This state is actually very dangerous. If you don't listen to other people's opinions, you will lose the opportunity to learn from others. In fact, you will close an important channel to enhance your cognition. Some time ago, I saw a sentence from Yu. The key to improving cognition lies in an open mind, reading more books and contacting more people. Among them, an open mind is the most important. It is not unreasonable that "a threesome must have a teacher" No two people are exactly the same. Regardless of the status and knowledge of the people around us, we can learn from others.
Some time ago, I read Liu Run's article that there are four levels of cognition, I don't know, I don't know, I know, I know, I don't know. The first layer is self-righteousness, the second layer is awe, the third layer is to find the law of things, and the fourth layer is to keep an empty cup mentality. People who don't listen to other people's opinions are still at the first level of cognition. We can also think about where we are now and what our goal is to achieve.
So, how to avoid falling into the trap of smart people? There are several suggestions.
When you come across a different point of view from yourself, don't rush to criticize, don't pay attention to right and wrong, but pay attention to the logic behind it.
Always remind yourself that the knowledge you have is not necessarily comprehensive, and there are still many places to learn. The empty cup mentality is a bit similar to the growth mentality that we often say, that is, we believe that all kinds of abilities can be improved through learning. On the contrary, a fixed mentality means that abilities remain unchanged. We all understand this truth, but in practice, many people unconsciously become a fixed mentality, and once or twice fail, they label themselves as impossible and incompetent. Or feel that you have already worked, learned a lot at work, or have a higher education or position, so you don't need to study any more. We must never rest on our laurels and give up opportunities for development.
Sometimes we may not like a person, but he does have a lot to learn. At this time, you must put down your face and ask him for advice. It may be difficult, but once we break through, we will get new growth. Liang Ning said that only by doing what you dare not do can you make a breakthrough in growth. This is also the case.
After work, many people stop reading and studying except for their busy work and life, which leads to the gradual shrinkage and involution of life pattern. Recently, observing some people and things in the company, it is more and more dangerous to find the universality of this problem. Learning is a lifetime thing. When we were students, we mainly studied cultural knowledge, mostly for preparing for exams and obtaining academic degrees. The real learning about our own growth is after work. At this time, we need to learn more thinking mode, problem-solving ability, management ability, strategic planning, decision-making ability and so on. And these are all things that affect our lives.
Above, whatever you want.