12 psychology quotes that are worth reading over and over. An idea, if you regard it as "true", this idea will work for you. Based on this, NLP puts forward the following important premise assumptions, 12 assumptions to break the wall of your thinking.

What is NLP?

N (Neuro) refers to the nervous system, which means body and mind.

L refers to language, which refers to the words, phrases, tones and all body movements we use in communication.

P is program. Earlier, we talked about body, mind and language. It is through language that we influence ourselves and others. Likewise, others influence us through words. This process of influence is called a program in NLP.

(1) No two people are the same

1. No two people can have completely consistent views on the same thing;

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3. The differences between people make this world wonderful and valuable;

< p> 4. Similarly, it is normal for you to have different opinions from others;

5. Only when you respect the differences of others will others respect your own uniqueness.

(2) One person cannot change another person

1. One person cannot change another person, so he cannot control another person;

2. You don’t want to be manipulated by others, and neither do others;

3. Everyone can only change himself;

4. You cannot push another person, everyone is only controlled by his or her own Driven by values;

5. Therefore, one person cannot teach another person, but can only guide him to learn by himself.

(3) There are only three types of things in life: things about yourself, others and God

1. You must be responsible for taking care of your own things, such as your own success and happiness;

2. We can only make suggestions on other people’s matters and respect their choices;

3. There is no way to resist God’s matters, so we have to obey and surrender;

4 , Many people should mind their own business and insist on minding other people's business;

5. Designing your own life path in the direction of God's operation is wisdom.

(4) If you take care of the three wins in everything, there will be no sequelae

1. The three wins are: good for me, good for you, and good for the world;

2 , The bottom line of win-win: don’t hurt yourself, don’t hurt the other party, don’t hurt others;

3. A win-win is not necessary, corruption and betrayal are both win-win;

4. Consider everything in advance Three wins, there will be more appropriate results;

5. Three wins and effectiveness are the selection criteria for anything.

(5) Effects are more important than principles

1. It is deceiving oneself and others to only emphasize that principles are correct but fail to produce effects;

2. There are no two people. "Principles" are the same;

3. Principles are right and wrong, and we should look past right and wrong to see the effects;

4. Principles often focus on the past, while effects only focus on the past. Put it in the future;

5. Principles that have no effect are meaningless.

(6) We use subjective cognition to shape our world, rather than sensory experience

1. We use our senses to absorb data, because we cannot capture all the data and it is always subjective Select part of the data to ingest;

2. The ingested data is filtered by our belief system to determine its meaning, and stays in the mind based on the emotional feelings generated;

3 , Senses are subjective, and belief systems are also subjective, so we cannot be objective;

4. Everyone’s world is like a self-made map in his mind, and he uses it to deal with everything;

5. Change the world in a person's mind, and that person's attitude towards things in life will change.

(7) Everything must have at least three solutions

1. Only one solution is a dilemma, only two solutions are a dilemma, a dilemma;

2. More methods means more choices, which means greater ability;

3. There is no way, it just means that the known methods don’t work, and there are new and unknown methods;

4 , so far unsuccessful, just saying that the methods used have no effect, and there are new methods that have not been used;

5. It is better to have choices than no choices.

(8) Everyone does the best they can at the moment

1. Everyone has a mechanism in their brain that automatically chooses the best;

2. If you don’t understand, forget or are unwilling to do it, you won’t be able to do it;

3. Now that you have done it, it is the best you can do at the time;

4. Re-do it You will not do better if you have been there, so you need to fully accept yourself;

5. Everyone is imperfect and can do better every day.

(9) Motives and emotions are not wrong, it’s just that the behavior is ineffective

1. The motivation is subconsciously, always to let the person get more and better;

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2. Every emotion has its meaning, either providing strength or guiding the direction;

3. When we learn what we need to learn, the emotions will disappear;

4. Accept a person's motivations and emotions, and he will be willing to let you guide him to make changes;

5. One act does not equal the entire person or the entire life.

(10) If you do not learn from it, failure will only be the mother of failure

1. Repeating failed practices will only repeat the results of failure;

2. Adhering to invalid or wrong methods will only lead to exhaustion and failure;

3. 80% of success depends on how you choose, and only 20% depends on what you do;

4. Failure is a signal that changes are needed;

5. Flexibility is a hundred times more likely to succeed than persistence.

(11) Anything worth doing is worth doing well; anything worth doing well is worth doing happily

1. At any time, you have a lot Choice, your subconscious mind always chooses the best thing to do among many choices, which is the most worth doing;

2. Since you choose to do everything, you want to succeed.

3. Everything you choose to do should be done happily, not only when you succeed;

4. Only when you succeed can you feel happy , life will have less joy and more suffering; there will be unhappy success, but there will be no unhappy happiness.

5. In the feeling of happiness, the brain has the most success hormones.

(12) Everyone has the right and responsibility to make their own life successful and happy

1. Accepting life is for the development and growth of the family system, which is the first purpose of life;

2. The second purpose of life is to have a successful and happy life, which is to support the first purpose;

3. The inheritance of life therefore gives us the rights and responsibilities to live a successful and happy life. ;

4. Accepting yourself, appreciating yourself, and loving yourself are the prerequisites for a successful and happy life;

5. We already have all the resources needed for a successful and happy life. , they come from countless generations of parents behind each person.