don't hurt your child by cheating.
Fifth, it is easy to bring shame to parents.
When a woman is kicked out by her husband for cheating, her family will naturally become a temporary shelter. When I moved into my parents' house as a divorced woman, I was humiliated by my parents. As parents, I dare not blame at this time, or even force a smile to comfort me. In fact, their hearts are bleeding. Neighbors will also say behind their backs that' a daughter of a certain family was kicked by her husband for stealing a man'. There is an old saying in China that thirty years ago, people who looked after their fathers respected their sons, and thirty years later, people who looked after their sons respected their fathers. Therefore, when a woman is married, don't let her parents worry about emotional problems. In particular, cheating will make optimistic parents feel inferior in their neighbors, and even have to be careful what they do or say, for fear that others will fight back with the scandal of' children cheating'.
Sixth, people and money are both easy to perform.
After a married woman has an affair, she usually chooses to leave a clean home with guilt for her husband. In fact, there is another reason why women can be so handsome. They believe what their lovers say. Many men will make all kinds of promises to married women after they treat them as lovers. For example, I dare to marry you as long as you are willing to divorce; For example, you are the most suitable wife I have ever seen, and I will love you all my life. However, when a woman really divorces her lover, the lover will prevaricate with various excuses. The only thing a lover can do is to stick to his marriage and not let his wife fight between them. At this time, the cheating woman will find that all the sweet words in front of her lover are deceptive. At this time, she will find that taking such risks will only cause losses in both manpower and financial resources.