? Following these words and questions, I read some biographical information about Shen and Zhang:
At that time, Shen only had a primary school diploma. He joined the army at the age of 14 and came to the army at the age of 20. In Beijing, he began literary creation at the age of 22. A few years later, he emerged in Beijing's literary world and was appreciated by Yu Dafu and Xu Zhimo. Later, Shen was recommended by Xu Zhimo to Hu Shi and later became a teacher in a Chinese public school. Shen was only 26 years old at the time. In the eyes of students, he cannot be called a "respected teacher", but just a young man who can write vernacular novels. This year, Zhang Zhaohe was 18 years old. He was a popular figure in a Chinese public school. Probably because of his dark skin, he was nicknamed "Black Peony". Anyway, Shen fell in love with Zhang at first sight, and then he wrote letters one after another. However, Zhang Zhaohe did not buy it. Among the many suitors, Shen was numbered Frog N#. Until the summer vacation after Zhang graduated, Shen directly came to the Zhang family in Suzhou to visit Zhang. Within one summer vacation, the Zhang family accepted him. After falling in love with this elegant and elegant young man, the second sister Yunhe talked to her parents about matchmaking, and then this "countryman" drank a glass of sweet wine.
? Zhang was born in a scholarly family, and she has the gentleness and tradition of a woman from the family in her heart. Once she gets married, she will take it as her mission to support her husband and raise her children. While working as a middle school teacher, she works hard to run the house, cook and raise children. My children, be self-denial and love your family. ? Shen's "Border Town" was written shortly after his marriage. Unfortunately, after marriage, Shen cheated on the literary young woman Gao Qingzi. Gao was Shen's fan. Shen got lost in the ordinary daily life. Perhaps it was the nature of a novelist. Maybe it was Gao Qingzi's extraordinary enthusiasm and deep understanding of him that made Shen unable to control himself, and his heart was turbulent and uneasy. After confessing his inner emotional tangle to his wife, Zhaohe was indignant and said, "I'll give it to you at home." My husband raises my son and takes care of the house for you, but you still have such thoughts of cheating. I think that when I married you, I gave up my daughter’s life to live a hard life with you, but you don’t know how to cherish our life and still treat yourself. I’m confused about whether I cheated or not. I’m going back to my parents’ home. You can live it yourself.” He immediately took the child back to his parents’ home. The child was not yet one year old at that time. After Shen confided in his friend Lin Huiyin the pain of his mental infidelity, their marriage was saved in time. Shen and Gao distanced themselves, and took his wife and children to the Southwest Associated University to teach. Unexpectedly, she met Gao again at the Southwest Associated University and had an affair with her a second time. Gao finally ended the relationship by marrying a teacher despite being pressured to get married.
For ordinary people, less than a year after marriage, the children are still young, and the wife gives up the superior living conditions of her parents' family and marries a poor boy, you will have an affair. It would be a marriage like this for anyone. It couldn't last, but Zhang still accompanied Shen through the rest of his life. Even after the marriage crisis, Shen's career suffered a major setback when he reached middle age. He was extremely depressed, fell into a desperate situation, and committed suicide twice. Zhang did not. Abandoning Shen Congwen, she took her husband home and took care of him with all his clothes on until Shen Congwen recovered physically and mentally. Their marriage also reunited at this time. During the Cultural Revolution, Zhongzhao and Xiangxia May 7th Cadre School were undergoing labor reform, and the two were separated in two places. The 65-year-old Zhong Zhong picked up paper and pen and wrote affectionate letters to his wife. Their old relationship was rekindled by these love letters. When the second sister Yunhe went to see Shen who was living alone in 1969, he took out a crumpled letter from his pocket and said to Zhang Yunhe with a mixture of tears and laughter: "This is what the third sister (Zhang Zhaohe) gave me. The first letter." He held up the letter, his face looked shy and gentle, and he put the letter on his chest to warm it, and then he started crying. The old man's face was still shining with the intoxication of a boy in first love. light. In old poems, Shen Congwen once wrote: "If it is your misfortune that I love you, your misfortune will be as long as my life; please put me in your heart like a mark and carry it on your arm." It's like a stamp. I chant the Song of Songs to hope for you, my good man."
The poet's love is persistent, deep and delicate. In this regard, Zhang Zhaohe once scolded: "You are better than me. Everyone seems young and insignificant, just because you lack the necessary 'normality'!"
When Shen passed away at the age of 86 in 1988, Zhang Zhaohe compiled and published the multi-million-word "The Complete Works of Shen Congwen" for him! , also reflected on their marriage and love past. She concluded the marriage between the two of them by saying, "When Cong Wen and I get along in this life, is it happiness or misfortune? There is no answer. I don't understand him, not completely. Later, gradually I have some understanding, but to truly understand his character and the heavy pressure he endured throughout his life is to compile and compile his manuscripts. What I didn't know in the past, I know now; what I didn't understand in the past, I understand now. , but he was a rare and kind-hearted person."
In 2003, Zhang Zhaohe passed away, and some of their ashes were buried together in Shen Congwen's hometown of Fenghuang. This persistent, stubborn and romantic young man from Xiangxi finally brought the lover he had pursued throughout his life. Returned to my hometown.
Conclusion: In my observation, Shen’s deep-seated inferiority complex has been suppressed, and was released by Gao Qingzi. His natural romantic and delicate emotions are easily derailed, and his deep love for Zhang Zhaohe is also easy to derail. It is touching that life crises and difficulties have accompanied Shen throughout his life. Perhaps this is the result of Shen's nature and destiny!
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I often lament the happiness and misfortune of marriage, as the old saying goes: Happy marriages are all about happiness and misfortune. It’s the same, every unhappy marriage has its own misfortunes.” The happiness of harmonious harmony is naturally enviable, but each misfortune either makes people feel sad or laments. People are most likely to get lost in love. Intoxicated, this is especially true for people engaged in literature and art. There are not many people who understand them. If they find someone who is in harmony with their emotions, they will burst out with heart-shaking emotions.
I read a lot. After reading the information about Shen and Zhang, let's read the novel "Border Town" that has amazed the world! It is said that there are shadows of Zhaohe and Gao Qingzi in it. I have watched this movie and I like the beautiful and beautiful scenery of Western Hunan. The style of the film was produced, and the storyline was extremely simple. However, the green river, the girl Cuicui by the water, and the grandfather on the ferry were always impressive. When I read the text, the movie scenes immediately jumped into my eyes.