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In marriage, how to properly solve the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and win the favor of the whole family may be a subject that many married women must study.

For those women who can get the love of their husbands, the respect of their in-laws and live according to their own ideas in marriage, there is no need to be envious.

I still remember a TV series called "Golden Marriage". Wen Li married Tong Zhi with great expectation. Her feelings are burning like fire, she has the same interests as the other party, and her two hearts are firmly tied together.

But in daily life, there is a running-in between the two. On the one hand, different living habits, on the other hand, different values, leading to great friction in life and great economic pressure.

Moreover, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is constant, and the feelings of the two people have been greatly adjusted. Moreover, the relationship between the two men was in crisis, and the marriage was even more precarious.

In real life, the marital status of most couples is like the marriage portrayal of Wen Li and Tong Zhi in Golden Marriage. When they love each other, there is only each other left in the world.

However, on the way to love each other, we fell in love, became more and more indifferent to each other, and liked quarreling more and more.

How many women think that men in marriage can protect her and love her for life.

However, after entering the marriage, I found it difficult to manage the marriage, the relationship between husband and wife, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the untimely three views and raising children. ...

Every problem, every man's attitude, may make women feel the sense of belonging, respect, care and love from their husbands in marriage.

Qu is one of my readers. She said that she never understood why she lost so badly in marriage.

Obviously, I have been paying, obviously I am sincere, I have paid my heart, but I can't get the attention of my husband's family and can't keep my husband's heart.

After marriage, I feel increasingly alienated from my husband Sun Shan. For love, she quit her job and took care of her family at home. After taking care of the children every day, I have to cook for my parents-in-law and help them wash clothes.

Every day, I give all my time to my children and my parents-in-law. Help children with their homework and send them to class. Take your parents-in-law to the physical examination, accompany them, and clean up all the housework at home.

My parents-in-law have never been grateful and feel that her efforts are taken for granted. She didn't do a little thing well, so she had to complain to her son Sun Shan.

Qu lived more and more without self and never asked for anything. However, her husband's face is getting ugly. Sometimes he wants to buy a dress, but he is unwilling to pay the bill.

It seems that I don't want to pay any money except for the necessary family expenses. The eyes that look at Qu are always full of disgust.

Sometimes, it's worse to be cold to her than to talk to a stranger, so pay attention to some manners. When two people are together, Qu feels his heart is getting more and more tired.

Qu did as her husband said. If she does what she wants, she will get her husband's growl: "You must do as I say." Qu has no temper and no principle.

I feel that my husband is the sky. No matter what happens, Qu always compromises and always endures.

But even so, the two divorced, and Qu was kicked out of the house with nothing.

In the end, she didn't understand what she had done wrong in her marriage.

In marriage, a woman with low status is unreliable on the one hand, because she has not won her husband's heart; On the other hand, their own abilities are not convincing enough.

Women, their status in marriage and the degree of respect are sometimes won by themselves, not others.

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In marriage, a woman who is not to be taunted by her husband's family but loves her in her heart is so alive.

In marriage, pay attention to cultivate love and keep a heart with your husband.

After marriage, women will have a misunderstanding that they are paying for their families, which is the performance of loving their husbands. But sometimes this kind of effort is not so obvious in her husband's eyes.

In marriage, a woman should learn to cultivate love, and let her husband feel that you have been standing by his side, facing problems with him and never giving up. Let my husband's heart always be on himself, never changing.

You can spend a little money to dress yourself up. You can also spend a little time creating a romantic atmosphere between two people. From time to time, I recall the time when two people loved each other and look for the meaning of each other.

Be sure to let your husband see his love and let him respond to his love. Pay blindly, the more you want, the more men don't care about you.

If a man has an eye for you, then his in-laws will give you a higher family status, and will not bully you easily or look down on you.

Love is the most important thing in marriage. Although life will be trivial, we should also spend time in trivial days to find sweet feelings.

If you don't cultivate love, it's like planting a potted flower. If you don't water or fertilize, you will die after a long time. If you want it to thrive and bear fruit, you must take good care of it in the right way.

A woman who annoys her husband's family must win her husband's sincerity and pay attention to cultivating love.

In marriage, I pay attention to my career and have the ability to make money.

In marriage, women should not give up their jobs easily, and should not make themselves incapable of making money. Losing this ability can easily make you out of touch with society. If you encounter setbacks and family changes, women will be at a loss.

Even if the family is happy, women who don't ask men for money can live more confidently. Women who are willing to work hard have a positive attitude.

In this way, no matter in marriage or career, you will not get along too badly, and you will live well through your own efforts.

Only when a woman has her own career will her husband's family pay more attention to it. If a woman is just busy with trivial matters at home, in the eyes of her husband's family, she just does nothing all day. Even if you worry too much, you will feel that you pay no attention to this family.

Therefore, women's earning power is a very important skill. Women depend on themselves, which is their most solid support. Women have the ability to make money, and with money, they can have the confidence to live.

To love yourself is to make yourself stronger. Learn to love yourself in order to love others better. Will understand the true meaning of love better.

A woman's ability to earn money determines her status and respect in her husband's family.

In marriage, there will be principles to pay and some temper.

A famous saying of Mencius: "If you don't obey the rules, you won't be Fiona Fang." In fact, in marriage, there must be rules and principles.

A woman's principled devotion and temper in marriage can make her get more respect.

Without principled efforts, men will think you are easy to provoke and will not care about you so much because you are obedient and sensible.

Many things need to have their own position, learn to respect themselves, and stick to their position without compromise in order to have a certain position in marriage and make in-laws value themselves more.

Just like a good-tempered person, he may be more vulnerable to bullying. If you have a certain temper and your own bottom line, stick to your principles.

In this way, your husband's family will think that you are not so accommodating, but they will not test your bottom line and often bully you.

Such a woman will lead a more atmospheric and disobedient life. A woman with personality can be appreciated by men more.

A woman who is not to be taunted by her husband's family, but loves her in her heart, will not compromise easily and will not forbear unprincipled.

I will express my dissatisfaction and know how to fight for my marital status. While paying, you will also ask the other party to give back.

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When you love someone, you must remember that there is no love for no reason in this world, and there is no love that needs you to pay all the time. Respond to love, you pay, and the person who is willing to repay you with the best love is the lover.

In the TV series "My First Half Life", Tang Jing said: "When two people are together in marriage, the one who makes rapid progress will always get rid of the stagnant one, because people's instinct is to explore the extension and connotation of life more."

Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean relying on him completely. Love is not everything to a woman, but a part of life. When you manage a love with your heart, you need to have your own attitude towards life, and marriage will make your life complete.

The marriage is unhappy. If women leave room for themselves, they can still have the ability to make money and the belief to go forward, and they can also have a wonderful life.

In marriage, women should learn to rely on themselves. When you can still live a beautiful life without relying on others, you will get more respect and love.

Love is not unrequited love. Women also need to learn to rely on themselves in marriage, live with principles and temper, in order to be more attractive. So as to get more respect and appreciation.

If a woman has the ability to make money, she can make others look up to you, and she can reap a beautiful and happy harvest and be recognized by her husband's family.

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