1. Li Mi-xun's Two Poems of Yi Shan Yu Gong in the Song Dynasty

The guests of the two kings pushed Qing Jie, and they were half-stabbed and kind.

Vernacular translation

The guests of the two kings pushed the introduction, and they were horizontal and kind.

2. Seventy-two Shoutong Fathers and Brothers written by Chen in the Song Dynasty

The true taste of being poor is given by Qi Mei, and only when you are kind can you sleep high.

Vernacular translation

Being poor is a gift from Qi Mei, and cultivating kindness is a high pillow for sleep.

3. In the Ming Dynasty, Liu Ji presented Sixty-four Rhymes to Zhou Zongdao.

You should be kind when you are in court.

vernacular translation

to guard against danger, we should think of kindness.

4. In the Song Dynasty, Li Lv's

, "Holding a wife and father's name on behalf of others", he pushed high feet and kindness, but he was not lucky enough to be in the east bed.

Vernacular translation

If the village is pushed high enough to be kind, nothing will reach the east bed.

5.

Wang Zhidao's Song Dynasty's "Send Zhao Huan to Bing Zhong for Doing Nothing" is kind, like a father, and treacherous and intimidating as a god.

Vernacular translation

Kindness looks up to your father, deceit and fear are like gods. 2. does kindness mean weakness?

I think this is a problem that everyone who is honest and kind has encountered, including me.

after the honest man's stab is unfolded, the injury will be more serious. Because on the one hand, I can't grasp the degree, on the other hand, I have the psychology of world-weary resistance and even revenge.

when people calm down, they will doubt whether they have gone too far in some things, so they will constantly relax their standards of being a man. It is not accurate to say that people are good at being bullied by others. It should be that people are good at being bullied by wicked people.

So we gradually learn what to say and do when we meet people. The best way to protect ourselves is to pretend and relax in front of good people, but in front of people who are confirmed to be wicked or may be wicked, we should remind them with a human attitude that we are not easy to bully.

However, the depth of people's hearts can't be inferred by manpower, and it's often unclear whether they are good or evil. Moreover, people can be complicated at times, and there is no absolute good or evil, only absolute interests. So we can only guard against people's heart-if we are not a dedicated Buddha.

the more conflicts of interest, the more tired people are. Taking precautions in conflicts of interest and being tactful in interpersonal communication should be improved. 3. Poems warning others not to bully others too much

1. People are good at being bullied, and Ma Shan is ridden. "People are good at being bullied, and Ma Shan is ridden" is mostly used to encourage people to have the courage to fight and should not be too honest; It is also used to show that you can't be bullied.

2. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you, from The Analects of Confucius-Chapter 24 of Wei Linggong. The famous words of Confucius, an ancient thinker and educator in China.

if you don't want to be treated like this, don't treat others like that yourself. What this sentence reveals is the important principle of dealing with interpersonal relationships.

Confucius said that people should treat others with their own behavior as a reference. People should have a broad mind. When dealing with others, don't be narrow-minded, but be generous and forgive others.

If you impose what you don't want on others, it will not only destroy the relationship with others, but also make things deadlocked and out of control. The communication between people should really adhere to this principle, which is the embodiment of respecting others and treating others equally.

In this world, besides paying attention to your own existence, you should also pay attention to the existence of others. People are equal, so don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.

extended information: people are good at being bullied, too simple, laughed off by others, too impetuous, and easily arouse others' resentment. If they do it, they may not lose, if they can't do it, they may not win, and the world is cold and helpless.

When goodness is wrong, you lose your conscience. When goodness is right, you may not find yourself in the next trouble. It took a few seconds to write down the word kindness, but the destruction was only an instant. Kindness comes to an end, regret comes quickly, kindness has limitations, and failure slowly discovers that you are just yourself, accompanying your sincerity, hurting your sincerity, and missing a fate and a life.

people can't be too kind, because people only pick soft persimmons. If everything is too generous and tolerant, others will not appreciate you, but will intensify.

People should have a little temper. Being too kind will make you lose your value and dignity. Being too kind is also a kind of stupidity. Remember one sentence: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.