Humanity and sophistication

New Year’s advice given to his daughter by a department senior:

1. Everyone needs to have a “monitoring” thinking and imagine everywhere If everyone has eyes watching you, you will not do or say the wrong thing because you are too carried away. This is what is called a gentleman who is careful in his independence, does not deceive the dark room, humbles himself, and does not deceive his heart.

2. Don’t be too smart, otherwise it will be difficult to get married. No one likes a person who can see through someone's heart at a glance, nor does anyone like someone who cares about everything. For small interests, be a little more confused when you should be confused, and let others take advantage of it. If others can take advantage of you, they will naturally come closer to you.

3. Lian Guangyu has a vast mind and listens to thunder in a silent place. People who are bound by morality and face often hear the sound of thunder every day and often have no peace in their inner world. They are like big trees on the top of the mountain, swaying when the wind blows.

4. Get close to whoever you want to be. If you don't have a male character, you can have any character. Before making friends with any type of person, wipe yourself with an eraser. Who doesn't like a blank piece of paper? Lao Tzu said, everything is born from nothingness.

5. I have seen an old man from the city suddenly lose his poker skills after he retired. After all, he basically won every time he played cards before retirement, but lost every time he played cards after retirement.

6. Everyone wants to be independent, but the old leader told me to follow the steps step by step. I have learned about the learning direction in the middle half of my life.