Most of the classics we refer to when naming are about morality, self-cultivation, and responsibility to the country. Through the act of naming, we can spread the national values ????to thousands of households and penetrate deeply into children. heart.

For a child to have a good name from an early age, it has a very positive effect on him. The Chinese people attach so much importance to their names is actually a reflection of their highly developed culture.

——Peng Lin's "The Knowledge of Naming"

Excuse me, how should I call you? How do you introduce your name? What special meaning does your name have?

Yesterday, teacher Ma Qunzhi really stunned me when he asked this question.

How to say it? The name "Jiao Wending" was given by my father. Although I felt that it was not loud enough, I never thought about changing it, so I kept calling it like this for more than 40 years. As for why he gave me such a name, he never said it, and neither did I.

It happens like this every time. When others ask urgent questions, I will come up with an idea: "Jiao" is the surname, and "Wen" is the seniority. As for "ding", when combined with my brother's name, it means "man is determined to conquer nature"...

Then, I can receive a burst of "sparse" applause, plus a sweat on my forehead.

Then, you can cross your legs and see how others introduce themselves.

For example, "Qiqi" means "炂", the sound made by beautiful jade; for example, "Yudi" means witty words and enlightens the mind; for example, the single word "wen" means "pattern-like" "Clouds"; for example, "Yinbo", Yin is Tang Yin, Bo is Bole; for example, "Lijia", powerful and beautiful; for example, "Zhijian", strong will...

It can be said that self-introduction is the basic skill of public speaking, and it must be used in many public occasions.

But it is not easy to introduce your name in a distinctive way so that others can remember it and successfully identify it.

I flipped through the book and found some ways to introduce myself, just for reference.

1. Story method.

When many parents name their children, they do not name them randomly, but after a period of thinking. Therefore, this name has an unusual origin, and it becomes a very vivid story when told.

For example, Xia Yinghe. "Hello everyone! My name is Xia Yinghe. According to my mother, on the day I was born, the lotus flowers in the big pond in front of my house all bloomed overnight, so my mother gave me such a name. ”

2. Praise method.

When we explain a name, unless it is a very rare Chinese character, we generally do not need to write it out. We can just use words that the audience can understand.

But please note one thing: when introducing your name, try to choose words with positive meanings.

3. Ancient poetry method.

The goal is to find a Tang poem or Song poem that everyone is familiar with, and it happens to contain your name. The advantage of this method is that you can use those well-known poems to help others remember your name as quickly as possible.

For example: Li Chunxiao, from the first two sentences of Meng Haoran's "Spring Dawn": "I sleep in spring without realizing the dawn, and I hear birds singing everywhere."

4. Famous Quotes Law.

This is similar to the ancient poetry method, that is, find a famous saying or motto that everyone is familiar with to explain your name, and let your name just be hidden in this sentence or phrase.

For example: Hello everyone! My name is Kong Xizhi. Kong is the Kong of Confucius. Xi Zhi is the Xi Zhi of the sentence in "The Analects of Confucius" written by Confucius: "Learn and practice from time to time."

5. Celebrity Law.

It is to use the name of a famous person to explain your name so that others can remember your name more easily.

This is relatively simple, but there are still a few points that must be paid attention to:

1. The name borrowed must be a famous person known to both women and children. Otherwise, even if you explain for a long time, others will still be confused.

2. The celebrities whose names are borrowed must be of the same type, so as to deepen others' understanding and conform to the principle of people gathering in groups.

For example, Liu Ling. You can introduce it like this: "Hello everyone! My name is Liu Ling, Andy Lau's Liu, Lin Chiling's Ling.

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3. If all the words in your name cannot be linked to a celebrity. Then you can consider linking it to a celebrity first, and use other words to form adjectives to describe this celebrity. < /p>

For example: Fan Lei can be introduced like this: "Hello everyone! My name is Fan Lei, Fan is the fan of Fan Zhongyan, Lei is the aboveboard Lei, together they are the aboveboard Fan Zhongyan. My father gave me such a name, hoping that I can be an aboveboard person like Fan Zhongyan in the future.

Your name is what you look like.

You can understand that it is just the first line on your ID card, just a nicer title, just a symbol that can represent you and be easily remembered by others.

However, since you are given this name, you are naturally endowed with certain expectations and spirit.

Your name not only expresses the good wishes that your family has placed on you, but also expresses your personality.

It is a business card that will accompany you throughout your life, an indispensable symbol in your social interactions, a symbol of your family’s inheritance, and an expression of your ideals, beliefs and good expectations.