You may not remember such a complicated name as "The Book of Songs·Beifeng·Drumming", but I believe you must have heard this sentence: The relationship between life and death is broad, and Zicheng said it. Hold your hand and grow old together.

This sentence comes from "The Book of Songs·Beifeng·Drumming". It is the inner monologue of a soldier who has been abroad for many years.

He said:

"I am thousands of miles away and have just experienced a big war. Many soldiers died. Fortunately, I am still alive and can still sit in the cold land of a foreign land. I'm thinking of you."

"That year, you were so cute and cute when you first married me. After so many years, my dear girl, do you still remember my appearance? ”

“That day, I held your hand and said endless love words: Hold your hand and grow old together!”

“You can’t imagine that once the war starts, How chaotic the scene is...The war drums are pounding, the earthquake is deafening, and the swords and arrows are whistling in front of my eyes..."

"Oh, this battle has been fought year after year, I don't know Can I still go back to see you? But don’t worry, I will work hard to live: life and death are bound together, and I will hold your hand and grow old together with you..."

This is "The Book of Songs·Bei". The scene described in "Wind·Drumming":

Beat the drums and drill them, and use the troops enthusiastically. The city canal of Tuguo, I will travel south alone.

From Sun Zi Zhong, Ping Chen and Song Dynasty. If I don't return home, I will feel worried.

Love in the right place? Love and lose his horse? In order to seek it? Under the forest.

The agreement between life and death is broad, as explained by Zicheng. Hold your hand and grow old together.

I can’t live without you. Yu Xunxi, I don’t believe you.

This is the story of a man who was drafted for many years and was tired of the war and deeply missed his family.

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There used to be a popular saying: The farthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, but when I stand in front of you, you don’t know that I love you. you!

This sentence was written by the great poet Rabindranath Tagore, so it is naturally touching, but this leisurely sorrow is still a little thin in the "Book of Songs".

For the soldier in "Beifeng·Drumming", the farthest distance in the world is: you know that I love you, but we are separated by the distance of life and death...

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Really, once a person goes to the battlefield, no one can promise his lover that he will come back alive one day. "Hold your hand and grow old together with your son." How many people have buried their bones in a foreign land with this dream?

In my hometown, my neighbor was an old lady in her 90s who lived with her grandchildren and their wives. The eldest son has passed away and the younger son is in the provincial capital. The younger son and the younger daughter-in-law are reasonable people, and they said that wherever their son is, his grandmother lives with her grandson all year round. However, the old man is not willing to go to the provincial capital to enjoy the blessings no matter what.

Later one time, the younger son took her away on the pretext of taking her to the provincial capital for the New Year. A month later, the old man disappeared. Fortunately, the old man was still conscious and remembered his youngest son's phone number. A kind person sent her to the police station, and the police from the police station contacted her family in time.

After receiving the old man, the whole family felt distressed and blamed her. Even the police on duty advised her: "Old man, please don't wander around alone in the future. Everyone is worried!"

The old man didn’t buy it. She grabbed the policeman’s hand and said she wanted to go back to her hometown. She also said that her son would not let her go back to her hometown. This made the younger son and his wife look embarrassed.

Later, the old man came back to live with his grandson in his hometown. It wasn't until she died that everyone knew the truth.

Before his death, the old man said to his children and grandchildren, "No matter how prosperous you are in the future, this old house must not be lost. Otherwise, your father and grandfather will not be able to find a home when they come back..."

Those who heard it cried... The old man's husband went to join the army during the war, promising that he would come back, but he never came back.

"There is a broad agreement between life and death, as told by Zicheng", but what about those promises of growing old together? Why didn't you deliver?

I have seen tombstones in the Martyrs Cemetery, many of which are anonymous. After a long time, in some wars, descendants only know the approximate number of people who died, but cannot know the name of each soldier, so there are nameless tombstones one after another.

I was thinking that every soldier buried in a tombstone should have a touching past. In their distant hometown, parents, wives and children are always waiting for them.

However, they can never go back...

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Speaking of this, there is a question we cannot avoid: what caused it? These love tragedies?

"Beat the drums and boring them, and use the troops enthusiastically. I will go south alone for the city and canal of the Tu Kingdom."

Obviously, it is a war.

The most terrifying and unfortunate thing in the world is war. Do you still remember a movie called "Wonder of the West" last year? The war left so many children homeless. They had no clothes to wear, no food to eat, and they were emaciated and sallow. Every day, they look forward to Shen Guangyao flying over and dropping some steamed buns for them. However, not long after, Shen Guangyao died in the battle...

He was studious, motivated, and kind-hearted. Such an outstanding boy died before he could experience the wonderful life.

He is a hero and deserves respect! But what if there was no war? If there was no war, he could be a filial son to his parents, marry and have children in the future, and live a mediocre but infinitely wonderful life...

I remembered a book called "From Chernobyl" The book "Leigh's Voice" records the tragic lives of people after the Chernobyl nuclear meltdown. People who have been exposed to radiation are isolated, sick, and die... All people are transferred out of their hometowns, but they will not be accepted by others because there is radiation in their bodies...

Pregnant woman , must endure the pain of watching her husband being slowly tortured to death by radiation... In the end, even the child he gave birth to could not survive because of the radiation.

Strictly speaking, it was not a war, but for the Chernobyl people, it was a war, as terrible and cruel as war...

I thought of those who were fighting with the gangsters The warriors who died in the fight remembered those who sacrificed their lives in disaster relief...

Who does not have a family waiting for them behind them? The mother prepared the meal and the wife put the baby to sleep. They held each other and looked forward to it. But that person will never come back.

No one likes war, no one likes disaster, but when they come, someone always needs to take responsibility, and someone will sacrifice.

How fortunate we are to live in a peaceful country!

We were moved by the poignant love in "The Book of Songs·Beifeng·Drumming", but I hope that such a story will never happen again.