One of my favorite quotes is that Marx said that the economic base determines the superstructure. All human behavior in the world can be linked to the economy. The same is true in marriage. People cannot be divorced. Money and material things, so a girl should also be financially independent after marriage. Regardless of how much money she earns, you should have a job of your own to prove that you are not out of touch with this society. Being out of touch with society is very scary. Things, you will completely turn yourself into an accessory of marriage. When you regard yourself as a housewife and devote everything to marriage, you will find that in the end you may have nothing and all you have is your face. wrinkles and old hands, at that time you will find that you gave everything but lost yourself in the end.
The meaning of a girl being independent in marriage is not to make you earn much money at work. The important meaning is that you have not completely lost yourself. There are many women who have lost themselves after getting married. Every day Isn't it a sad life to live around the pot, around the children, around the husband, but not knowing who you are? Some people say that you are stupid for three years after being pregnant. After staying at home for a few years, you will be no different from a fool in society. You will not know anything anymore, and society will marginalize you. At that time, what else do you have besides family? If something goes wrong in your marriage and your husband doesn't want you anymore, what else will you have left? What you have left may just be a sigh, why were you so stupid in the first place.
Having a job can ensure that your status in marriage is independent, your soul is independent, and your personality is independent. Even if your husband doesn’t want you, at least you can still have one. With the ability to support yourself, you have dignity without having to rely on anyone. However, a person without a job has no sense of security in a marriage. He will treat the other person as everything to him, and loses the initiative in the marriage.
To sum up, a woman’s financial independence after marriage can give her more status and dignity in the family.