Confucius (55 BC1-479) was born in Lu. China was a great thinker, educator and founder of Confucianism in the late Spring and Autumn Period. He read widely all his life and taught students "six arts", but paid more attention to the cultivation and education of personality. In his magnum opus, a "benevolence" (courtesy, generosity, faithfulness, sensitivity and benefit) runs through, teaching future generations that "benevolence" is an essential basic moral character of a noble person. That is, the respect explained in this article will not be insulted, generosity will win the support of others, honesty will get the credit of others, diligence will make achievements, and kindness will command others.
Proverbs first put forward that being a man should give others a solemn good impression and treat others with respect, so as to win their respect and avoid being insulted by others. Solemnity is a casual and frivolous attitude, the foundation of being a man, the embodiment of personality charm and the most basic principle of being a man. If you want to be respected by others, you must first learn to respect others. Be polite to others and behave in a pure and decent manner. Today, when we vigorously carry forward national culture and advocate human rights equality and humanized management, it is particularly worth learning from.
Ceng Zi said, "A scholar must be loyal to his will", and a person must be broad-minded and strong-willed. "Rich and gentle enough to be tolerated;" Generosity, gentleness and gentleness are enough to tolerate everything. The house is kind-hearted, with a broad mind, a broad mind and a broad road, which is convenient for people. From the codes and instructions of great men, scholars and even grassroots leaders in modern times, we often see that "be strict with yourself and be lenient with others." This motto is also the best extension of the word "tolerance" for thousands of years. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others, which is the principle of interpersonal communication. What a great tool to be tolerant of others, the pride of all rivers and the true nature of heroes. Only by doing this can we truly win the support and love of others and achieve great success.
"A gentleman values honesty." Honesty is our innate traditional concept. "At the beginning of life, human nature is good." "Honesty and kindness are nothing." Honesty is the foundation of kindness. Zisi, a philosopher and thinker, once brilliantly expounded: "Honest people are self-nature, and Tao is self-nature. Honesty is the end of things, and nothing can be achieved. Therefore, honesty is the most important thing for a gentleman. An honest man is not himself, so he becomes something. Be yourself and be kind; The achievements are well known. The virtue of sex is also. It is also the way to combine the outside and the inside, so it is appropriate to take timely measures. " That is, "sincerity" is self-realization, the result of human nature and the perfection of sincere people. "Tao" is to guide yourself and pave the way for yourself. Sincerity runs through everything from beginning to end. Without sincerity, there is nothing, so sincerity is the most important thing for a gentleman Sincerity is not only self-improvement, it should be used as the foundation of all achievements, just like a road to lead yourself forward. Self-improvement is the expression of benevolence and righteousness; Achieving everything is the embodiment of wisdom. The sincere character of talents combines internal and external reasons, so it is suitable for use at any time. Perhaps from the allusion of "three visits to the cottage", we can better appreciate the value of honesty and trustworthiness.
Confucius philosophically taught future generations that only by being "knowledgeable in literature" and "never tired of learning" can we have a "moral" educational thought, which is the purpose of human learning. Only by thinking diligently and learning quickly can we achieve ourselves and achieve something. Knowledge comes from accumulation, and only through learning and continuous learning can we make progress. Today, knowledge economy has become the mainstream, and it is especially popular. Lifelong learning system has become a fashion. Diligence-based, applying what you have learned and combining learning with application can help you master scientific knowledge, achieve brilliance and make contributions.