When a man is courting a woman, from the perspective of biological evolution, the man's potential long-term purpose is clear, that is, he hopes to get at least one chance to fall in love with this woman.
Before courtship, men will analyze the matching degree between themselves and each other and the possibility of physical love between them. For those women who can't have physical love with themselves at all, no matter how beautiful a woman is, courtship can't achieve what she wants. Assuming that every man is a rational person, they naturally know that their life is short, and of course they will not waste precious time and energy on the impossible.
For most men, a peerless beauty like Little Dragon Girl can never have physical love with herself. Therefore, it is a waste of wax for the blind to be attentive to Little Dragon Girl. For the vast majority of men, only ordinary-looking women are more likely to be moved by their own attentions and accept their physical invitations to show their love. Therefore, it is most cost-effective to be attentive to such women.
Maybe after reading my answer above, many friends will think that I am talking nonsense. In their view, all men want to have physical love with beautiful young women. I agree with that, but thinking and doing are two different things. I still want to go to Peking University to study undergraduate course, but in the end I only read West University. Men all know one word, and this word is: Do what you can.
From the perspective of biological evolution, it is certain that every man dreams of having sex with Cui Yingying, but they also clearly know that they are not Zhang Junrui, and Cui Yingying probably despises himself at all, let alone recommend a pillow mat. Therefore, they will naturally turn their attention to women who are easy to attack, such as Oh Mom and Ah Q, but Ah Q did something wrong. How can he kneel down and loudly announce "I want to sleep with you?"
You should send some gifts to Wu Ma first, such as roses and diamond rings. When Wu Ma is not feeling well, you should pay more attention and say "drink more hot water". Usually, you should read more poems to Wu Ma, such as "Sister, you are sailing in the boat, brother and I are walking on the shore, kind and loving, and the rope is swaying". After this kind of hospitality, Wu Ma felt that she was a strong man to rely on, and then she would fall in love physically.
You see, are all men doing this routine now? Why?
Because tens of thousands of years ago, when human beings first appeared, those men who only dreamed of having physical love with the most beautiful women failed to leave their descendants, and those men who did not know how to ask for love from women were gradually eliminated. Today, all men are full of rational blood, and the genes of courtship are buried.
Rational blood and courtship genes lead them to pursue women who are more likely to have physical love with themselves, so today you can see that many women are not beautiful, but many men are pursuing-
Because those men who seek love think that this ugly woman is more likely to have physical love with themselves, of course, this feeling of men may be accurate judgment, or they may make a wrong judgment after receiving the wrong signal.