One of Fu Lei's letters is a gentleman from China who taught his children how to be a real gentleman from China. It tells us that a pure, honest, sincere and noble soul, although sometimes it will suffer unexpected hardships, insults and persecution, and fall into a desperate situation that seems to be despised by others, and finally the true light cannot be annihilated forever, it still needs to be recognized by everyone, so that its flame can shine on the whole world and get the respect and love it deserves. Of course, the most gratifying thing is that Fu Lei's education in Fu Cong was very successful, which made him a world-renowned piano artist and made great achievements in artistic accomplishment and moral sentiment.
Han Feizi said: "Clever deception is not as good as sincerity, but sincerity can win people's hearts." About how to be a man. Fu Lei repeatedly stressed that being a man first, then being an artist. This person is not a person in the secular sense that we usually understand, but a person with outstanding personality and spiritual sublimation. He put forward two aspects, one is to broaden the realm and pattern of life, and the other is to treat life's setbacks and depression calmly. Many performers can only play the works of a few composers, and can only be called performers, not artists. What is the reason? It is because they are not broad-minded enough to understand the broader artistic realm and integrate artistic changes that their performance is definitely limited. There is a famous saying in Fu Lei's family book: "A naked child doesn't know loneliness. If a naked child is lonely, it will create a world. " Always keep a pure heart, a mirror-like pure heart, in order to appreciate the intentions of our predecessors and have touching artistic expression. A lonely child will create a world. How to be a man? The mirror of Fu Lei tells us to be sincere and broaden our own realm and pattern. We should also distinguish between the depression of the ego and the ego, free ourselves from the depression of the ego, and treat the ups and downs of life calmly. Liu Zhenyun also said, "What's wrong with being a fool? Many people just shake their wits all their lives. "
About how to become an artist, you must first have a good artistic appreciation ability and be able to understand different artistic realms, and then you can have a good artistic expression. For example, when appreciating Beethoven's music works, Fu Lei first starts with the social thoughts since the Western Renaissance, then analyzes the conflicts in Beethoven's thoughts and feelings, and then sees how these thoughts and feelings are reflected in his music. Only by deeply understanding culture can we enter the artistic realm. Teacher Fu Lei watched the movie Mulan starring Chang Xiangyu, a famous actor of Henan Opera, which is a masterpiece of Henan pendant, bangzi and folk songs. Chang Xiangyu's natural voice is so beautiful, his upper and lower vocal ranges are very wide, and he can act and write well. I saw it when I got home. It was great. Mr. Fu Lei is strict with any art [art]. After watching the film, he was very satisfied. It's really not easy to go to the cinema for the first time since liberation, but watch a China movie in ancient costume. This is also praised by Henan opera in his hometown, which fully shows that art is interlinked and tastes both refined and popular.
How to treat life is mainly how to treat love and marriage and how to manage money. Fu Lei pointed out that the most important thing for a lifelong partner is to examine three things, one is kindness in nature, the other is gentleness in nature, and the third is openness in mind. With these three things, other aspects can be cultivated slowly. At least two people should talk at any time, have something to say and have empathy. Two people need constant communication and dialogue in their daily lives, in which they can implement each other's ways of dealing with people, thus reaching agreement and making progress together. At the same time, only when two people are fully tolerant, understanding and often forbearing can they withstand the ups and downs on the road of life and hold hands until they are old. Fu Lei said that the passion when love first came was beautiful, but it never lasted. Few passionate lovers in the world will become married couples. It is often said that couples respect each other and regard customers as their priority. Don't be deceived by Fang Hung-chien of Sun Roujia, and get married at random, so that marriage will become a besieged city. The emotional experience of Fu Lei and his lover Zhu Meifu can be said to be his practice of love and marriage beliefs. These two people have been married hand in hand for more than 30 years. In War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, "anti-rightist", "Cultural Revolution" and other different periods, they always helped each other, which made a much-told story. Fu Lei told Fu Cong that, of course, we should not be misers and misers, pursue material things excessively and be enslaved by money, but if artists don't know how to treat money well, it's nothing to be proud of. Because if an artist wants to keep his personality independent, it is only possible to establish practical economic security. In the final analysis, dealing with the details of life is to enjoy life more perfectly.
This book tells us that to be a spiritual person, on the one hand, we should broaden our life pattern, on the other hand, we should calmly treat setbacks and depression in life. Mr. Fu Lei's meticulous care for the children always gives them an alarm and really makes a faithful mirror.
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