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s asked questions one by one: "Love is a great force. Without love, there is no education." In fact, education without love is dead education and cannot be Education that cultivates love is a failure of education. The most effective means of education is "love education."
In the "Guidelines for Kindergarten Education", it is clearly stated that we should cultivate children's love for their hometown, love for the motherland, love for collective labor, and love for science. We can see that love is our job in preschool education for young children. Who must take responsibility. Nowadays, most children are only children at home. They have to put on clothes and eat all day long. Their living conditions are unique all around, so they are inadvertently self-centered. They only know how to do it, but they don’t give it to them. out, and parents now see themselves holding treasures, their pets, over their children, lest their children be bullied and humiliated. Too many children are caring and loving, guiding them to give care and love, and too few opportunities for action. This enables them to gradually develop a special psychology and form a concept of "self".
When children enter kindergarten and more than 20 class teachers take care of them, the children will no longer be "holding in their arms" Moon Angel” and share the love with others. This causes some children to be lonely, lose their temper, and become jealous of others due to their inability to adapt. Especially for children near the park, the situation is more serious. Some may even suffer from mental illness, such as: autism, aggression towards others, etc. etc. To solve these problems, it must be love education, so that children understand that love is vast, love is mutual, and receiving the same love and giving love can make you happy.
The second definition is an eternal topic and the most basic human emotion. In Fromm's book "The Art of Loving" the content is presented by understanding of love, responsibility, respect and composition. According to our interpretation and understanding, understanding of love, respect, trust, care, tolerance, and the need for dedication include seven.
In terms of education, it is the soul of love and life education. The so-called "education of love" is to use emotional communication to change people, concepts and habits, and the influence of psychological behavior to strive to purify the soul and achieve the purpose of education. Children's love education is to let children know how to love, understand, love, and feel love. Love can be shared with others or created by oneself. Let children learn to love others and learn tolerance. The education of love is the key to education, and the basic principles and methods of education are also education. Three goals
The goal of Ai Xiao Kindergarten education is to love your parents, love your teachers, and
love the kindergarten. Our young children set loving education goals based on their age and low level of psychological development characteristics. Home nursery kindergarten is based on two basic premises of daily life. Apart from parents and young children, teachers are the ones who have the most contact, so the goal of these “Three Loves” becomes love education for young children.
4 Education of Love
(1) Caring for the love that education brings to children
1. Let children feel that the former Soviet educators are compatible.
Quan said that the presence of love at the base: the attention and care of educators will leave an indelible impression on the minds of students.
So we want to be a teacher who is always caring, always caring for our children, looking into the children's eyes with love, often holding hands with the children, touching their heads, making them a kind of In a caring environment, people feel their love for him.
In educational activities, the teacher's personality charm is also an effective means of education and a source of power to attract children. It will also help children who are like the teacher and are close to the teacher. Teachers' personality charm not only comes from their profound knowledge and teaching ability, but also from their own kindness and kindness, trust and tolerance of students.
Children’s growth has important ways of observation, imitation and identification, and a basic premise of trust and love for children to imitate. Psychological research shows that a child wants to imitate the identity of his beloved, the object he trusts. This is education for children, and educators must take the initiative to establish a loving relationship. Once education has gained a child's trust, the child will not need any proof to follow your teachings. (Tao Yu) "Real education is to reach the depths of the soul and accessory activities, in addition to entering and exiting the heart." If teachers do not gain the trust and love of students, even if they meet the educational goals and appropriate educational methods, they will not be able to achieve the desired results. Love is the connecting link between the educator and the educated soul. It is the educational educator of basic education. The psychological experiment "Pygmalion" is the trust, encouragement and expectation of the student's teacher to bring about the child's success.
2. Let children learn to give love
The teacher's love is to give, the vitality of the child's life, and give him life and understanding of life, give him knowledge, give He is happy and strong. As time goes by, the child enjoys the love of others and actively learns to love others.
In the layout of the classroom, we have to strengthen the two tables and hang some straps on the ceiling. We are careful when we go there, and there is always something like this in our ears: Teacher, you have to be careful, teacher , you have to be careful, teacher, slow down. These warm words remind me of myself when I would encourage my children to exercise, usually with dull sounding words, a bit nagging to hit their hearts firmly.
(2) Parents of children should set an example of "love" and pay attention to family parents to set an example of "love" for their children.
The family is a fertile ground for children to grow up, and parents are the first teachers. Children's personality, character, and intelligence are accustomed to being developed first in the family. Parents should first set an example and always think of others. Because children learn to be caring people are not subject to any orders, but usually see the results in the mind's eyes.
Please remember the public service announcement that touched millions of people: When my mother came home one day, her grandmother’s feet were still busy, and then her son saw the water coming out of it and brought out a basin and said: "Mom, wash your feet." This advertisement is enough to encourage parents to be role models for their children. If parents, grandparents, and neighbors respect each other and care for each other, such children are exposed to a harmonious and harmonious atmosphere. As they grow older, they will develop the behavior of respecting the elderly and loving the young, and imitate their elders. Care about others and help others. All receive love and are good at giving love. Therefore, parents should set an example by treating their elders, caring for and helping others, and caring for public property in their daily lives, thereby infecting children with subtle "love" behaviors.
In addition, within the family, children can also learn to share with their relatives. When shopping at home, don’t let only one person’s children sit together, just like a gathering of friends, and share the best. There are good toys to take out and play with other children or parents...let the children feel that sharing brings not only happiness to themselves, but also happiness to others.
(3) The nursery takes care of young children and creates a good educational environment
Create an environment to reflect the atmosphere of loving kindergarten education. Educators are caring and caring. The creation of an environment must reflect the love for cultivating children. For example, in the decoration of the kindergarten, write some slogans about love, such as: Use our love, your confidence; let the seeds of love bury the children's hearts. The wall decorations, corner activities, and love education should be consistent. For example, the paintings on the wall include "Little Brother Helped Me Up", "I'll Help You", "I Help the Teacher Clean the Table", "Learning and Communication" and other loving paintings that contain rich extracurricular activities, or where children rest. Time to play some nice songs, such as "My Good Mom", "Dad", "Teacher, Teacher, I Love You", etc., or play some beautiful classical music. Let the children "bathe" interestingly and easily in an atmosphere of love and understanding. Children who are immersed in such an environment will receive twice the result with half the effort in the process of time, love and education.
Oujiao also consciously cultivates love education. For example, a "Love Corner" is set up, and children active in this area do something to help others experience the joy of love that brings them.
Training of “love” in daily teaching activities. We can adopt flexible and diverse educational activities in a purposeful and planned way, such as: "Two Little Ants", "Fat Pig", etc., after each story is told, and combined with stories about things that test children around, to help them Distinguish between right and wrong, truth from falsehood. There are the songs "Fly Fly", "Let's Play", the songs "Good Dad, Good Mom", "Good Friends", and ultimately make these nursery rhymes that contain the meaning of love in kindergarten familiar to children. Please mind and become a collaborator with them. Growth of partners.
Festival toddlers love to take advantage of education. This year, there are many festivals, and you can use various festivals to educate young children, such as: March 8 Women's Day, we carried out the "I Love Mom" ??activity, together with my mother, "Pull the Tail" game? ; Give mom flowers, say blessings to mom, and make greeting cards for mom. Through such activities, I can inspire children to love my mother even more.
Like carrying children's education projects is a long way to go. Families in need need to combine kindergartens and teachers with each other to create a full and comfortable environment for their children. Let our children live in a world full of love. After growing up, they will love to spread love to every corner of the world. Then, the world will have no wars and no crying, but there will also be flowers everywhere and constant laughter.