According to legend, Su Shi is quite accomplished in Buddhism. One day, he meditated and chatted with his good friend Fo Yin. He asked Fo Yin, What do you think of my meditation? Fo Yin exclaimed, like a Buddha. Su Shi was very happy to hear that. Fo Yin then asked Su Shi what do you think of me? In order to show his profound Buddhism, Su Shi replied that it was like a piece of shit. Fo Yin smiled and said nothing. Su Shi thinks he is better than Fo Yin, and he is very proud. Unexpectedly, his sister Su Xiaomei smiled and said to him, Brother, you lost. Su Shi is puzzled. Su Xiaomei explained that Fo Yin had a Buddha in his heart, so he thought everyone was a Buddha. You have shit in your heart, so you see everyone is shit.
Back to the question. The so-called "others in your eyes are actually yourself" is consistent with the truth explained in the above story. That is to say, when we look at others with a strong personal subjective color, others in our eyes are not objective others, but others who have been given our thoughts and feelings. Therefore, through others in our eyes, we will find our own shadow and see our own face.
In literary appreciation, there is a famous saying, "For every 10,000 readers, there are 10,000 Hamlets". In fact, there is only one Hamlet. However, because different readers understand the image of Hamlet with their own personal experiences, thoughts and feelings, their minds are also different. Hamlet's different images, in turn, show that readers are different.
Understand this truth, what we need to pay attention to in our life is not to blindly know and evaluate others according to our own ideological standards. At the same time, when you encounter a problem and think that others are wrong, you should also reflect on whether you have this problem. Otherwise, you will be the stone of bring disgrace to oneself!