If a person exceeds honesty and frankness, he will probably have no friends, and speaking frankly is a good thing. However, if you are honest and frank, no matter the occasion or the occasion, you will offend many people, just like Venus, because he transcends honesty and frankness and will offend many insiders.
There is a saying in The Weakness of Human Nature that you should never criticize a person, especially in front of a third party. Our ancestors also left a word, leave a line in everything and meet each other in the future. At no time should we talk too much. When we want to point out a person's mistake, we should try our best to choose a tactful way so as not to hurt the other person's face. This will not only make the other party correct their mistakes, but also make the relationship between the two people awkward. Why not?
Because Wei Zhi met an enlightened boss like Emperor Taizong, and because he was too honest and frank, he dared to call a spade a spade and make a name for himself in history. But an enlightened person like Emperor Taizong is a minority after all. It is easy to offend people if one is too honest and frank. You know, it's easy to break after a while, so in our life, it's better to speak and do things tactfully.
We should learn to speak tactfully and make ourselves tactful, so that our career and feelings will get better and better.