Some people say that life is a process of self-exploration.

In the process of exploration, you will encounter disappointment, experience pain, experience sadness, and even fall into despair from time to time.

But all of these will shape you into a better person.

Yes, maybe you will miss the simplicity and carefreeness of your past self, but you certainly won’t think that your past self was better or better than your current self.

This is growth! Everything you go through brings out the best in you.

When you are guided by deep wisdom, spiritual awareness, and sensitive compassion, you are able to realize your full potential in a results-oriented manner.

Only by becoming the best version of ourselves can we have a "magnetic" effect and draw all the things we desire closer to us.

This concept applies to all aspects of life - career, relationships, health, family, etc.

If you don’t know how, here are 7 things that can help you become the best version of yourself.

One: Start thinking bigger, and you will meet the best version of yourself

Only when you have a clear mind can you think bigger.

To realize your best self, the first behavior you need to change is to start thinking like a great mind.

Frequently focusing on more meaningful thinking will help you discover more innovative and bright roads, or in other words, this thinking can open up your own broader vision.

Putting our thinking on small and meaningless issues will make us fall into trivial worries, thus making us ignore the real needs of our hearts.

Frequently worrying about not being able to get on the bus every day, or trembling to commute to get off work for a salary of thousands of dollars. Being in this state for a long time will cause you to be physically and mentally exhausted, forgetting what you should have. possibility.

So instead of limiting yourself to smaller ideas, start thinking big and think about what else you can do.

This kind of lofty idea will shape your inner being and allow you to face various difficulties in life positively. Because you feel that solving big problems is the main thing, and as for those small things, they are no longer your focus.

Optimism ensures that you have the possibility to achieve your goals. At the same time, it helps your whole being move in that direction.

Two: Keep motivating yourself to discover your best self

The power of motivation is one of the main factors that motivates you to become a better self. Motivation comes from the urge to achieve the goals you set for yourself.

Life is so full of uncertainties that you cannot know when you will encounter sunny days in your life; when you will inadvertently encounter those things that make you despair.

But if you stay motivated, you will win the game, no matter what.

It is important to learn to discover and find the motivation that drives you forward. After some people fell in love, they learned from the pain and gradually became better; some people were despised by their family members and then worked hard to make others look at them with admiration.

What about you? How do you motivate yourself?

You can read inspirational quotes and motivational speeches by famous people. You can also use motivational sentences as your own screensaver on your phone.

In this world, there are many ways to make you feel motivated. You can find a way that works for you and start trying it.

Three: Believe in yourself and overcome obstacles to meet the best version of yourself

When we look for ways to make ourselves better, it is obvious that the journey begins with "you" ” and ends with “you,” so believing in yourself is the most important thing.

Sometimes in our lower states of life, we suffer from lower self-esteem. We tend to put ourselves down, define ourselves as having “low standards” or default to “failure outcomes”.

But psychologists say that everyone has the ability to achieve what he wants to do. The difference is whether we believe in ourselves.

A friend of mine took the civil service exam when he was 34 years old.

Because I was engaged in the Internet industry, I spent ten years in this industry and ate up my youth.

In the end, when I got older and my abilities reached the bottleneck, I was beaten mercilessly by various tasks at work. I was full of pressure and often worked overtime. My body became more and more overwhelmed, and my life became a mess.

In the end, he resolutely picked up the book and told himself that he could overcome various difficulties, and finally realized his wish.

Therefore, we can think about things that can make major changes in ourselves as driving forces, or tell ourselves that we can become an excellent person in the future.

Start trying something new and believe that you will achieve great success.

Four: Set goals for yourself and find the best version of yourself

When you plan to work hard to become the best version of yourself, setting goals is important.

Just like there is no ladder, no one can climb to high places. Likewise, goals are the ladder to your self-development.

Your first priority could be to connect the actions you take every day to specific goals. For example, if you want to improve your abilities, then do something related to this goal every day.

I have a reader who wants to improve his "eloquence in picking up girls". I told him that if he wants to improve his eloquence in this area, he needs to improve his coping skills.

Because when you get along with a girl, the other party may say various words to "challenge" you to see how you react, and then you will know what kind of person you are. If your response is always to be withdrawn and nice, the other person will naturally feel that they cannot find a sense of security in you.

Therefore, you need to practice your eloquence. No matter what a girl says, you can respond to her calmly and calmly, without letting the other party affect your emotions or being a licker.

This reader follows my method every day, constantly imagining various "challenging" problems and situations, and letting himself practice and exercise like talking to himself.

Later he told me that the girl was already willing to hang out with him, but she still needed to further establish a relationship. This really depends on his personal ability.

In short, exercising with a goal will make you more determined and focused.

You can create a "goal tracker" where you write down the goals you want to achieve and create a time frame for each goal you plan to accomplish.

But one thing you must remember is to stick to this goal every day until you achieve it. Any goal will make a person a better person.

Five: Meet new challenges and discover the best version of yourself

Instead of wasting time, it is better to start meeting new challenges. Opportunities unfold with new challenges.

However, the reason why many people dare not do this is because of the fear of failure. Afraid of stepping out of your comfort zone and encountering difficulties that you cannot handle.

It can be said that fear is the culprit of "self-limitation". Therefore, we need to show the courage to take on new challenges.

At all times, you must remain vigilant to deal with any challenges.

If you win, it gives you confidence. If not, you can learn what negative aspects you have and what you need to change.

Ultimately, this becomes another experience that expands your comfort zone.

Six: Come out of failure and meet the best version of yourself

It is also important to move on from past failures.

If you insist on changing things that have already happened and cannot be changed, then all your efforts and efforts will become meaningless. In the end, it will only lead to you resenting yourself.

When you fail, admit the failure and see it as a step to learn from your mistake and move on.

The meaning of failure is to allow us to better understand the conditions required for success.

Only by allowing ourselves to "understand" failure can we make better decisions in the future. Think about it, those celebrities we are familiar with, do you find that each of them "takes failure seriously"?

Everyone starts with early failures. Only by walking away from failure can failure become the "mother of success."

Seven: Find out your strengths and find the best version of yourself

To find a better self, you need to identify your areas of strength.

Self-discovery is the ultimate path to realizing your best self. So pay attention and discover your strengths.

Once you understand your areas of strength, you can exploit them. Over time, these strengths will bring you to the best version of yourself.

When you understand your positives, passions, and motivators, you will be able to realize your full potential. And all of these help you discover and meet the best version of yourself.

Now that you have developed the skills and practices to find your best self, it’s time to take the first step and overcome the obstacles you need to face.

People don’t always slide down; everyone experiences success and failure.

So the same goes for you, you will definitely succeed and achieve various achievements, but you first need to understand yourself, have a clear understanding and passion for what you want to do.

You can choose the method that suits you to optimize yourself, release your potential, and make yourself better and better.

Think about it, how do you feel about your performance? Are you realizing your full potential?