There is a kind of false frankness in the world, which needs to be guarded against most.
He spread many vicious plans on the table. He exposed your doubts about him first, making you feel dirty and sorry for him. He predicts the worst possible events one after another, but makes you feel foolproof. ......
People often have the illusion that only concealment is cheating. Little did I know that the cleverest deception was carried out in broad daylight.
Pseudofrankness is a higher level of hypocrisy, which takes advantage of people's trust in frankness.
In fact, honesty does not mean that there are many problems. Just making the opinions of both sides public is not the same as sincerity in itself.
There are countless forks in the road in life, and most of them are tempted at the crossroads of differences. We are often dazzled by strange substances.
We need to think in the dark, think about our innate ideals, and think about the road we are going to take, whether it is near or far from our ultimate goal.
Eyes are certainly useful. But sometimes when we close our eyes, we can better listen to the answers from our hearts.
Irresponsible praise is often more embarrassing than criticism.
Because he didn't notice your real advantages, just to show his personal demeanor. When he likes you most, he is so careless, which shows your position in his heart.
You still have the right to resent the wrong criticism. For false praise, you only have sadness.
For those who agree with me, I feel his kindness.
I examine the wisdom of those who oppose me.
If what I see in the pros is pandering, and what I feel in the opponents is ignorance, then I don't care to listen to the opinions of two people. I don't care if people talk about my loneliness and arrogance.
Under normal circumstances, laziness is not desirable. But laziness sometimes makes us think. At this time, laziness is not a vacillating mentality, but a warm-up exercise that breeds a new state.
Some people always show their importance. Speak loudly, look dignified, laugh loudly, dress inappropriately, be late on purpose, and even constantly create sensational gimmicks in newspapers and periodicals. ......
I always find a kind of weakness and fatigue that belongs to intimidation in these artificial actions.
Life is for yourself. It is a simple and natural thing, not a trick in front of everyone.
There is nothing wrong with refusing. What is wrong is that we reject the previous judgment.
We shouldn't be afraid to refuse, we just need to make a more cautious decision.
I appreciate rejection more than approval.
Rejection is a simplification, and rejection is a relaxation. Rejection is a kind of wisdom, and rejection is a truth.
When interests dazzle you like a kaleidoscope, you will blur your vision in the chaos. Try to refuse. ......
Rejection is like a broken arm, and the old love no longer hurts.
Rejection is like rushing forward, giving birth to a free and unconstrained style.
Rejection is sometimes an elegy, echoing with lingering sadness.
The former residences of celebrities in Beijing include Lu Xun, Guo Moruo, Lao She and Soong Ching Ling. ......
A business friend said angrily, why is there no former residence of a big businessman?
I think it is difficult to convince everyone except the rules of business. What people can see in their former residence is probably boring. Maybe you can see the culture, but why look at the tributaries? Since the source exists.
All goods are perishable compared with words.
For this world, people are concerned about material things.
For a long time, people have paid more attention to spirit.
A person needs at least one non-utilitarian hobby.
For example, I love fishing, not to satisfy my hunger.
Love calligraphy, not to sell money.
I love running, not to set a world record.
Love dancing, not stage performance. ......
It is not only attached with abundant energy, but also a kind of relaxed placement and exertion of spirit, and feels the beautiful true meaning of life.
A person's charm is often seen more clearly after he retires.
The aura belonging to the post is faded by the years, and the spiritual light belonging to the individual shines out. This process is depressing for some people and new for others.
I long for aging because of the hardships of life.
I know, as long as I live, I will make unremitting efforts for one day. There is only one suitable way to cancel all responsibilities, and that is death.
Aging is close to death, so I am fearless.
Diamonds are the hardest substance on our planet. So what substance is used to cut and polish diamonds?
The answer is-another diamond.
Diamonds conquer themselves and pursue perfection.
Humans also need others to keep beating.
Expectation can give people courage and easily lead to depression. The key is the "value" of expectation. Expect neither too little nor too much, but a moderate amount is difficult to master.
Comparing the two, I think it is better to expect more from myself. Although failure is easy to make people depressed, it sometimes arouses unexpected courage. If it is for others, it is better to expect less and be less disappointed and hurt.
"Fear" always seems to be a derogatory term. Afraid of what? Don't be afraid! Don't be afraid of the sky, don't be afraid ... It seems that not being afraid is the great realm of life.
