1 Hate people like water, and make waves casually? Liu Yuxi's Zhi Zhu Ci in Tang Dynasty
Hating people's hearts is more terrible than the river. The river will only make waves after the wind blows, and people's hearts will turn up bad waves on the flat ground for no reason. ?
2? Know more, make fewer friends and make fewer mistakes. Chen Jiru's Little Window in Ming Dynasty
People who read widely and travel in Dachuan have a wide range of knowledge, while those who communicate less have less troubles.
3, only full of self-esteem, lane poor door poor. Living under the Old City of the Prince of Wu by Meng Jiao in the Tang Dynasty
A knowledgeable person is noble, even if he lives in a humble room, he is not poor.
4. Things that go wrong are often eight or nine times. Can you tell someone? Feng Menglong in the Ming Dynasty's "Awakening the World"
In this life, nine times out of ten things you encounter are often unsatisfactory, and nine times out of ten things you can tell others.
Things are not what people want, but people still have to live, so people should keep a normal heart to treat things.
5. Not good at making a boat feels like Hong Kong accent, and not good at writing too bald. ? Hao Di in Qing Dynasty
Ships that can't drive don't like the twists and turns in the harbor, and those who can't write complain that their pens are bald. Metaphorically, people who have no skills do not look for reasons subjectively, but blame them on poor objective conditions.
6, not for love of good, nor for evil.
? Ji Kang's Interpretation of Private Affairs in the Western Jin Dynasty
Don't praise just because you like it, and don't deny it just because you hate it.
7. There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple when people look at it. Dong Fangshuo in Han Dynasty by Ban Gu in Eastern Han Dynasty
If the water is too clear, fish will not grow in it; If people are too picky, there will be no friends around them.
8. I don't come because I doubt it; Don't come in, take advantage of the gap. Li Yu Liu Ji's Fear of Ghosts in Ming Dynasty
The slanderer will not automatically find someone, but because he has doubts in his heart; If you alienate each other, it won't be effective, but if you alienate each other, it will give you the opportunity to alienate each other.
9. The granary actually knows etiquette, and food and clothing know honor and disgrace. Tube. Herdsmen in Guan Zhong's Works in the Spring and Autumn Period
Eat to enrich the people before you know the etiquette, and then you know the honor and disgrace.
10. Illness is greater than never hearing, and shame is greater than shame. ? Wang Tong in Sui Dynasty
The biggest problem is that you don't want to hear others point out your mistakes, and the biggest shame is that you don't know shame.
1 1, easy to change, but easy to change. Mulan Ci of Nalan Xingde in Qing Dynasty
It's easy to change your mind now, and it's easy to change your heart when you intercede.
12, if you are drunk today, you will worry about tomorrow. Tang dynasty? Luo Yin's self-scheduling
Today there is wine, today is drunk, and tomorrow is worrying about tomorrow.
I3, the icing on the cake has existed since ancient times, but it hasn't.
? Luo Nianan's Awakening Poems in Ming Dynasty
There are always icing on the cake, but those who help in time don't.
Many people help others when they are in a good situation, but few people are willing to help others when they are in danger.
14, now, near my village, I dare not ask a question when I meet people?
Tang dynasty? Song Wenzhi's Crossing the Han River!
Wandering all the year round, the closer I get to my hometown, the more nervous I am, so that I dare not ask about my hometown when I meet my fellow villagers.
15, if you stay in the orchid room for a long time, you won't smell its fragrance, and if you stay in the temple for a long time, you won't smell its stink. ? Confucius' Family Story
If you stay in a room full of orchid fragrance, you won't smell it for a long time. If you stay in a fishy fish shop, you won't smell it for a long time, which means that if you stay in an environment for a long time, you will unconsciously get used to it and be polluted.
16, the wife is virtuous and the husband is few, and the son is filial and the father is lenient.
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If the wife is virtuous, the husband will suffer less; Children are filial and parents are in a better mood.
17, how can it be satisfactory, but it is worthy of my heart, Jin Ying, the motto of Qing Dynasty.
How can one person's behavior satisfy everyone? Life is alive, just asking for a clear conscience.
18, poor and strong, not falling into the clouds; When you are old and strong, would you rather be moved? ? Wang Bo's Preface to Wang Tengting in Tang Dynasty
When people are down and out, they should be strong and not lose the ambition of Lingyun. When you are old, you can't change your ambition to make contributions.
People are harmless to Tigerheart, but tigers are harmful.
? The Revenge Play of Zhao's Orphan in Yuan Dynasty
People didn't hurt the tiger's heart, but it can't be concluded that the tiger didn't hurt people's heart. Warn people to be vigilant.
20. Smelling the morning bell is thought-provoking.
Tang Du Fu's Youlong Menfengxian Temple
When you hear the bell in the morning, you should check yourself and see how you live every day.
