Parents play a major role in family education, especially for children. Professor Li Meijin once said, "If you don't care about your children and you are not used to them, you will take fewer detours in the future." .

Spoiling children is a common phenomenon in many families in China, such as helping children dress, feeding them bite by bite and carrying their schoolbags. Many parents will make their children lose their autonomy invisibly and lose many opportunities to exercise themselves.

Parents should encourage their children to do their own things and improve their self-reliance ability, which is very important for their growth.

Parents often complain in life, some say that children never talk to themselves, some say that children always steal to use their own cosmetics, some say that children are puppy love, and some say that children play games and mobile phones every day, and one play is one day.

An indispensable part of family education: Professor Li Meijin's concept of parenting tells us that behind the abnormal behavior of children, the root cause actually comes from the neglect and lack of early education for children. One painful lesson reminds parents once again that the greatest kindness to their children is not to have children, but to accompany them to grow up.

Nowadays, many parents are busy with their work, and their children are taken care of by their elders, neglecting their family education, which leads to deviation.

Some elders tend to spoil their children, and children can eat whatever they want. In the long run, children will develop a spoiled character and lose their temper when something goes wrong. When it is serious, it will even start work on the elders. This is a very bad behavior. In this case, parents must correct the child in time and kill his character in the cradle.

The child made a little mistake, and did not take the initiative to bear the mistake at the first time, but found various excuses to prevaricate his parents. Then he is irresponsible. If parents don't correct their children's mistakes in time, they are likely to become reckless and irresponsible people in the future.

As parents, we must help our children correct their mistakes at the first time, give them some guiding opinions and tell them what is right and wrong. For example, let children read some books they like and educational picture books. Let children develop the habit of loving reading and reading good books, so as to gradually develop a sense of responsibility.

In this regard, Professor Li Meijin made it clear that when we take care of Bauer, we should not leave Dabao hanging aside, but take Dabao with us and let Dabao participate in the activities of taking care of Bauer, such as taking things and helping to have a look.

This will take care of Bauer without hurting Dabao, and the relationship between the two children will become more and more harmonious.

What kind of family makes what kind of children, family is the first school for children, and parents are the first teachers for children. The quality of family education will directly affect the child's life!