Someone said: "The phenomenon of puppy love is like Pandora's box in Greek mythology. As soon as it was opened, all kinds of disasters flew out. Therefore, it is necessary to lock it. "
Puppy love is a bitter green apple.
The famous scholar Qian Zhongshu's masterpiece Fortress Besieged has a wonderful metaphor, saying that marriage is like a fence. People outside try their best to jump in and people inside try their best to escape. The same is true of puppy love. Middle school students who don't know the world think it is so beautiful and charming, but everyone who has tasted it thinks it is bitter. It is not worth the loss to taste it.
Does it have anything to do with youth?
Hymn of youth:
If life is colorful, then youth must be the most beautiful touch; If life is dynamic and static, then youth must be the most energetic. Brilliant as the veil of the rising sun, graceful as a lily on one side of a cliff, passionate as a red rose, emitting a provocative fragrance. She fascinates me so much. We invite you to our dance. You drove away the silence and ignited the enthusiasm with your beautiful voice and healthy body. Our society also needs you, your vigorous energy, your smart talents and your selfless dedication, so that the whole world can present a bright future and people's hearts can be clear. Our scientific and technological progress needs you, your persistence in victory, your incomparable self-confidence and unremitting efforts have helped us advance civilization. Because of you, we will not shrink back before the gap in life; Because of you, on the verge of falling, we will always have the power to struggle; Because of you, on the bumpy road full of thorns, there will always be sunshine in the hall of victory in our hearts; Because of you, at the low point of failure, we give ourselves another chance ... Without you, there would be no human footprint on Mount Everest; Without you, there would be no green figure stationed on the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau for many years; Without you, the human team is like a blunt arrow. I really can't imagine how quiet and boring the world would be without you. We don't need your wisdom, experience and rational vision, we just need to set sail with your enthusiasm, fearlessness and courage; You just need your perseverance and tenacity to challenge storms and waves until you beat them. Don't blame yourself for being frivolous, it is the brightest symbol of youth; Don't feel inferior because you are shallow. After years of polishing, you will gain full wisdom and experience. But don't indulge your desire, it is like a whirlpool, which will turn you into a bottomless abyss. True youth should learn to master the direction. No decay, no retrogression, your eyes are as bright as a baby. Please hug me, let my life glow with charming brilliance, and let the sun and moon be eclipsed.
Spring is bright sadness.
I stood on the shore and watched the scattered days and nights that made up my whole youth flow away from my eyes at an irreversible speed like running water.
I looked at my youth across the river, calm and sad.
Jing M.Guo said this in the book.
I think there is a reason for his fear and anxiety. Youth always fills every gap in our lives, making us invisible and intangible, but we can always feel its existence and the vitality and happiness it brings us. But if you are not careful-if you are not careful, youth will slip away from your palm at any time. Without any warning or consciousness, he just left. Walk gracefully and silently, just like when you came. What is left is a smile and a cry; It is happiness, it is sadness; Mature, simple ... so, we want to keep it so much that we want it to stop for a while-even for a second.
Youth without laughter is incomplete, and youth without tears is even more incomplete. We have cried, been sad and suffered. But those are like all kinds of concoctions, blending colorful life and rendering colorful future. Many years later, when we look back at youth, we can see clearly that the tears at that time were just a small test of youth, in order to make us more mature, more stable and more able to bear setbacks and difficulties.
If the hands on the clock don't stop, we will go on. It's a mistake to stay where you are. We should keep saying goodbye to some people and things, and then chase them non-stop. In a flash, I found that those who had tried to forget were really forgotten. Perhaps, as Jing M.Guo said in his book, forgetting is our unchangeable fate. But if one day-in fact, there will always be one day, youth really leaves us with a smile from our fingertips, what will happen to us? Is happy, is sad; Or forget or miss? I think, when youth disappears from our lives like running water, will we be sad, will we cry and will we feel sad? Because once-once it accompanied us through our bright spring, our burning summer, our lonely autumn and our psychedelic winter, leaving so many unforgettable memories.
So, cherish your youth, and don't wait until you lose it to feel sorry and sad. It's not until you have traveled all over Qian Shan and gone through four seasons that you find that youth like water is always by your side.
Wings of youth
Youth has a lonely and hazy beauty. Get up in the middle of the night, walk on the quiet paved with gravel, close your eyes and feel the attachment of moonlight, and you can't be quiet inside. Moonlight says, you only live in your own world. You are silent because you are listening to the whispers of the stars. Sometimes you feel that youth is like fog, and then let her guide you forward.
Youth is an outstanding beauty. The flamboyant personality and unruly nature urge you to complete the first transformation of your life. Your body will give off a dazzling aura. Your vitality and vigor are as irresistible as the first ray of life after the spring rain, and like the summer sun, your fiery heart burns everywhere in your youth and life.
