Then everyone should listen to me. I told him not to do that.
Oh, how could you? I did it for your own good. Did you listen?
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There will always be some people who have a sense of superiority from nowhere and point fingers at your life from the top, as if they know better than you what you should do.
At this time, my attitude is usually hehe and supercilious look. Please don't tell me what to do with my life when I don't know the situation. Everyone has everyone's pursuit, ideas and ways of doing things. When others don't ask for your advice and you don't get their consent, please don't tell me as if I know what you should do.
First: our relationship is not ripe enough for you to tell us what to do;
Second: this is my own business. I have an idea in my heart, you don't have to say it.
Third: the advice you give may not be brilliant;
Fourth, our positions, gains and losses and attitudes are different, which leads to our different concerns;
Fifth: Even if you are my elder, leader and boss, I respect you, but I don't necessarily need to listen to you in everything, because I am an independent individual, I have my own thoughts and considerations, and I have my own way of doing things.
Each of us welcomes sincere help and suggestions from others, which is why it is always unforgettable to give timely help. But when you have ulterior motives, please don't talk to me like it's good for me, and don't tell me what to do with my life. You may not know this picture is particularly disgusting.
Sometimes, my current state and life are my own choices, or I am too deep to change anything else. What I need is effective and powerful help, opportunity and change. Instead of a suggestion that is neither salty nor light, to put it bluntly, it is like telling people to drink more hot water when they have a cold. It's dull and boring.
Because each of us is selfish, success always belongs to one cause, and failure always wants to belong to another. So when you can't help or fight together, what you can do as a bystander is to shut up and stop mumbling, that is, what should you do? Why don't you talk about my life.