2. People who are kind to their parents are filial. For example, Ji of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and Advocating Honesty and Filial Piety.
3. Mourning is mourning. Such as filial piety, filial piety.
4. Support, filial piety, filial piety. For example, in the Book of Rites, filial piety is more important than family ties.
5. Serve the funeral of parents and grandparents. Such as filial piety, filial piety
6. Being able to follow the wishes of our ancestors. For example, in The Doctrine of the Mean, filial people are good at following people's wishes and telling people's affairs. 」
"Filial piety" means that the previous generation is an old man and the next generation is a son. It is the fusion of the previous generation and the next generation, which is called filial piety.
Children inherit their parents' blood and family precepts, and their bodies are parents' doppelgangers. Unfortunate parents lose their roots. Therefore, as the old saying goes, "Filial piety is a matter of course".
The Book of Songs wrote: "Father gave birth to me! Sister Xi bows to me! Spoil me, support me, nurture me; Take care of me, answer me, get in and out of my abdomen. If you want to repay kindness, you will be extremely confused! 」。
Therefore, as children, we all need to know how to be filial.
Filial piety says: "Parents have physical problems and dare not harm them, so filial piety begins." . Therefore, as children, if we want to be filial, we must first take care of ourselves and don't let our parents worry about our physical injuries; More importantly, we should remember the warning that "moral harm brings shame to parents". In their own character, we should be strict with ourselves, do not do anything unkind, unfair, dishonest and impolite, and behave well and strive for progress. Don't let parents worry, be ashamed of us. This is the first step of filial piety.
A person's filial piety is inseparable from respect. Confucius said, "All dogs and horses can be raised. What's the difference between disrespect?" Filial piety to adoptive parents has no certain form, but it is all heartfelt love. Think about ourselves,
Is it respect to listen to your parents' teaching since childhood?
When I was a child, my parents left me the best food; Now, the best food, remember to invite parents to eat first?
Is the best room at home for parents? Do they often care about food, clothing, housing and transportation?
Did you try your best to do what your parents told you?
When parents are sick, can you try your best to serve them and try your best to reduce their pain?
How long has it been since you traveled abroad, didn't greet your family and didn't go back to visit?
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Furthermore, if filial piety can be extended to all teachers and relatives; If we can still make efforts and contributions in the street, so that parents can rest assured that their life's hard work has not been in vain, this is what the ancients called "taking care of the lintel" and "filial piety" will be more complete.
"Filial piety is the foundation of a hundred lines, and goodness is also in the beginning. Filial piety, regardless of age, wealth, is feasible for everyone. May we remember these words. Seize the opportunity of filial piety in time, and don't wait until the sorrow of "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop, and the son wants to raise it but not wait for his relatives".