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Dress preference of sharp-eyed people: women who wear skirts in the workplace are stronger.
There is a saying that "the heart separates the belly", and there is an old saying that describes the distance between people and the heart in the most plain language. Since the birth of mankind, how to understand strangers, companions, friends and relatives has become a long-standing problem. Wise ancestors summed up a series of famous sayings and aphorisms to remind themselves at all times, such as "knowing horsepower will make people see their hearts for a long time" and "knowing people's faces but not their hearts". However, summing up leads to summing up and refining leads to refining, and the difficulty of knowing people is still like a mountain in front of everyone. Interestingly, the problem has not been solved, but it has spawned a new career-Ma Yi Shi Xiang, and "knowing people" has become an easy career that can be fooled as much as possible.
The times are developing, science is progressing, and the skill of knowing people naturally keeps pace with the times. Since the emergence of modern psychology, we have understood that Fiona Fang is not necessarily an official position. Inadvertently born triangular eyes and broom eyebrows are not necessarily doomed to treachery. To understand a person's personality, we should not only listen to his words, but also observe his actions, so many things that we have never paid attention to have become the best window to understand a person.
Open this topic, you will find that behind different clothing habits, there are individuals with different personalities; Appreciating the different lines of the body will also reflect people's different preferences and attitudes towards life; Even the animals in the movies are allegorical expressions of people's different personalities. After tasting this topic, you will understand that behind countless seemingly simple and different details of life, there is a rich and colorful inner world. (Dong) According to
The voice of experts
Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, stressed: "There are many factors that affect and reflect a person's personality and psychology. Clothing can really reflect a person's psychological characteristics, which can be used as a reference for us to know a person, but we can't generalize. Because people have a lot of contingency when choosing clothes, for example, sometimes people choose different clothes because of different times and occasions. "
Dress preference reveals a woman's heart.
A recent survey abroad found that a person's favorite color often represents his personality and emotional color. Dr. Peter Rover, an American psychologist, believes that a person's psychology can often be inferred from his preference for clothing color and clothing, which is more obvious in women.
Coincidentally, Masazo Shibuya, a doctor of psychology at the School of Humanities, Tokyo University, and now a professor of psychology at the Department of Human Sociology, Mubai University, proposed that women's choice of clothing implied many personalized psychological characteristics on the basis of years of specialized research on nonverbal communication and spatial movements.
Look at women from the perspective of workplace dress;
Women who wear pants in the workplace are more feminine, and women who wear skirts are more tough.
In the workplace, women wear masculine clothes, showing a more masculine psychology-they want to work like men and decide the outcome by strength, not because they are women. Therefore, such women should try to eliminate their femininity. These people may be aware of their feminine parts and wear strict suits to hide them. If such a woman leaves the workplace, she will lift the restrictions and become very feminine.
So people who choose the same clothes as men's suits are enthusiastic and self-motivated. They have strong opinions and a strong sense of competition with others, but they are uncoordinated and prone to conflict with others.
People who usually wear skirts and women's clothes at work go to work as women. Sometimes, such people will take the initiative to use female characteristics. They have the characteristics of calmly and thoroughly calculating the whole event in order to survive, which is quite different from what they appear on the outside, and can be regarded as very masculine people in the subconscious.
Understanding women from the complexity of clothing;
Women in gorgeous clothes are actually not at ease with people?
In fact, everyone has a feeling of being isolated from the outside world, which is called "body boundary" Originally the most basic boundary was skin. When wearing clothes, clothes become the boundary, so clothes can be said to be "second skin." A person always tries to hide his naked body and wears clothes, but often his heart is exposed because of his choice of clothes.
Masazo Shibuya, a professor of psychology in the Department of Human Sociology at Mubai University, believes that if a person has a weak sense of boundaries, it is difficult for him to feel different from others and to grasp the distance from others, so he is not good at interacting with people, because he is always uneasy because of his weak boundaries with the outside world. People who want to enhance their sense of boundaries will wear eye-catching clothes that are obviously different. In addition, with the enhancement of the tightness between clothes and skin, it can also strengthen people's sense of boundaries. A woman who is confident in her figure and exudes femininity everywhere in gorgeous clothes may feel uneasy about others after taking off her clothes.
People who wear loose and comfortable clothes regardless of their figure are people who can keep up with the fashion and master the pace that does not belong to them. On the one hand, you can strengthen your values, on the other hand, you can have good interpersonal relationships.
Looking at women from clothing color system;
Favorite colors can directly show a person's personality.
Having met a person several times, you can probably tell what color she likes from her clothes. A person's favorite color can directly tell a person's personality, and it can also be seen that he "wants to be what kind of person he wants others to think of him."
Yoga Yu, deputy manager and chief image consultant of China Shijia Fashion Design Co., Ltd., said that when she painted colors, she would first observe the types of guests. Years of work experience enabled her to judge a guest's character almost from the first sight. She said: "People who like bright colors are generally cheerful, healthy, or enthusiastic and self-centered; I like to wear white, noble and pure, subconsciously indifferent, giving people a sense of distance, and so on. "
Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, said that color works through human vision. Different colors emit different wavelengths of light. When human eyes come into contact with different colors, brain nerves will have different associations and reactions. "Colors are divided into cool colors and warm colors, and wearing clothes of different colors has different effects. Therefore, people choose clothing colors, mostly internal projection or back projection. "
Dr Peter Rover, an American psychologist, found that women who like to wear red clothes are considered as "ambitious young people". They are often dissatisfied, adventurous and follow the fashion, but their fickle temperament is often unpredictable. Women who like green are considered as "tough and practical mothers". In life, they are content with the status quo, act cautiously and work hard, but they are afraid of taking risks, being ahead of others, being introverted, often suppressing their desires and being ashamed to take the initiative in their feelings.
In addition, people who like white often feel alienated but difficult to approach; People who like purple may be more romantic; People who like yellow are naive at heart; People who like blue are sincere and full of fantasy; People who like black suppress their feelings but long for care and love ... Of course, this classification seems a bit too simple, and there are often many colors that a person likes, so it is impossible to generalize. However, knowing what color a woman prefers may help to understand her heart.
Understanding women from the brightness of clothing colors;
People who like high-intensity colors are cheerful and outgoing, but their hearts are full of anxiety.
Dr. Peter Rover, an American psychologist, found that people who pay attention to the color of clothes and like complex clothes are often more practical and confident, but they love to dominate others, and their feelings are impulsive and easy to fall into anxiety. People who like light-colored clothes and simple clothes tend to be introverted and live a simple, gentle and quiet life, but they are prone to lack of self-confidence, strong dependence and are not good at action.
Masazo Shibuya, a professor of Japanese psychology, believes that people who like high-color colors are outgoing and active. But my heart is full of anxiety, uncertainty and dissatisfaction. It is because I want to make up for my anxiety that I like high-tone colors. They have a strong anxiety about their personality and ability, and may be dissatisfied with their work, workplace and treatment. It's completely different from appearance, but it's actually a shrinking personality. Lack of coordination, easily influenced by new and popular things. In addition, even small things will make them feel happy and sad, while people who don't like high-color colors are highly satisfied with themselves, firmly determine their self-orientation, have a realistic attitude towards life, are sincere in personality and have stable feelings, and will choose their communication partners according to their own standards in interpersonal relationships and establish stable relationships from the beginning. Their self-assertion is not too strong, but they can express their views without fear when necessary.
In addition, because a woman's choice of clothes will be influenced by her mood at that time, the mood of the day will often be seen from the clothes she changes every day.