People who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep and extensive sympathy. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
3, people's life is in the climax-ups and downs in the low tide, but only mediocre people, life is like a stagnant pool; Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation to be fruitless and truly free. As long as the climax doesn't make you nervous and the low tide doesn't make you decadent, there is no problem. Too strong sunshine will scorch the grains; Too much rain will flood the crops. We just want a psychological balance, so that we won't get hurt ... slowly you will develop another mood to deal with the past; It is to be able to think without soul-stirring, to analyze the cause and effect from an objective standpoint, to make reference for the future and to avoid repeating the same mistakes. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
The greatness of motherhood lies not in reason, but in that intuitive feeling. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
Only when one dares to face up to reality, mistakes, rational analysis and thorough understanding can one not be eroded by memories. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
6, success or failure gains and losses as far as possible, just try your best, just be worthy. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
7. Being not carried away by victory is the best proof of strength. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
8. Son, a terrible enemy is not necessarily cruel. A friendly and enthusiastic friendship will sometimes delay your precious time. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
9. "People's lives are ups and downs in the high tide-low tide, and only mediocre people can live like stagnant water." "As long as the climax makes you nervous and the low tide makes you decadent, you will be fine"-Fu Lei's letter to Fu Lei.
10, "Pay more attention in the future: when you insist on the truth, you must pay attention to the way, attitude, tone and tone of your speech. The more reasons you have, the more relaxed your attitude will be. Upholding the truth is an arduous struggle and an educational work. Need a good method. Way. Means and patience. Never use fire, this is misleading. " -Don't be arrogant if you are reasonable, and forgive others if you are reasonable. Be modest and open-minded -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
1 1. Only when a person dares to face up to reality, face up to mistakes, analyze rationally and thoroughly understand, will he not be eroded by memories ... If a person regards these things as ashes of the soul, he will certainly feel something when reading them-Fu Lei's Letter from Fu Lei.
12, patience, depression, no matter who will meet from time to time, but it will soon pass. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
13, the real light is not that there will never be darkness, but that it will never be covered by darkness. A true hero never lacks humble feelings, but he never gives in to them. Therefore, before you defeat foreign enemies, you must first defeat your internal enemies. You don't have to be afraid of stumbling, as long as you can constantly extricate yourself and constantly update yourself. -Fu Lei "John Christophe-The Translator's Preface"
14, everyone has shortcomings, no matter men or women in love. The problem is not to find an object without shortcomings, but to find a partner who can recognize and admit his shortcomings, is willing to change gradually, and can tolerate each other at the same time. -Fu Lei "The Young Generation"
15, the most powerful argument in the world is practical action, and the most effective education is to set an example; Never ask others what you can't do; Criticize yourself first and correct your mistakes. -Fu Lei
16, one after another bumped into the past, as long as you get up, you will gradually climb the peak and surpass yourself. Bitter tears are the wine pulp that cultivates your soul. People who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep and extensive sympathy. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
17, one night, she advised you to practice tomorrow, and you replied, like you, will I still have grades? Naturally, it is impossible to use counter-criticism to deal with the goodwill of others. By extension, judging from these small things, you and I must have hurt people unintentionally, and it is no wonder that others say we are proud. People often do this, especially those close to them. I do sometimes. So we should reflect. Treat people with humility and courtesy, be considerate and repay kindness with kindness! -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
18, bitter tears are the wine pulp that cultivates your soul. People who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep and extensive sympathy. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
19, as long as it's true, it's a real lesson, and you have to accept it whether it comes from your parents, friends or acquaintances. -Fu Lei (www.siaNDian.com Flash $ Point Love Network) "Fu Lei's Letter"
20. Restrain feelings more, pay more attention to skills and use reason more. I believe it will definitely reduce fatigue. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
2 1. It is hypocrisy to give up without fighting, and it is frivolous to be detached without suffering. -Fu Lei
22. "The other person regards you as her whole world, which is very dangerous, but it is also very precious! Now that you have found out, wake her up slowly: instead of pointing it out directly, it is better to insinuate and make her feel that this is to safeguard her personality independence and expand her worldview. If you think of Olivier's story, please ask her to read the book carefully once or twice and pay special attention to that episode. For people like Jacqueline who only know love, "love" and "love" are just tasks in fairy tales. In the real world, they can't get love or even live, because she knows nothing but love, nothing and nothing. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
