This is my collection of Confucius' famous sayings about the behavior requirements of "gentlemen", which should meet your requirements.

. "Confucius said:' A gentleman's righteousness is the quality, and his courtesy is followed by his deeds, and his grandson's words are followed by his faith. A gentleman!' "

." Confucius said:' A gentleman has three precepts: when he is young, his blood gas is uncertain, so he should be careful; It is also strong, bloody, and it is in the fight; Even when you are very old, your blood is failing, so you can get rid of it. "

. "Confucius said,' A gentleman has Jiu Si: he sees clearly, listens attentively, looks courteous, speaks loyally, respects things, doubts and asks questions, and feels resentful and difficult, which makes sense.' "

. Zi said that Zi Chan has four ways to be a gentleman: he is respectful in his own way, respectful in his affairs, beneficial in raising the people, and righteous in the people.

. "Confucius said:' A gentleman is knowledgeable in writing, and he can make a promise to the ceremony, and he can also serve his husband!'" "

." Confucius said:' A gentleman has three fears: fear of fate, fear of adults and fear of the words of saints. I don't know my destiny, but I'm not afraid of it, so I insult adults and saints. " "

." Confucius said:' Being rich and expensive is what people want; If you don't get it by its way, it's nowhere. Poverty and meanness are what people hate; If you don't get it by the way, don't go. Is it bad to be famous when a gentleman goes to benevolence? If a gentleman does not have a final meal, he will be benevolent, and he will be sure to do it again. " "

." Confucius said, "A gentleman can't compare with others, but a villain can't compare with others."

. "Confucius said,' A gentleman is a metaphor for righteousness, while a villain is a metaphor for profit.' "

." Confucius said:' an upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried.'. "

." Sima Niu asked the gentleman. Confucius said,' A gentleman is not worried or afraid.' Say,' If you are not worried or afraid, are you a gentleman?' Confucius said,' If you don't feel guilty after introspection, why should you worry and fear?' "

." Confucius said,' Gentlemen are harmonious but different, while villains are harmonious but not harmonious.' "

. Confucius said," It's easy for a gentleman to say. If you don't say it, don't say it; And it makes people also, the device. It's easy for a villain to say something difficult. Although it is not in the way, it is also said; And make people also, beg "

." If you are deprived of food in the past, you can't get along with it if you are sick. When Zilu saw it, he said,' Even a gentleman is poor?' Confucius said,' the gentleman is poor, but the villain is poor and extravagant.' "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman is proud but does not fight, and a group is not a party.'

. "Confucius said,' A gentleman is sincere and does not forgive.' "

." Zi Gong said,' Does a gentleman have evil?' Confucius said,' There is evil: evil is called the evil of people, evil lives in a dirty place and is on the top, evil is brave and rude, and evil results dare to stifle.' "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman doesn't cite people with words, and he doesn't waste words with people' "

." Confucius said,' I can't do anything if I am a gentleman. The benevolent does not worry, the knowledgeable does not doubt, and the brave does not fear. " Zi Gong said,' Confucius is a Taoist.' "

." Zi Lu said,' What about the gentleman Shang Yong?' Confucius said:' A gentleman takes righteousness as the top priority, a gentleman is brave but has no righteousness for chaos, and a villain is brave but has no righteousness for theft.' "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman is not a tool.' "

" Confucius said,' A gentleman's illness is incompetent, and he doesn't know what the patient knows.' "

. Confucius said,' A gentleman has nothing to contend with. Will also shoot! Give up and drink down. Its contention is also a gentleman. " "

." Ceng Zi has a disease, Meng Jingzi asked. Ceng Zi said:' The bird will die, and its song will also mourn; Dying men speak true. The gentleman is more expensive than the Tao: moving the appearance, the distance is far from being violent and slow; Positive color, close to the letter; Take it out, it's far worse. When it comes to beans, there is a manager. " "

." Spine Zi Cheng said,' A gentleman is a man of quality, so how can he write?' Zi Gong said,' Well, the master is pleased with the gentleman! I can't talk to you. The quality of the text is still good, and the quality is still good. The tiger and leopard are the dogs and sheep. " "pity

." zi gong asked the gentleman. Confucius said,' Say what you say before you follow it.' "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman is slow in words but quick in deeds.' "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman is ashamed to go beyond his words.' "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman seeks himself, while a villain seeks others.' "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman is fond of virtue, but a villain is fond of soil; A gentleman is pregnant with punishment, but a villain is pregnant with benefits. " "

. Confucius said,' When a gentleman reaches the top, a villain gives orders.' "

." Zi Lu asks a gentleman. Confucius said,' cultivate yourself and respect yourself.' Say,' Is that all?' Say:' cultivate yourself to be safe.' Say,' Is that all?' Say:' cultivate yourself to protect the people. Cultivate yourself to protect the people, and let them be ill? " "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman is ill and has no name.' "

." Confucius said,' A gentleman seeks the Tao but does not seek food. Farming is also awkward; Learn, and Lu is among them. A gentleman worries about Tao but not poverty. " "

." Zi Xia said:' A gentleman trusts his people; If you don't believe it, you think you are selfish. Believe and then remonstrate; If you don't believe it, you think you are slandering yourself. " "

. Confucius said," People don't believe, and they don't know what they can do! Why can't a big car run away and a small car run away?