2. Yes, for weaning, it's not the children, but the mother. The little man who is infinitely dependent on you has suddenly grown up and started his own independent growth path. He is happier and more reluctant.
3. When my mother is reluctant to cry, especially at school, I cry with you and call my mother not to go. My heart was broken at that moment.
With you, I am no longer myself, and I can't bear to part with my children at any time. With him, I will have a lifelong tie. I want him to think that his mother is a confident and independent person, not a slovenly housewife.
Maybe it's because I'm old, I find that it's not that children can't live without me, but that I can't live without her. Sometimes it's really contradictory. I want her to grow up independently and healthily, but I can't let go, and I don't know if it's right to get used to such a wayward child, but my mother really wants to tell you that she really loves you.