Make friends, make friends.
Just a grumpy friend. Everyone's life is different, and the situation is different. There is a good chance that one thing will happen. When you are still confused, your friends will get angry first and tell you that you can't do this first. He is like a firecracker when he meets such a grumpy friend. He can ignite an indignation in the hearts of a group of friends, which is often unreasonable and often the spirit of blind obedience. As an adult's world, it goes without saying that we all have to pay for this kind of group fight, but it is not good for us to only light a fire.
Why do bad friends put this bad temper in the first place? Because blind passion may have irreparable consequences. A good friend should put reason first and tell him how to live a life without danger.
A rich widow, the old lady has money in her family, wants to recruit a driver herself, so she sends a job advertisement all over the country, saying that I want to see which driver has the best driving skills. After thousands of elections, three candidates were finally selected to stand in front of her.
She gave them the same question. She said that if there is a cliff in front of my car, I will test your skills and see how far you can park your car from the cliff.
The first driver said I was a good driver. I can park my car one meter away from the cliff and stop firmly. I was not convinced by the second crash and said that my technology was better than his. I can park my car ten centimeters from the cliff, and I can still stop. The third driver said, I'm not like them. I stopped when I saw the cliff in the distance. Later, the old lady took a third person.
Because in this world, technology is never the ultimate guarantee. The rationality of avoiding risks is its fundamental premise. In other words, the third person was admitted not by his own bravado, but by his wisdom.
The second one is friendly and soft. This is just the opposite. This is not a friend with a particularly bad temper, but a friend with a particularly indecisive temper.
We found that he was too indecisive to waste your life energy. Maybe you should quit. You said it was possible that I would go to the sea or I would jump ship. Ask a friend. The friend said, think about it. Your place is also very good now. If you leave, you will lose everything. Many of our friends will give you a binding force at this critical time, so that you think I'd better take a step back and be cautious.
Koreans have a very vivid description that there is such a thing in this world. This is very strange. It has long hair on the front, but a bald spoon on the back. When this thing came to see you, it was not clear because it was covered with hair. You don't know what that is. Think it over. When it passed by, you suddenly saw it clearly. You reach for it and find that there is no hair on the back of its head. It's completely over. What's this thing called? Its name is opportunity.
The opportunity in this world is such a monster. You will always have doubts when it comes to you, but you will never catch it when it is about to leave.
Soft friends often delay opportunities around them. We find that there are many things in this world, not what you do or don't do, but when you do it is useful. In fact, many things in life have a shelf life. You said a can and a piece of sugar. Is this a good thing? I thought it was a good thing after ten or eight years, but it became poison after the hedging period. Many things we have to do in this life, don't let indecisive friends interfere with your thinking. It is also a kind of harm to have too many such friends.
As for the third kind, the so-called friends are fake and the worst kind of friends.
As we all know, infidelity is the kind of villain with ulterior motives, scheming and unscrupulous means to seek personal interests. They are real villains, people with dark psychology, but these people often dress up as a kind face. Because of his inner intentions, his enthusiasm for people may be dozens of times higher than that of people without intentions. So if you are accidentally used by such people, you will put yourself in chains for the rest of your life. This friend won't let you go without paying a painful price. This is actually testing our own vision and ability to know people and discuss things.