23. As long as you are strong, I will rest assured for a lifetime-Fu Lei's letter to Fu Lei.
You can't be too busy on weekdays. People drag you out and you have to make up your homework, which is harmful to your energy. Let's stop talking about the number of times on the grounds of practicing the piano. If you are not nervous, don't be too busy; I'd rather be free and think quietly ... don't be sentimental, I'm sorry. It is a habit not to go out with people during office hours, and it won't offend people. The energy of life is limited ... —— Fu Lei's Letter from Fu Lei
25. A naked child doesn't know loneliness. Loneliness will create a world and many caring friends! -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
26. The most important thing in learning is "communication" to free a general from formality, pedantry, acidity and stereotyped writing; "Communication" can cultivate integrity, mind and vision. "Communication" can become "big", and if it is not too big or too big, there is a danger of sitting on the well and watching the sky. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
27. Writing down your thoughts (whether in a letter or in other ways) is completely different from daydreaming in your head. Writing down requires correct and accurate thinking, so self-reflection written on paper is particularly profound and impressive to myself. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
28. Art can be limited not only to perceptual knowledge, but also to rational knowledge. The third step must be to deepen feelings. In other words, apart from reason, what artists need most is the word "love"! The so-called pure heart refers not only to purity, but also to freshness and love! There is a French saying called "great heart", which means "love". The words "great heart" are really meaningful. And this kind of love is by no means vulgar and mother-in-law's feelings, but warm, sincere, white, noble, in full swing and selfless love. Reason without emotion cannot express music —— Fu Lei's Letter from Fu Lei
29. People are ups and downs in the climax of life-low tide. Only mediocre people, life is like stagnant water; Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation in order not to be tired and truly free. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
30. In the past, I repeatedly asked you about your financial situation, mainly to understand your material foundation, and wanted to guess how many times you need to reduce performances and strengthen your study-not just music. I know very well that in western society, there is no guarantee of material life, and no lofty ideal can be discussed. But the so-called material security depends first on your living standard, and secondly on whether you can arrange your own income and expenditure, keep a balance and save regularly. There are ups and downs in the living standard itself, and there are countless levels of quality; You need to think clearly and thoroughly, and which level are you going to take-Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei.
3 1. Giving up without fighting is hypocrisy, detachment without suffering is frivolous, and the wise who escape from reality is cowardice. -Fu Lei
32. Poets often say that love is blind, but not blind love is more sound and reliable after all. -Fu Lei, "Live a Good Life"
33. There is no rapid learning, especially language. -Fu Lei
34. Try to relax yourself and keep it up, so that you can get good grades. Nervousness is harmful to everything. ..... With the concept of "I'll try my best", I immediately call myself lenient when I'm nervous, and treat your spirit like your hands and fingers, so I should always pay attention to relaxation. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
35. Art is your lifelong career. Art itself is very exciting. You must not be too nervous when practicing the piano. Life is limited, energy is limited. We should take a long-term view and run a marathon. You are an impulsive person, so you should restrain yourself. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
36. One after another, I fell over. As long as you can climb up, you will gradually climb to the top and surpass yourself. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
37. "All great artists (whether composers, writers or painters …) must have unique personalities and universal humanity. As long as we can explore the human nature in our hearts, we can find a bridge to communicate with artists. Besides, if we can think carefully and appreciate his unique personality, we can understand a work of art as a whole. Of course, it can't be exactly the same as the original author's understanding and feeling, and the amount, depth and breadth of understanding are still very different; And our own personality also plays a big role in the middle. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
38. The magnitude and level of achievements are beyond our control. We rely partly on manpower and partly on talent. But as long as we are strong, we are not afraid of failure, setbacks and blows-whether in personnel, life, technology or academics. -Fu Lei
39. Although the contest is a heavy burden, you should make some psychological preparations anyway. As long as you try your best not to care about gains and losses, you will be calm and completely relaxed. Only in this way can you hope to achieve good results ... If you can often think of the famous saying "an article learns from the past, it will be much easier mentally." Only in this way can we avoid feeling overworked and tired. The most tormenting thing is not mental and physical labor, but trouble! -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
40. Slowly, you will develop another kind of mood to treat the past. It is to be able to think without soul-stirring, to analyze the cause and effect calmly and objectively, and to make predictions about the future, so as to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Only when a person dares to face the past and mistakes and truly repents thoroughly will he not be eroded by memory. I believe you will learn this slowly and become stronger and stronger. -Fu Lei
4 1. People who play tricks all day are artists, not artists. A person can't jump out of this level, nor can he dream of art all his life! Art is the purpose, and skill is the means; Those who always pay attention to the means will inevitably forget its purpose. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
42. People's life is always ups and downs in high tide and low tide. Only mediocre people can live like stagnant water. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
43. You must get rid of some easy-going temper ... Being in a crowd will lead to a lack of opportunities for reflection; Thoughts, feelings and feelings can't be well sorted out and summarized. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
44. To serve the people, one doesn't have to stand at the conference and make a speech or do something earth-shattering. He tells others what he knows and thinks anytime and anywhere, which is virtually sowing and cultivating plants for the country. -Fu Lei
45. The level of achievement is beyond our control. Partly by manpower, partly by talent, but as long as we are strong, we are not afraid of failure, setbacks and blows-whether in personnel, life, technology or academics. -Fu Lei
46. To serve the people, one doesn't have to stand at the conference and make a speech or do something earth-shattering. He tells others what he knows and thinks anytime and anywhere, which is virtually sowing seeds for the country. -Fu Lei
47. Only a fool will touch a nail before turning back; A wise man learns to be a good person when he sees others suffering. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
48. Kung Fu is not used enough; You will never get good grades if you don't suffer enough! -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
We know you have a strong spirit of self-criticism, but your personal world is limited after all. People's praise for you can only inspire you, and different opinions can make you progress and broaden your horizons. I hope I can think with a calm and open mind. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei
50. Bitter tears are the wine that cultivates your soul-Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei.
5 1, the emotional sorrow is that you should regard these things as ashes in your heart, and you can't help feeling a lot when you look at them, but don't hurt yourself deeply, but have a sad heart like an ancient battlefield. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei