This sentence tells us that after middle age, people will become more and more mature and stable, and they will no longer be arrogant. When people reach middle age, we have experienced a lot and seen a lot. Naturally, we are no longer as impulsive as when we were young.
When people reach middle age, we gradually return to nature and see the essence of many things or people, so we become realistic and grounded, cherish our bodies more and more, spend money more and more carefully, and realize the preciousness of time and energy. When people reach middle age, they sometimes have to learn to be stingy, especially these three "things". It's strange, but sometimes the more stingy they are, the more rewards they get!
First of all, money
Money is something that we get angry with people who are short of money in our daily life. Many people have the experience of lending money and others. There is a famous saying: don't lend money to others, lending it will make you rich and poor; Don't borrow money from others either, it will make you lose your self-esteem!
You see, lending money to others is a good thing, but borrowing the wrong money is convenient for others and troublesome for yourself.
Even, some people, because of lending money to others, finally got stiff and broke up in discord. Therefore, people must pay attention to money when they reach middle age, because they need more money, their elderly parents need support, their children need to study and get married, and they usually have various daily expenses, and minor illnesses need treatment, which can be described as great pressure.
In particular, borrowing money must be "stingy". Your relationship is not particularly good. If your credit is particularly good, don't borrow any more money. Especially those who often borrow money and don't pay it back, even their relatives, must be stingy or even car-scrapping, that is, not to borrow.
Second, feelings
When people reach middle age, our beginning tends to be stable, but we will also face a lot of confusion. When people reach middle age, the relationship between husband and wife has basically entered the itch of seven years. At this point, the feelings between each other have changed from love to affection. Such a transition period is prone to some changes. Especially when some members of the opposite sex around us want to "lean on our shoulders", we must be careful.
You know, we are the pillars of the family. If you want to maintain the stability of marriage, you should not have the idea and behavior of cheating. We should stick to our family loyalty and love our children. Some feelings are untouchable. If we touch them, it may affect our family and even become water under the bridge.
For some family ties, sometimes we don't have to pay so much. When people reach middle age, they will naturally see the essence of some relatives and know that it is not worth paying so much affection to treat them, as long as they maintain a distant relationship. When people reach middle age, the most important thing is themselves and their families.
Third, time.
When I was a child, I always felt that I had enough time, and I was eager to grow up quickly, so that I could control my time. Although we are familiar with the proverb about time, it is difficult to understand it deeply. For example, the ancients warned us that "young people don't work hard, old people don't feel sad", "the deceased is like a husband, staying up all night" and "an inch of time is worth an inch of gold, and an inch of gold can't buy an inch of time".
These proverbs were not deeply understood until we reached middle age. We find that our energy is becoming more and more limited. Time flies like a day, a week, a month, a year. What's more, years make us old, and our health and energy are declining.
As a result, we began to "cherish time like gold", pay attention to improving work efficiency, slowly give up those useless social contacts, make up our minds not to pester rotten people and things, and learn to "stop loss" quickly. In order to return to your family, your children and fully enjoy your life, Li said, the more stingy you are with time, the more generous you are with time. If you want time to live up to you, first of all, you should live up to time. If you abandon time, time will abandon him. So at this time, we must "be stingy" with our time and spend it on what we should do, so as not to waste our life.