What is the future? People should live in the present and enjoy this moment. When you treat this moment sincerely, you are actually treating the past completed by this moment and the future brought by this moment with your heart. When you treat this moment with your heart, every moment is accumulating, which is called life. Don't wait until tomorrow to be happy, because tomorrow is another tomorrow. Don't wait until the future to realize a dream, because when you say that the future will realize a dream, the future will never come, so you will never realize that dream, because every tomorrow will make you shirk your dream, and there will always be a future that will delay your happiness. From now on, do your best to create the greatest happiness within your ability and conditions. Why do you want to emphasize knowing yourself? Because few people calm down and look at themselves, ask themselves and know themselves. We spend most of our time learning about the world, and seldom have time to explore ourselves, even if it is one tenth or one percent of our lives.
Love yourself means that I love myself, so there is a premise in this sentence that you really love yourself, all self-love will be exchanged for love for life, and all world-weariness will be exchanged for self-weariness.
When you are young, you will make mistakes. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. When you are wrong, you learn to solve problems. When you are wrong, you learn to find the truth in your mistakes.
You know yourself first, you should be yourself, and then you can surpass yourself. It's called defeating yourself.
Loneliness and loneliness are not the same thing Loneliness is a kind of solitude in one's own world, and it is a complete state of its own system.
What is loneliness? Loneliness is a kind of nothingness that is forced out helplessly.
Since we are going to live this life in this world, please make your life a life worth celebrating.
Noisy is a family of its own, and so am I. I am sentimental, and I am at peace with the world. What others say is what they think of you. Why do you care about his grades when he doesn't know you? The key is how many points do you give yourself?
When you really feel that this is wrong, when you feel that this is wrong in your heart, just remember to turn back.
Are you confident to ask why you want to socialize? What is the motivation for socializing? There are only two motives for socializing:
First of all, it is out of interest relationship and future practical relationship. I want to establish my contacts on such occasions, so this is a utilitarian purpose and a practical purpose. Everyone is just a node, and everyone is just a tool used by others, a tool used by others.
The second is the mutual warmth of a group of lonely people.
Living in this world, we will encounter many meaningful but boring things. It is a kind of wisdom to make all meaningful things as interesting as possible, and at the same time make all things that you find interesting meaningful.
Everyone follows the crowd, but the opinions of the public are very important. The opinions of the public and the society are all important reference standards for knowing yourself.
What is real positive energy? That is, you have lived a light source. You live in a beam of light yourself. You don't have to tell him anything. When you live in a beam of light and he wants to be close to you, he will be close to the light. Whether you like it or not, you will warm him up. Whether you like it or not, you will illuminate him, so this is called real positive energy.
It is the most unwise behavior to waste one's own time, no matter what reason you use.
What is freedom? Freedom is actually a person finding the rhythm that suits his life.
How can I find a bosom friend? Everyone here, birds of a feather flock together. Only people with the same energy can recognize each other, only people with the same energy can appreciate each other and only people with the same energy can become bosom friends. I hope you can understand the subtext of this sentence: what kind of good friends do you want and what kind of people do you meet first.
What is common sense? What is common sense? Have you ever thought that the so-called common sense is just the prejudice of most people?
Maturity is not tactfulness at the social level, nor is it a person at the social level; Exquisite in all directions; That's not true. When we talk about maturity here, we don't mean that we are old and always in the physiological stage, but that maturity is a psychological state, which always belongs to the phenomenon world and maturity belongs to the spiritual world. They are located in two different dimensions and two different interfaces.
Decline refers to people's mental degradation, while old values refer to people's physical degradation, physical degradation. They are different things. Many people are old before they are old, but he is still young but has no vitality. He is still young, but he can't find vitality. He is still young, but he won't think about childish problems. He is still young, but he doesn't know how to take life seriously. Aging before you get old is a kind of life. It is a kind of power degraded by gravity, so it is a kind of corruption from the inside out, a kind of degradation from the inside out, and a kind of spiritual turbidity;
What is old? He refers to the degradation of the human body, the retrogression of the body, and the joints of your body may not be flexible, but all of you here are full of such people in our lives, that is, old but not old, old but not old. The growth of his age will only make his weather more sunny, and his mental state more Cheng Min. You will feel that such a person is getting older, but he is getting purer and more transparent. He is getting more and more beautiful. What we can't change is the natural phenomenon of our aging. But when we grow up, we are constantly moving towards the light, sublimation and growth. One day our bodies will be broken and we will be disobedient. It doesn't matter. Let your spirit grow towards the light and become more and more real, better and more beautiful. There are only two forces in this world, one is to think of light upwards, and the other is called gravity. If we want to keep ourselves beautiful, healthy, clear, fresh and harmonious, we will continue to grow in our lifetime. Only when you grow up can you resist the downward force and you will slowly live into a beam of light. Anyone who approaches you is close to the light. This is a responsibility and mission to oneself in life. If you only live once, how can you be willing to make your short life ugly?
Lonely people are often extremely interesting and rich people, because they are not forced to fall into loneliness, because it is a self-selected pastime, and loneliness is a self-selected self-way. Think about it. A person can remain lonely, and a person can always enjoy himself in a lonely state. What kind of mineral deposit this person should be. He has inexhaustible fun and constantly provides fresh resources for his life. Is there anything more interesting than such a person? If you leave yourself alone for a day, can you make your day very lonely and interesting? Lonely people are in a harmonious state, and lonely people are not in a state of absence. A lonely person, a truly lonely person, loves ideas very much, because you can make a person full of fun and creativity forever, and his source is only one, that is, ideas. People become people because of their thoughts. Therefore, the happiness of the lonely is the happiness of the thinker. Because of his broad mind, his happiness is very lasting. Man is a tiny particle in the universe, but the tiny mind of a tiny particle can actually think of the whole universe, which shows how great the thought is. Therefore, everyone has had the pleasure of reading and the pleasure of communication in the process of reading, and you will understand that loneliness makes the communication between thinkers smoother. When we are reading, there will be a state that slowly emerges.
Freedom of speech and action is elegance.