Maybe you will ask me, what is youth? I will tell you categorically that youth consists of dreams and pursuits. Every young and frivolous heart has countless beautiful dreams. Every dream has countless unremitting pursuits. Follow your dream and become a realist of that dream. In this way, you will find that you have enough capital, time, perseverance and determination. But don't be greedy. You can only bet everything on one dream and wait for the dream to reap. In this way, when I die, I can say, "My life has been fruitful because I pursued my dreams." Perhaps your heart has always regarded youth as a song and a painting, but I only think that youth is youth and youth is the publicity of personality. Everyone in youth is entitled to proudly announce to the whole world: Youth has me, I have youth, long live youth!
The world is wonderful because of youth, and youth exists because of you and me.
Maybe one day, you will find yourself in middle age, but don't think that youth will leave you. Many times, youth lives in your heart, and you are neighbors and confidants, with light and happiness. Remember not to let darkness occupy your mind. Darkness is evil, youth is good, and good and evil cannot coexist. Staying in the dark will definitely make youth have no choice but to dislike you. Remember to bring happiness in. Only happiness can open your youth and restart your life. In life-you will sing with your heart-
Youth, listen, this is the sound of flapping wings.
Where are you taking me?
oh
You once said to me.
The ground is covered with lilies, and the leaves are covered with clothes.
Unfortunately, I don't remember the name there.
Yes or no
That's next door to heaven
Sustainable happiness
What can't be missed in youth? Quite simply, the first one is "happiness".
Youth is the most prosperous period of life, and happiness is natural. I hate some rigid preaching, as if the whole value of youth lies in future success and hard work. Of all the life patterns, sacrificing for the future is the worst one. It delays happiness forever and actually cancels it. People only have one adolescence, and they can only enjoy their youth in adolescence. It's true that you have some enjoyment after puberty, but the taste is different. For example, it is also a trip. With the curiosity, sensitivity and energy of adolescence, you can get hard-won gains for middle-aged and elderly people. If a person is not forced by life when he is young, he only knows how to suffer and refuses to enjoy, but when he is old, he will become a master, but he will lose the ability to enjoy. What's the point?
Happiness should not be single, short-lived and completely dependent on external conditions, but should be rich, lasting and self-created, otherwise the result will still be unhappy. Therefore, my second thought is "sustainable happiness". Youth will eventually fade away. If you just eat and drink and have no consideration for the future, it will really be "the boss is sad." For the consideration of the future, on the one hand, it is practical consideration, such as having real skills and good health. On the other hand, we should make happiness itself not only happiness, but also the ability to grow and produce new and more happiness. Youth is the most active period of the mind, and it is also the period when the mind tends to be stereotyped. In this period, if a person can fully appreciate the happiness of the soul and form a rich inner world through reading, thinking, art and writing, then he will have an inexhaustible source of happiness in himself. This source will benefit him all his life, so that he can still have the highest happiness of mankind even in hardships. In my opinion, this is the greatest achievement a person can achieve in adolescence.
Days related to youth
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What is youth? Youth should be a flower with blooming branches, the rising sun, the eyes of lovers and the sails in the sea. Once anchored, it is unstoppable.
Youth is strong, refusing to retreat and staying away from pessimism.
Youth is hope. Sow carefully and reap happily.
It is true that there are too many unfairness and disappointments in life, but the creator has just given everyone a life and a youth, but life is long and short, heavy and light; Youth has joys and sorrows, light and darkness. Youth is as precious as a baby. Everyone wants to live, but there is nothing they can do. Youth is fleeting.
I want to praise youth deeply, praise youth loudly and keep youth with words!
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Days related to youth are like dreams. By the time you wake up, she has escaped without a trace. I couldn't see through many things when I was young. When I woke up, it was too late. No one can solve this contradiction, just as none of us can keep our youth.
As Shakespeare said, youth is not a time, but a state of mind. In this way, people's physical youth is limited, but the spiritual and spiritual youth is infinite and eternal, which depends entirely on our mentality. When thinking like this, the curtain of spring has been slowly opened, peach blossoms are dying, pear blossoms are burning, plows are ringing, and cuckoos are urging spring, attracting people who love life to feel the tenderness of spring girls. At this time, we suddenly found that the original youth is in the smiling faces of the old people, in the songs of young people, and in the kites that have just been released. ...
We see that youth is everywhere, not without it!
"It's not unintentional to send you poems, it's youthful shame?" How can you be young as long as you live a full, happy and innocent life?
In the days when I am about to bid farewell to my youth, I write the above words and want to encourage my friends who are facing the same situation.
In the days when I was about to bid farewell to my youth, I suddenly realized that this year is the 30th anniversary of China's reform and opening up. My growth and success were originally synchronized with the reform and opening up of the motherland! Isn't the cause of reform and opening up in the motherland more youthful than a young man in his prime and in the limelight? The days related to youth are so magnificent, magnificent and remarkable!