With nothing to do, I actually read through my Weibo from beginning to end. There are more than 1,660 pieces of content. I couldn’t help but smile at the corner of my mouth. A few years ago, when WeChat had not yet appeared and became popular, Weibo was like a small country and a tree hole in my soul, recording my growth bit by bit.

We were so simple back then, easily satisfied and easily hurt. Time gradually wears away our edges and youthful frivolity, and we become more and more aware of the warmth and warmth of life.

Ten years ago, a little sadness could be exaggerated and shocking. Now we finally understand that in this busy world, everyone is too busy to take care of themselves, and no one can take care of everything in such detail. Your little emotions and glass heart.

That year, I experienced the most pain. That year, I lost my mother who loved me the most, and I also lost someone who I thought would be by my side forever. Long nights and endless tears. At that time, I felt that life was so difficult. It was not about material poverty, but the pain of overload in my heart. I often ask myself: "Why do I have to go through so much pain?" I never have an answer. At that time, I had just graduated from college, earning a meager salary, and renting in a small village with a crowded night market. At that time, I didn’t know when such a life would end. I seemed to have fallen into a whirlpool, and no matter how hard I struggled, I still couldn't get out.

Being as stupid as me, I couldn't heal myself at that time, so I could only choose the most embarrassing way to escape. Change jobs, move away from that city or rural area, first get away from that familiar place full of memories. The new environment, new colleagues, and new friends can really make time fly by. The wounds in my heart finally began to heal in the rush of time, scabbing, shedding, and then growing new muscles. Now I understand why some people have to go through so much pain. Maybe God is merciful and wants you to become strong and brave. Only when you grit your teeth and persevere through these hardships can your new wings be more powerful and capable. Fly higher and further.

Fortunately, okay, along the way, I can still stick to my original intention; okay, okay, we all know how to let go at the right time, so that we can meet our own little luck; okay, okay. Well, you and I, who have been let down, can live an ordinary life and feel down-to-earth happiness.

But in 2018, I still hope that you can do the following things. Maybe these ordinary things will not change your life a lot, nor will they bring you a lot of wealth, but I still hope that you can do the following things. I hope that in the new year, you can become a peaceful and calm person while ensuring your material foundation.

Happiness. You must have the ability to be happy, because living a happy life will make you discover that the world is actually very beautiful, and there will always be some strangers who can bring you unexpected warmth.

Work. Having a job you like can not only provide you with a self-sufficient material life, but occasional small progress and success will make you more aware of your social value, and you will no longer belittle yourself and feel sad.

Interest. Life is a long road, but there are always one or two interesting hobbies to enrich your spare time. When you calm down and concentrate on doing one thing, you will find that it is far more interesting than browsing Taobao and following those boring and nutritious idol dramas.

Friends. Although loneliness is a normal part of life, no man is an island. Occasionally, I invite a few friends and close friends to have afternoon tea together and chat about each other's current situation. Many things that you have been struggling to figure out will be relieved.

Learn. Please never give up learning. As I grow older, I realize that the wise saying "knowledge changes destiny" has the most practical meaning. Maybe you will regret not learning one more skill and taking one more certificate.

Finally, and most importantly: be kind to yourself. No matter what stage of life you are in now, whether you are living a comfortable or difficult life, whether you have achieved little or nothing, please treat yourself well. Eat healthy and delicious food, buy comfortable clothes, cry hard if you want to cry, laugh loudly if you want to laugh, give yourself a vacation when you are tired, go out and take a look, life is hard enough, don’t stop You are embarrassing yourself.

Many people spend their whole lives living for others and do not know how to please themselves. When we can get along well with ourselves, we can get along well with the world.

Talk to Jun.