In addition to temples, the more common phenomenon is that the better people are, the easier they are to be criticized. Therefore, the predecessors summed up the truth that "the gun hits the first bird" and "the wood is beautiful in the forest".
In the field of philosophy and science, those who discover new things, put forward new ideas and create new scientific theories will cause controversy as soon as their ideas and theories are thrown out. This controversy is not limited to their views and theories, but also affects themselves, being personally attacked or even forced to disappear.
The most well-known example that happened not long ago abroad is that 500 years ago, the Polish astronomer Copernicus denied geocentric theory and proposed "Heliocentrism", while "Heliocentrism" was accused by the Roman Catholic Church of violating the Bible and was classified as a heresy. Later, Bruno, an Italian philosopher who defended Copernicus Heliocentrism, was burned alive. Galileo, an Italian astronomer and physicist, was sentenced to life imprisonment by the Inquisition, and his book Dialogue between Ptolemy and Copernicus was banned.
Even Tu Youyou, a female pharmacist in China, who won the Nobel Prize in Medicine in 20 15 for her discovery of artemisinin, has won numerous honors at all levels for her lifelong commitment to artemisinin research. However, while she made brilliant achievements and won many honors, she was not only praised, but also calm, including jealousy, doubt and controversy. It was just not made public, but Tu Youyou concentrated on scientific research and ignored it.
Where is there no contradiction? Where is there no doubt? Where is there no wind and waves? Things always develop in contradiction, society always progresses in contradiction, scientific achievements are always born in doubt, and excellent people always grow up in the wind and rain.
In real life, from small units to large online public platforms, excellent people and excellent people are always easily questioned and criticized. Even outstanding contemporary scientists like Zhong Nanshan and Yuan Longping have been accused by individuals with ulterior motives, not to mention other outstanding people.
No matter whether these excellent people do it intentionally or not, as long as they stand in a dazzling place and have achieved some achievements or honors, all kinds of doubts will follow. These questions and criticisms are quietly spread behind the scenes of the unit, but they are publicized in a big way on the network platform, even smearing the network environment in the form of cyber violence.
No matter how excellent, excellent and noble a person is, living in the world of mortals, he can't escape everything he encounters in the world: dedication, hardship, praise, questioning, criticism, head-on or circuitous progress, persistence or retreat.
In daily life, why do some people, no matter how excellent, gossip and attack them?
This usually stems from the following five main reasons.
First, conflicts of interest. Even if those excellent people have no intention of blocking anyone's way, touching anyone's interests, or posing no threat to anyone, there are people who are full of high vigilance and carefully guard their favorite prey everywhere. They always think that smart and excellent people will get in their way, grab the prey they have locked in, or share their imaginary cakes.
Second, jealousy, hide sour grapes. Some people don't work hard enough, but they always feel that others are similar to him, and they will play tricks, be half-hearted and covet ill-gotten gains. Obviously, others are much more diligent, intelligent, talented, dedicated, clever and bigger than him, but he always feels that others are similar to him. Why should others get more money, be more famous and be more successful than him? As a result, all kinds of slander and slander on outstanding people will spread and spread in the dark.
Third, cognitive limitations. Some people, limited by their own education, experience, environment and other factors, always like to use their own ideas to evaluate others from their own cognitive perspective. For example, he has a little mind, likes to play some narrow-minded, engage in some small moves, pull some small gangs, and learn some tricks in kung fu dramas. In their eyes, others will be narrow-minded, petty, and cliques. They try to figure out others and measure the world with their own life experience and eyes, and then tell others to praise or criticize others.
The so-called "sitting in the well and watching the sky", "the blind touch the elephant" and "one leaf is blind" mean that these people are unwilling to break through their cognitive limitations and expand their horizons. Therefore, they think excellent people are like them.
Fourth, be narrow-minded. Some people are too narrow-minded. What he likes is good, and what he doesn't like is bad. What he did was right, and what others did was wrong. No matter how good a person is, as long as it doesn't meet his vision and appetite, then this person is not only not good, but also has problems all over his body. If you don't like this person, that's it. Everyone has the freedom to like and dislike. However, it is not enough for a narrow-minded person not to like himself. He had to use all means to slander people he didn't like in an attempt to incite everyone to hate them. Narrow-minded to a certain extent, it will form mental illness.
Fifth, lack of self-cultivation. Some people like to gossip as long as they have time, and they like to say other people's faults. They have a kind of voyeurism, which is light or heavy. They always like to stare at other people's shortcomings and pry into other people's private affairs, and then spread it around, even embellishing it and deliberately rendering it.
Therefore, outstanding people stand out because of some achievements and honors, which will make people appreciate and praise, but it is also easy to become a thorn in some people's side and a thorn in others' flesh.
If a person who thinks he is excellent is afraid of being questioned, criticized and attacked by others and gives in to pressure and stops, it is not really excellent.
Excellent people are excellent because they are good at listening to others' good opinions with an open mind, can bear all kinds of criticisms, are not influenced by any malice, do not yield to any resistance, and are not intimidated by any difficulties. Those attacks and obstacles are also one of their excellent objective factors.
A mediocre, lazy and slick person can't be excellent.
A pleasure-seeking person can't be excellent.
A person who has not experienced wind and rain, a person who has not experienced hardships and hardships, and a person who grew up in a greenhouse cannot be excellent.
A timid person who gives up persistence and goals when encountering difficulties, doubts and criticisms can't be excellent.
Rivers, because of the obstacles of mountains, will be tortuous, but will go straight ahead and will not give up the goal of running to the sea.
A tree will not bend over and become a weed because it is surrounded by weeds. The tree will struggle upward in the weeds and grow into a big tree.
Mountains will not disappear because of fog. They stand silently on the misty sea of Yunshan. When the clouds break away, they will stand in the boundless space with unprecedented freshness and tenacity.
Excellent people are rivers, trees and mountains.
Excellent people always grow up in the wind and rain, and go to heights in the wind and rain. People admire or envy, or learn, or envy, or question and attack, but excellent people will not stop.
Excellent people represent the positive energy of all walks of life and the direction that life should strive for.
Excellent people live to be their own little sun. They should shine, gather light, do what they want, and light up their own way and other people's lives. They will not stop being excellent because of gossip and various doubts, and will not shake their determination to be excellent.
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