1. Quickly forget unpleasant things.

2. Set your goal and continue to challenge even if you fail.

3. Face the gossip calmly.

4. Always be grateful for jealousy and irony.

In the face of praise, push your luck and get carried away. .

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Junichi Watanabe, a Japanese writer, believes that "passivity" can be literally translated as "passivity", that is, facing the setbacks and pains in life calmly and moving forward firmly in one's own direction. In terms of life wisdom, dullness is indeed much better than oversensitivity. No matter what happens, what environment, and having the right sensitivity, we can quickly change our mood and stubbornly overcome difficulties.

"Insensitive" seems to be associated with negative words such as dullness and dullness, but it is actually "the means and wisdom to win a better life".

Everyone loves "idiots"

There is no shortage of smart people in modern society, but it is not necessarily a good thing to have many smart people. Smart people are often conceited, look down on Zhang San Li Si, and it is unlikely that they will cooperate sincerely. A wise man's eyes are always on the shortcut. He only uses his brain instead of his hands. Try those people who look silly, but concentrate on doing things and being human, so that everyone who cooperates with them is full of trust.

"A strong man is born with a bear" seems silly, but he has done many great things.

If you want to succeed, you must be "insensitive"

This seems to be contrary to the so-called "positive" thought that we have been instilled since childhood.

In school, it is important to seize the opportunity to behave well and strive to be an active and excellent student; In the workplace, it is important to have a keen observation of the surrounding environment and market insight; In love, it is important to actively find your other half and strive for a lifetime of happiness; In interpersonal communication, we should also be vigilant and balanced. Therefore, we live in the present life, career, marriage and communication. We always have to bear too much pressure and get used to being sensitive. We care more and more, and we don't know how to tolerate and release. More importantly, when we subconsciously repeat this "positive" habit in our life, we find that when we are busy, life becomes boring and bad. We are physically and mentally exhausted, but we are inevitably tired of life. We have paid a lot, but we never see the hope of success.

Therefore, we began to reflect. Instead of taking the initiative to attack everything and haggling over every ounce, making others tired and ourselves more tired, we should change our thinking, abandon "sensitivity" and cultivate "dullness" and face life in a more relaxed and peaceful environment.

As a kind of attitude and life wisdom, it is easier to achieve inner balance with "indifference" Especially in the high-pressure and fast-paced modern society, if we just focus on the goals we care about and adjust our mentality to be unmoved by the outside world, we will live a more relaxed, happy and fulfilling life.