1. Love others as much as you love yourself, and you will be benevolent. ——Zhang Zai's "Zhengmeng·Zhongzheng"

Meaning: If you treat others as you treat yourself, then you have achieved benevolence.

2. Self-interested people are the first to perish. He lives by himself and for himself. If this "I" of his is damaged, he cannot survive. ——"Ostrovsky's Two Volumes"

3. A person who never appreciates others is a person who will never be appreciated by others. ——Wang Guozhen

4. A gentleman should refrain from communicating in a simple way and speaking in a profound way. ——Su Shi's "Book of Emperor Shangshenzong"

Consciousness: The friendship is not that deep, but the words spoken are very heart-to-heart. This is a behavior that a gentleman should be wary of. ?

5. If people like hardness, I will overcome them with gentleness; if people use skills, I will feel them with sincerity; if people use anger, I will bend them with reason; then there will be no difficult people in the world. ——"Jin De Lu"?

Meaning: When people have strong personalities, I use softness to overcome them; when others conspire, I infect them with sincerity; when others get angry, I persuade them with reason, then there will be no one in the world. Difficult people to get along with.

Extended information:

Emotional intelligence can be improved and changed through comprehensive and systematic course training. Adolescence is a special period in life. At this time, students not only face learning pressure, but also face physical and psychological changes. These will cause them psychological imbalance and complex psychological contradictions, and in severe cases can produce various adverse consequences. Problems such as rebellion, test anxiety, and tense relationships with classmates.