In fact, people have to be afraid of one thing all their lives. This is what China said in ancient times. Jin Mu is full of fire, water and earth, and everyone is afraid of something. If we don't get together, there will be no mutual growth and the universe will be in a mess.
Surprise is natural, not made. It is the spark of true feelings. A round pebble will no longer disturb the waves of the river. Surprise contains the vitality of forging ahead.
There are some things in the world, remember, never say.
If you don't tell, no one will know.
You don't know. I don't know. We don't need to know. Don't think your mistakes so clearly. Do not discuss the process, fixed in memory like a specimen. Some things are not worth summarizing, and the best way to forget is never to look back. It may be serious, but the biggest correction is never to make the same mistake again.
We sometimes attach too much importance to "reasons" for others' rejection. In fact, the reason is not important, what matters is the real and difficult-to-express purpose it conveys.
If we fall, but we don't know which stone tripped us, isn't it more frustrating than falling?
Loyalty is a useless alias. Useless is not another name for faithfulness, which means the same as laziness, imbecility, mental retardation and self-defeating. Therefore, faithfulness can be cultivated, but it is useless but almost useless.
People should fear the law, and the law is the rule of all. It is a natural law that people are afraid of the sky. I'm afraid it's a big framework in which we can move freely. If we break through its edge, we will become lawless people, which is a waste of mankind.
Knowing a person's greatest weakness is more important than knowing a person's greatest strength. Because patience is much harder than appreciation.
Rumors are also very useful. When they fly, they warn that some kind of disaster is brewing.
The new rich, the poor and the new rich are shocking. The former looks rich for a hundred years, and the latter looks rich for another hundred years.
If people are used, it is generally considered a great misfortune. But if things in the world can't be used by people, they are wastes and will be abandoned. People are above things and should be more valuable.
Is it selfish that you can use yourself and others can't use you?
It's not a question of whether you can be used, but whether you get the reward you deserve when the other party uses you. Does this have a strong utilitarian color?
So being used is not a great misfortune in life. If people can't be used at all, that is the saddest thing.
Those who claim that they are seldom cheated seldom trust others.
Trust is sometimes just another name for being cheated.
Is there a way to kill two birds with one stone? There is only one thing, and that is wisdom and well-trained intuition.
Ignorance is not necessarily a bad thing. Information explosion in modern society might as well turn a deaf ear to many fashionable things. The price paid is to be ridiculed as outdated, and the fruit of harvest is the clarity of the mind.
When the bravest and smartest people climb to unprecedented heights, they are greeted by cold and desolation.
In the face of numerous starry skies and distant black holes, you step out of noble and lonely steps.
You are likely to go the wrong way and disappear like dust.
The conveyor belt will not leave the footprints of explorers. It calmly watched the pioneers running towards it, leaving only one place to succeed.
The universe uses death to limit people's pace. The birth of every human baby is a new beginning of history. When the wise men left, they took away what they found without resorting to language.
History does not record echoes. Human life is a chain with a fixed length. In order to fight against death and leave room for creation after repeated study, only by loading more hope and heaviness on each life ring will human beings become more and more anxious and nervous.
I know what is sublime. In fact, it is a feeling derived from fear, and it is heroic after overcoming fear.
I will deeply review my own shortcomings in the dark without anyone. But I don't want to act like a defective product in public.
Don't think that ordinary little people have no dignity. Don't think that women's sense of dignity is inherently weaker than the average level of men or humans. Don't think that people who have lost their dignity will no longer cherish it.
The lofty side can be ordinary, but not humble.
Wisdom is divided into regions. Business wisdom is golden, political wisdom is bloody, love wisdom is colorless and hate wisdom is black. No one's wisdom can do everything, so people are extremely smart in some fields, but confused in another.
Tingchun (Li Yanlin)
"spring hits six or nine heads." It is also a year of spring breeze, fragrant grass and fragrant apricot flowers. On the second day in beginning of spring, there was a light snow in Jinan, which was the first Chun Xue. Spring can't stop it It is very refreshing to go outside and take a long and deep breath. Unconsciously, spring has been floating like a fairy, and the door of spring has been opened. As long as we hold our breath and listen attentively, we can naturally hear the footsteps of spring approaching. Inadvertently, my thoughts slipped in the sound of spring and twisted into a ball with Chunwa. ...
