The influence of environment on human growth is subtle and far-reaching. It is precisely because osmosis is a very long and slow process that most people are not easy to detect and do not pay attention to it. Over time, it was shaped by the environment and gradually changed the way of life. Once you get used to the environment, people are unlikely to make changes and move to a better environment.

Far-reaching influence means that the choice of environment is very important for people's growth. Living with goodwill is like entering Lan Zhi's room, but you can't smell its fragrance for a long time; Living with the wicked is like entering an abalone room and not smelling its stench for a long time. "The story of Meng Mu's three movements is a classic example of environmental choice. Therefore, for our better growth, we should carefully choose our environment.

The environment is divided into natural environment, social environment and family environment.

Family environment has the greatest influence on people before they go to society. Born in a scholarly family and born in a peasant family, the influence will definitely be different. In the family, children turn a deaf ear to their parents' words and deeds, and will inevitably follow suit. Therefore, parents are the most important teachers in everyone's life. Parents' political inclination, hobbies, words and deeds, and parents' communication will have an immeasurable impact on their children's growth and future. The so-called' the farmer's son has long recognized the plow, the strategist's son dances the sword and gun, and the scholar's son dances the pen and ink'.

For each of us, although we can't choose our origins, we can change ourselves and make continuous efforts to create a good family environment for future generations.

To be a qualified parent, let the children be influenced by a good family atmosphere since childhood, constantly carry out positive words and deeds, cultivate good living habits bit by bit, gradually develop the moral character of diligence and housekeeping, teach people to be polite and humble, and teach life experience to learn to love themselves and then love others. There are many things that can be done. The key is that we should act consciously.

Being born well is a kind of luck, so we should cherish it, make full use of it and give full play to our innate advantages. In this case, the free development of individuals will be supported by more resources, and they can do what they like, love the people they love, inherit their father's career, or open up new fields and create their own glory. But remember, don't squander your resources at will.

On the contrary, we come from an ordinary or even slightly poor background, which is our innate deficiency, but we can artificially change the acquired factors and develop in a direction conducive to our own growth. The so-called "invincible", we can try our best to enter a better natural and social environment, which is conducive to growth and development. The so-called "good birds choose wood to live."

We can change a small range of natural environment by ourselves, such as the environment at home. Imagine? How can an orderly, clean and comfortable home environment not make people love life and fight for it every day? On the contrary, if you are too lazy to make your own bed every day and make your life a mess, how can you meet a challenging job?

We can't change a wide range of natural environment, we can selectively enter. The conditions in cities are definitely superior to those in towns, and our goal should be to enter such a better environment. But the problem is that you are not afraid of competition, you are afraid of being limited, and your thinking is limited by objective conditions.

For the working environment, we should carefully choose an industry, which should have a continuous positive impact on our growth. If not, please quit until you find it. Once the direction is wrong, all efforts will be in vain.

For the environment, if you can't change it, you must adapt. When you can't adapt, you choose to leave and find an environment more suitable for your survival and development.

Extended data

1. The relationship between material conditions and education

In today's rich material, inertia and impetuousness are the easiest to breed. Children don't appreciate our love and often don't agree with it. Therefore, it is not that the better the material conditions, the better the children's education. On the contrary, the better the family environment, the more obstacles you set up. Don't do too much. Otherwise, the arranged life will make him lose the ability to think about life. How do you want him to live in the future? Don't do "immoral" things with good intentions.

2. Life circle

The state of a child's life circle has an important influence on his future life as an adult. Family is her first life circle. At present, there is still a life circle for children who cultivate their hearts, which is the classic baby of cultivating their hearts all over the country. Through the contact between the network and the ground, they can give full play to their talents, learn from the advantages of others and make up for their own shortcomings on various platforms built for them in raising their families. "Observation and education" in such a circle from an early age will form its own correct three views over time.