2 1, but if you walk up a flight of stairs, you can broaden your horizons by 300 miles. ?
In the Heron House by Wang Zhihuan in the Tang Dynasty
If you want to see farther, you must climb higher, that is to say, if you want to achieve higher achievements, you must constantly strive to improve yourself.
22. Be careful if you want to stay away from right and wrong. ?
China Yan Hai written by Shi Xiangzai in Qing Dynasty
To avoid worldly right and wrong and interference, the first thing is to be cautious in dealing with people.
23. The source is long and the root is deep.
Zhang Shuo's Ode to the Uprising Hall in Tang Dynasty
Only by dredging the source can water flow far; The roots are deep and leafy, and the branches are flourishing.
24. He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise. ? Laozi's Tao Te Ching in the Spring and Autumn Period
People who can understand others are very wise, and people who can understand themselves are like a mirror.
25,? Small catkins are blowing on the branches, and the grass in the sea is growing. Su Shi's Dead Hua Lian in the Northern Song Dynasty
After the wind blows, the catkins on the willow branches become scarce, but don't stick to a piece of spring scenery. Where is there no grass under the sun?
To insist on one thing.
26, the governor is less, less trouble, more people know than right and wrong. Luo Nianan's Awakening Poems in Ming Dynasty
If you know less things, you will naturally have less troubles. If you know more people, you may have more right and wrong.
27. The world doesn't understand God's will, which makes the body and mind feel sad at night. Shichengjin in Qing Dynasty
People in the world don't know God's mind, and efforts will only waste body and mind.
28. Everything in the world is floating dust in the heart, and efforts are always troublesome. Anonymous "augmented and virtuous"
Everything in the world is just dust suspended in my heart. After all, a hasty life is full of troubles.
29. The world can't understand who makes friends. Only gold is important, and no one is important. ? Gao Shi presented Ren Hua in Tang Dynasty.
This world doesn't know the truth of making friends, only depends on whether there is money or not, and doesn't pay attention to character.
30. Food, clothing, housing and transportation are immortals. ? Luo Nianan's Awakening Poems in Ming Dynasty
How about food, clothing, housing and transportation for a lifetime? Never mind, just decide the fate of the oil man. As long as you can enjoy a leisurely and comfortable life, you are a carefree fairy.
3 1, the favorite fish in my life has no tongue: travel all over the rivers and lakes with little right and wrong. Zhou's Redefinition of Augmented Literature in Qing Dynasty
I like eating fish best in my life, and I don't have a tongue, so traveling around the rivers and lakes won't cause trouble. It means that disaster comes from your mouth, so be careful what you say.
32. Dragons have sex, and they are not in the pool. ?
? Chen Shou in the Western Jin Dynasty, The History of the Three Kingdoms, Wu Shujiu and Zhou Yu
When it comes to sex, dragons are no longer in the pool.
33, the dragon has not met, fish and turtles dive, the gentleman loses time and makes a villain. Lv Mengzheng in the Northern Song Dynasty "persuaded the world"
The dragon lost its fortune and could only swim between fish and turtles; Ambitious people have lost their fortune and can only stand under the laity. 》
34, knot grass into a ring, repay kindness with kindness.
? Zuo Qiuming in the Spring and Autumn Period.
Tie the grass into a rope and hold Yuhuan in your mouth to repay the benefactor, which means to be grateful for your kindness until death do us part.
35, all rivers run into the sea, with great tolerance; The wall stands a thousand miles, and it is just without desire. In Qing dynasty, Lin Zexu, self-improvement alliance
Because of its magnanimity, the sea can accommodate all rivers; If people want nothing, they can be strong as a mountain.
36. The overloaded man sank his boat and wanted the winner to kill him.
Ge Hong in the Eastern Jin Dynasty
Too much load will sink the ship; Too much desire will do harm to your health.
37, harm and benefit, disaster and blessing, is just a normal state, stable to the end. Children's Language in Lv Kun in Ming Dynasty
Bad things are always accompanied by good things; Evil and happiness depend on each other, just to live a normal and stable life.
38. Wealth begets debauchery, while addiction leads to stupidity.
Southern dynasties Liang fuzhao
Rich environment can easily make people get into the habit of greed and debauchery, and indulging in pleasure can make people stupid.
39. Rich people are used to being extravagant and extravagant, and it is the most difficult to teach children; The poor want to make a living or study. Wang Yongbin's Night Talk Around the Furnace in Qing Dynasty
Wealthy families are used to living in luxury, so it is difficult to educate their children well. Whether the poor want to make a living or study.
40, thick cloth wrapped in life, full of poetry? Su Shi's Farewell to Dong in Northern Song Dynasty
Wearing a coarse coat for life will not affect a person's temperament. As long as his stomach is full of profound knowledge, his temperament will naturally be full of brilliance.