Spring is the season when everything grows. Every moment, new life is sprouting, and every moment, new hope is born. The pace of spring is light and hasty, slow and wonderful. Jinan is a city with a short neck in spring. In a few days, people took off their cotton-padded clothes and put on their shirts. Spring in the city is nothing more than the trees on both sides of the road from withered to glorious, and the lawn from yellow to green. The seasonal changes of the city are mainly concentrated on the vision. The sound of spring has been drowned out by the hustle and bustle, and the unforgettable thing is the spring in the country. Close your eyes and quietly unfold such a picture in your mind: the sky is high, the clouds are light, the fields are empty, the wind blows on your face, weeds are intertwined, and wild flowers are in full bloom. Continuous spring rain, the sound of spring rain, a spring rain and a warmth. After the delicate and gentle spring rain, a few white clouds dotted the blue sky, dense flowers and plants leaned out of their pointed heads, and the hope of youth suddenly emerged from the soil covered with residual snow. I remember when I was a child, farmers lived in poverty. When it rains, wild vegetables such as bitter vegetables, grey vegetables, purslane, shepherd's purse, wild leeks and wild onions appear in the river. The willow forest on the river bank is smoky, all the flowers and plants are dancing freely in the wind, and a picture of the early spring in the north is slowly unfolding by the spring breeze, revealing the long-lost rhyme, broadmindedness, elegance and calmness.
As soon as the warm southwest wind blows, the animals wake up from their deep sleep. The cuckoo that urges spring flies over the field, and I clearly see the hardships and vicissitudes written on its wings. Swallows, dragging their scissors-like tails, are holding the spring scenery and whispering back to their hometown. Some nest in the mud, others play and dance in the clouds. The ice on the rivers and lakes began to melt, and the fish that had been underwater for a winter jumped out of the water happily. The industrious birds awakened the flowers and plants and suffocated a winter dream. In front of the mountain and behind the house, primrose, magnolia, peach blossom, apricot blossom and pear blossom are swaying the gold, pink and white of a tree, attracting butterflies and bees to dance. Bees are buzzing and busy, and the beautiful wings and feathers of butterflies dance with fragrance. Well-known and unknown insects, one after another, high and low, grand and small, different spiritual wonderful movements, have become the swan song in early spring. Mother goose is learning to swim with a group of goslings in light yellow fur coats, and the immature cry breaks the water.
The new branches are like a pair of waving arms, embracing the bride-like spring. At this time, people can sit or lie quietly, enjoy the warm spring, enjoy the elegance and gentleness of the spring breeze, and chew the taste of sunshine. The boy on the river bank cut off a few smooth and delicate wickers, carefully unscrewed the skin of the green tree, pulled out the glistening branches inside, left the green skin outside, made a willow flute, whistle and horn, and then made a willow hat. A group of children in red skirts are jumping on the grass in the distance, and the childish song "Where is spring?" Where is spring? "Is fluttering leisurely. Not far away, big girls and kannika nimtragol with wild flowers pinned to their heads are chasing and frolicking among the ridges, picking wild flowers and digging wild vegetables, and ringing laughter lingers in the open fields. The farmers began to plow and sow. When they are tired, they sit on the farm, drink a bowl of water and smoke a cigarette. After a while, they opened their throats, took a long breath and shouted game-driven songs. Rough folk songs, as strong as temptation, intoxicated the fields. The crisp sound of flute, laughter, the rushing sound of the river and the rough cry are gathered into a harmonious and beautiful country concerto.
Spring breeze is running, spring rain is floating, weeds are dancing, wildflowers are laughing, and the spring of nature is coming. The cold winter is followed by warm spring. As long as we listen with our ears, our hearts, our lives and our souls, we will certainly hear the footsteps in spring, and our troubles and tiredness will suddenly disappear. Our free and unrestrained mood will blend into nature, and our rhythmic life and exuberant hopes will bloom in spring. Spring is never stingy with spring scenery and spring scenery. The pace of spring is in tune with the soul, with the times, with our dreams, heading for the sun. All accept the grace of spring and ignite unforgettable passion and colorful dreams.
The footsteps of spring are the fetal sounds of life stretching freely, the eternal heartbeat and sonorous pulse of nature, and the bold singing and solemn commitment of spring.