A woman who has been honed over the years will definitely look at life and feelings differently from the past. I used to care too much and obsess too deeply, but I suffered myself after all. In that case, why not relax and let nature take its course? Just like there is a saying in Buddhism: Everything in the world may only fall in love in an instant, or it may end in an instant.
People's thoughts are unpredictable and no one can predict or manipulate them. The only thing we can do is to try our best to adjust our mentality, treat the fact of love and not love calmly, and don't lose ourselves because of sadness. Remember, it's really not easy to come to this world once. I have experienced a lot of emotional difficulties in middle-aged and elderly people, and now it is time to let go of all the burdens. In the future, I will learn to be happy for myself. Middle-aged women, if they live clearly, will no longer be trapped by love.
0 1 Love or not, everything in the world has been experienced, which is inherently valuable and perfect, especially the love between men and women. I thought I fell in love with someone, devoted myself to him and pleased him, but I still couldn't escape the trick of fate. When fate comes to the terminal, no one can escape the fact that tea is cold.
If you don't get along with him, there must be realistic factors behind it. Maybe your feelings are not accepted by your family, or maybe you are not firm enough with each other. For various reasons, everyone's love can't last long. In fact, you have to understand that once some stories begin, they must end the next day. The fading of the flower of love is indeed a sad thing, but on second thought, if you meet the wrong person at the wrong time, maybe your lifelong friends will have to go their separate ways.
Like it or not, it's all an emotional experience. In fact, life is like this. Only after experiencing love and hate can we have a new understanding and make the right choice. As the book says: all the past is a preface, and all the future is a promising future. Look at what has happened and have no regrets. We should take a long-term view and strive to find more beautiful scenery in the next journey.
There is no point in being trapped by feelings. Once people reach middle age, their life will enter a new period, and they will have more obligations. If they are trapped in the whirlpool of feelings, they will definitely make a mess of their lives. I have met some people, in their thirties and forties, who obviously have no life of their own, but still cling to the love they met on the Internet. Answer the phone every day and wait for the attention of the other party. She was in pain here when others suddenly disappeared.
I have also met some people who have been devastated after unsuccessful love. Every day, I have no intention to work or go out to socialize, so I trap myself in the house and bite these painful experiences over and over again. Being trapped by love has no effect except to make your life stagnant and your heart riddled with holes.
Middle-aged women should still live more fully. Distant love is not worth thinking about, and love that has long since disappeared is not worth your pain. I remember what Feng Zikai wrote in "Don't spoil, live a life without fear and danger": don't think about the past, don't fall in love, don't fear the future, don't worry, that's all. Middle-aged women, after years of baptism, should give themselves a relaxed heart. Many short stories, just put them down, don't entangle, don't entangle, that's the best.
The rest of your life is not long. I wish you treat yourself well and pay off your time. Zhang Ailing said: A woman's youth is very short, maybe just a wisp of smoke. When I arrived at middle-aged and elderly people, I suddenly found that my youth was gone. Unfortunately, looking back on the past days, I actually spent too much time and energy on others.
In the past, I always shed tears for others, but who can see clearly that you have been wronged and who has hurt you? In the past, I was always humble for others, but who will cherish your positivity and respect you? Along the way, you have experienced so much. You have loved, hurt, suffered and been disappointed. Maybe you learned the true meaning of a good life from this.
In fact, people have too many helpless things in this life, and too deep obsession will only lead them to the end of the road. Love or not, at a certain age, you will find that some things are not critical. It is more worthwhile than being trapped by love or taking care of yourself.
Time flies and the rest of my life is not long. As a woman, you must not waste your time casually, but be kind to yourself. From now on, I hope you can try to adjust your mood, look down on gains and losses, cultivate a calm mind, do something happy and see the beautiful scenery. Come to this world, please be your own hero once. In this way, it can be said that there are no regrets.