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Life is limited.
When I was young, my hands were full of time, and I was eager to experience everything, so I was naturally not afraid of wasting my time.
As I get older, I realize more and more that time flies and the years are ruthless. How dare you waste it?
As middle-aged Feng Tang said: "In addition to doing what you like in life, the most important thing left is to be with someone you love and love."
A simple summary is, meet the people you like and do the things you like.
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So, what are the people you like and the things you like?
At first glance, it seems like a stupid question. How can people not know what they like?
But if you think about it carefully, it is not that simple.
Don’t we often think we are doing something we like, but in the end we find that we don’t like it so much, wasting energy and money and achieving nothing?
Don’t you often get bruised and bruised just to be with the person you like (in addition to love, but also friendship, work partners, etc.), only to finally realize that the person you entrusted to you is not the right person?
To find people and things we like, we need to have the ability to identify.
How can we have the ability to identify? In my opinion, it’s nothing more than seeing more of the world, reading more, suffering losses but learning lessons.
Other than that, there are no shortcuts.
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Even if you find it, it doesn’t mean you can do it.
The reason is simple: the conditions are not met.
For example, your favorite thing is traveling, but you have problems with your life if you don’t go to work;
For example, you don’t like your boss, but you can’t find another one for the time being. Work;
For example, you like someone very much, but you can’t reach them for a while...
What should you do? Make yourself capitalized.
Buffett's good friend Charlie Munger said: "The surest way to get something is to make yourself worthy of it."
Work hard.
99% of people will not have everything for no reason. Feng Tang did not become famous as soon as he was born and became the Feng Tang we know.
In addition to hard work, you must also have determination.
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We work hard and finally have the opportunity to choose, and we can finally block all the people and things we don’t like. However, there are more and more temptations.
Dazzled.
Be greedy and have too much to gain.
In the midst of the hustle and bustle, we drift with the flow.
The more you have, the more you lose.
We are constantly fluttering and unable to focus. Can we still distinguish what we like?
"Every NB person must have a core of determination, so that it will not be easily blown away by the wind in the universe." Feng Tang said.
Two words: concentration.
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To summarize:
Only with the ability to discern can you know what you really like;
You must work hard, Only then can you have the right to choose;
You must be very determined to not go astray.
Finally, share 10 famous quotes from Feng Tang, good night.
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After the unexpected, there are trees in the sea, in the yard, there are workers in the Xia Dynasty, and in the clouds at this moment, you are in your twenties. .
02
The spring water is born, the spring forest is blooming, and the spring breeze is not as good as you.
03
I want to have a daughter with long hair, thin flesh, narrow heart, and melancholy eyes. Water it with milk, soy milk, rice soup and Coca-Cola, and it will grow into a disaster in ten or twenty years.
04
Your tree is too big, my garden is too small. After planting your big tree, I don’t know if I will have a peaceful life, or if I will have any other place to put my own small bridge and running water.
05
The Buddha said that every moment when the fragrance floats is certain, but every next moment is uncertain. One period and one period, there is a certain destiny.
06
As a human being, you must learn to be in awe, and do what you do and what you don’t do. Do things as if you are facing an abyss, as if you are walking on thin ice.
07
The mind gradually opens up, and the world becomes more complicated. ?
08
I have seen your pointed chin through your hair. If he gives you comfort, you must hold him.
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I have fallen in love with such a person in this life. I will use all my charm to make him feel happy in his heart anytime he is not with me in the future. Unable to rest.
10
My appearance is mediocre and rough, but my heart is exquisite and delicate. I told the old gangster that even though I look like a pig butcher, I am actually a poetry writer.
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