Understand the reasons that cause men to cheat. Men cheat not only because they pursue beauty, but also because of their wives. Sometimes when wives can't give men what they want, such as tyranny and indifference, men cheat. So, what is the cause of men's affair? Love is not enough after marriage. This reason is very common in the investigation of women's affair. After marriage, the two people live together, and the love in love disappears, which brings a sense of disharmony to many women. In addition, regarding the attitude of married men towards their wives, he said, "Who feeds the caught fish?" Generally speaking, women love their men more after marriage than before, but men, on the contrary, often lose their past enthusiasm. In the case of wrong remuneration, women lack love and choose an affair. Overwhelmed by the pressure of family. Indeed, after marriage, the relationship between a woman and her husband is not a simple two people in love. After marriage, women should learn to connect themselves with their husbands, their families and their relatives, and deal with all kinds of interpersonal relationships. In this way, women have to bear a lot of family pressure. One of the most typical is the relationship between daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law Therefore, under pressure, it is also an applicable decompression method for the wife to go out for comfort. Tempted. Don't think that only young girls are tempted by the outside world. Married women have their own unique amorous feelings of young women, so they may attract men. Therefore, a man knows that his wife doesn't want to cheat, maybe she betrayed her marriage, or maybe she didn't resist the temptation. Just lonely. This situation, mainly for the relatively water-based women, whether they are married or lonely, always need men's pursuit to prove their charm. Therefore, for such a situation, men will also reflect on themselves. Why not wipe their eyes before marriage? It is important to know what a man needs in his heart. Men are face-saving animals. When there is no one else at home, they will listen to you, even if it is unreasonable. However, in the outside, especially in front of his friends, women should leave enough face for men, don't deny or argue in front of everyone, and endure for a while even if he says something wrong, waiting to go home and close the door. Like this, a man makes a face in front of others. He loves you more, and you think the material is good. Men are actually lonely. Men are also human beings, they don't cry like women, and they also have a fragile side. Just hiding in my heart, silent and hidden. At this time, the woman hugs him and leans him on your arm like a child. If you are not careful, he will feel safe. Men are born to have an affair. Playboy is a man's innate instinct, just like a woman's dress. When a man sees other girls, don't be angry or angry. Just watch. Anyway, I have to go home and be the patron saint of my family after reading it. Men cherish the friendship between brothers and sisters. Men have many partners, and social interaction is also essential. Don't stop him from playing with his partner. If he has many friends, he will walk easily. If he is not a bad friend, support him! Being the type of wife he likes has changed from a heart to a gentle woman. First of all, you need to turn yourself into a truly gentle woman from the bottom of your heart. Women can't blindly pay a lot of money for themselves. I think the other person will thank and love you. Many of your practices are bound by him, strong and have no free space. A woman should be a gentle little woman at the right time and know how to play dumb. He thinks he is a strong man in front of you. Make yourself gentle in form. By changing your form, you can make yourself look gentle. As director Jiao of Shenzhen second time around Company said, "A woman's short hair is a strong threat to men's subconscious", so you can change your form. Clothing should wear more clothes that highlight women's tastes. If you are a fat woman, you should lose weight. No man is interested in fat people. From words and deeds to gentleness. From now on, when you want to learn what to do, you should move a little slowly, gently, smile, and have more intonation auxiliary words when you speak. Men think you are a little gentle and charming. This can give full play to his male charm and fully show your female charm. No matter sitting or walking, don't be a pretentious woman, but in the form of a woman. Therefore, as a wife, if you want to be half of a man's psychological ideal and not cheat, you must know how to change yourself, improve yourself, understand her husband's psychological needs, give him love and understanding, and at the same time improve your connotation and keep your love fresh! How to prevent her husband from derailing 2 1. Be yourself and enhance the charm of a woman. To be yourself, you must first remember that you are a woman, and you need to care with your heart and love. You must not forget to love yourself. The other is to enhance your feminine charm. There is a wide range of charm enhancement, and the external promotion can directly show your charm as a woman, because people are visual animals, and visually let them decide whether they should get to know a person in depth. So if you want to prevent your husband from cheating, external promotion is very important. In order to prevent him from aesthetic fatigue, it is necessary to change his dressing style and hairstyle occasionally, but this needs to be grasped. If your degree is too high, it will make the other person have a doubt that he is worried about being cuckolded. Women should learn to release their charm in a relaxed way. You can also make time to take care of your own needs, expand your hobbies, and do whatever you like, such as reading, writing poetry, dancing, yoga, painting … 2. While keeping your social circle busy with family and children, do you find that you have become a giant, forgotten that you are a woman, and have any friends around you? After many people get married, they have little contact with the outside world, or have no time at all. Getting together with good friends will help you get rid of family chores and give you time to look at other people's lives and take care of your own mood. They will also help you analyze the situation, make suggestions, contribute wisdom and become your think tank. In this way, you will no longer feel helpless, not isolated, and your mentality will be much better. 3, maintain economic independence Huijia emotional mentor has a famous saying that often hangs on his lips: Women must believe that making money and becoming beautiful will definitely solve all kinds of melodrama. Not only women in love, but also housewives after marriage. It is a blessing to have someone willing to support you, but you must have a sense of being prepared for danger in times of peace. If you put your whole life on this man, you will become powerless. Even if you catch him cheating, once you think of divorce, you will have no source of income, and you will not have the courage to leave. Even if you get married, you should have a career that you love. It won't destroy your family harmony, it will make you more confident, let you find your own value in society, and let you have the courage to protect yourself from others' faces! Both sides are working towards the goal of * * *, and they can communicate on the same topic. You can help share each other's troubles and pressures, and the couple who keep * * * progress will have a good relationship. In order to be yourself better, you don't have to look at other people's faces for money, and you don't have to worry about what to say. He won't be angry, and he will promise … that you can afford what you like, which is a woman's greatest dignity. 4. Being a caring and gentle woman can win the forgiveness of the other party for all kinds of unreasonable troubles when she is in love, just as Xinyi, a master of Huijia Emotional Complex, said: "Men will regard her as a dream when they are chasing a beautiful thing." So the man was the one who would give the most at that time. However, marriage requires both parties to pay together. If you pay too much unilaterally, you will only be tired after a long time. Therefore, it is necessary for a woman to learn to be a caring and gentle woman after marriage, and give a hug or talk to a man when he is upset, so that he can feel that only you know him best, so that he will not go out and find someone else to replace you. 5, increase the fun of life, usually busy outside, plain face to the sky, but when you wear beautiful clothes and exquisite makeup, you simply changed a person, a confidence that goes deep into the bone marrow exudes; The usual life is ordinary. Occasionally, I meet a Valentine's Day or an anniversary, and I carefully arrange it. When my husband comes home to give him a surprise, it will definitely add a lot of color to the dull marriage. Marriage also needs a sense of ceremony. A proper increase in life interest will make the other party feel that you are charming and full of unknowns. The stronger a man wants to explore you, the more you can hold him firmly in your hand.