Education should cultivate children's mood

Education should cultivate children's love for life, love for society and love for nature. This is called true mood. For example, when I gave a speech to parents, I once said that our parents are very busy, but we always have leisure time. I would like to ask how many of the parents have ever spent time on a full-moon night? , take the children to look at the moon; or lie on a grassland without city light pollution to look at the stars in the sky, and tell the children where the Milky Way is and which star the Big Dipper is; and How many parents take their children to identify various crops and learn their

growth cycles? We are already in a state where society and cities sacrifice people's good moods. If we don’t do this, how can children’s love for life, love for nature, and inner beauty arise? A person who has no aesthetic appreciation of life and nature will either be a money-making machine or a harming machine in the future. The reason is very simple. If he does not love nature or society, he cannot cultivate such a mood. He cannot cherish life. If he does not cherish his own life, he will certainly not cherish the lives of others.

It is precisely because of the lack of this kind of guidance that children have more mental illnesses. I have met students like this. From the first grade of elementary school to high school and college, they were ranked first. They graduated from the top universities in China and were successfully admitted to Harvard University. Their parents regarded them as He is proud of his success, and his teacher is proud of him. Ordinarily, this child should be successful all his life. However, both parents and teachers have overlooked a problem. This child has suffered from "number one syndrome". This child always wants to be number one. He wants to strangle anyone who surpasses him

, never share your learning with others, always guard against others, and don't want others to get a little closer to yourself in terms of grades. However, Chinese teachers don't find problems. As long as you are number one, it's up to you. Parents don't care about this problem. As long as you are number one and get admitted to Peking University, there will be no problem. But

Such a child is narrow-minded, narrow-minded, and has a narrow personality. What is the final result? Life is lonely, emotionally introverted, and eventually gets worse and worse. After this child arrived at Harvard University, he had neither a boyfriend nor a girlfriend. What he didn't realize was what if he lost the number one spot? When you get to Harvard University, it's not easy to get first place. One is that Harvard gathers the best students in the world; the other is that when you study abroad, you have to allow yourself a period of time to improve your English; the third is that the education methods are different, and China uses rote memorization for exams . But even though the child had always been number one, he had never received such training, so he couldn't keep up and was very anxious.

Because he lost his spiritual support, he gradually became mentally disturbed, and finally committed suicide by jumping off the building.

Education must cultivate children’s reading spirit

Education must cultivate children’s reading spirit. Our middle school is not only for the college entrance examination, but also for cultivating children into a person with comprehensive knowledge and a happy mood.

It should be a good thing for children to read extracurricular books. When you find that your children are reading extracurricular books during your class, you should first check yourself. Why can't your class attract students? Analyze the cause and use appropriate methods to solve the problem.

If I see a child reading extracurricular books, I will not talk about the child during class, but I will definitely find the child in the office after class. What can I do? I will buy a few world classics first

and put them on the table. After the child comes, I will give her a world classic and say that the teacher also likes to read world classics, but can we discuss it? If you read extracurricular books during class, I don’t care about you

then other students can also read extracurricular books. If the whole class reads extracurricular books, then the teacher will not be able to teach, teacher I have lost all my dignity, so can you please listen to me during class?

You can read any extracurricular books after class. If you still want to read world famous books, you can borrow them from your teacher, or ask your teacher to recommend them to you.

If so, this student union will respect you for life. She will definitely not read extracurricular books when she is in class. She will listen to everything the teacher says. Maybe she will eventually become a litterateur or writer. A simple thing can have different results if handled in different ways.

But now, some teachers do not read other than their own subjects. They hate others when they see them reading, and they do not encourage students to read all kinds of extracurricular books. A person who doesn't like reading, can he succeed in the end? Einstein is a great scientist, but don't forget that Einstein has read all the famous books in the world, and Einstein is also one of the world's famous violinists. Education is never good in one aspect, but comprehensive.

Why don’t we encourage children to read? Now when I walk into some libraries, the places where world famous books are kept are dusty. The ones that are not dusty are the places where teaching aids and textbooks are kept.

This is a bias in education, but our principals have the ability to correct it, and this is what we have to do.

Education is to give children a dignified student life

Education is to give children a dignified student life. It is not easy to let every Chinese live with dignity, because China is a society where the upper class determines the fate of the lower class. If you want a dignified society, you must let everyone be a good person in terms of personality. equal. In Chinese society, this is difficult to do, but at least we can do it in school. In schools, it is possible to let every student and teacher live with dignity, because the school is a place of equality behind closed doors.

The principal naturally has to manage teachers and students, but the principal manages them more with love and grows together. Respect the choice of every student, respect the personality of every student, respect the personality of every teacher, and communicate in a humane way. What I fear most is when teachers and parents reprimand, curse, accuse, and insult their children. Many teachers insult their students without even knowing it. The same thing

If you use different methods (such as the example in the extracurricular book) and handle it in different ways, the results will be completely different. If the parents can’t speak, the teachers can’t speak, and the students can’t speak, they will hurt others when they speak, and disrespect the personality when they speak. In this case, how can we let everyone Do all individuals live with dignity? Therefore, this is also the issue of education quality we are discussing. I think the issue of education quality is not an issue of grades.

An excellent teacher is one who encourages the last ten students in the class

There is a misunderstanding in our current education, that is, teachers only pay attention to and praise the top ten students in the class, because can bring him profit.

Why? Students get into Peking University and Tsinghua University, and teachers get more bonuses. The students at the back are in a state of being abandoned. I think a great teacher and a great school should be like this. Of course, the top ten students can be praised, but the reason why these children are in the top ten is because their own encouragement and self-promotion abilities are quite strong. In fact, There is no need for too much encouragement. A good person will become bad if he is encouraged too much.

Have you ever noticed that there is a phenomenon in management? For example, when a manager under me is particularly good, I don’t praise him very much.

Instead, they constantly criticize him, find fault with him, and let him know that he is not good enough. If I always praise him, he will feel that he is indispensable, and he will feel proud, which will harm him. Therefore, many good students are praised by their teachers. In the end, although their academic performance is not bad, their mentality is already bad. If a person's mentality is bad, he will be bad for life. So I think an excellent teacher is one who encourages the last ten students in the class. The last ten students in the class are not necessarily stupid. If they are given up by the teacher, they will start to give up on themselves. These students have relatively weak self-motivation, so they must be pushed by teachers to find their strengths and inspire their love for life.

Some teachers said that when I look left and right, there are no advantages in students who are lagging behind. If a teacher cannot see the advantages in his students, he is an unqualified teacher. I said, it’s easy to see! If that doesn't work, you can tell him that his hair is really beautiful today. If he is not wearing a school uniform, but just matching it casually, no matter how ugly his clothes are, you can still say that your clothes look really good today.

Everyone knows that primary and secondary school children have a characteristic. A teacher who likes to teach this subject will like this subject, so students should be allowed to evaluate teachers. I later discovered that students have the ability to judge. He can definitely judge whether the teacher is humane, whether the teacher is encouraging, whether the teacher is knowledgeable or not, and whether he can learn anything from this teacher. It is definitely not something that can be said every day. Teachers who tell jokes can get us high marks.

As teachers, we must cultivate children's mood, cultivate children's poetic and life-loving spirit, cultivate children's courage to have confidence in the future no matter what difficulties and setbacks they encounter, and cultivate children's love for reading and learning. Habits, making children feel that they are living with dignity in this society, this is the most important content of education.